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The giving up/cutting down alcohol support thread! Part 2

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  • fluffyb
    fluffyb Posts: 1,025 Forumite
    Happy Birthday Maman :D :bdaycake: Don't 'beat yourself up' about having a drink for your birthday. If you are a cutter downer like me than there are some times that are an exception to the rule :D

    betty-blue when I had AF days last year I felt incredibly - overwhelmingly tired :confused: For some reason I haven't noticed it this time round though. I think some people experience it but others don't.
  • jo1972
    jo1972 Posts: 8,901 Forumite
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    when I had AF days last year I felt incredibly - overwhelmingly tired :confused: For some reason I haven't noticed it this time round though. I think some people experience it but others don't.

    I am exhausted! I wake up quicker when I have a hangover than when I don't, I snooze the alarm instead :confused:
    DFW Nerd no. 496 - Proud to be dealing with my debts!!
  • mollypolly
    mollypolly Posts: 1,737 Forumite
    Good morning everyone
    Hope everyones ok.


    HAPPY BIRTHDAY Maman hbday.gif

    Love Mollypollyxxxx
    :happylove :happylove
    I'm back!!!!
    DMP starts 1st July 2015:T
    Dfd March 2021 (hoping to get there sooner )
    DMP mutual support group number 444
    Proud to be dealing with my debts at last :j
  • The Mad as March Hares AFM Challenge


    Day 12 in the AFM House and the housemates are celebrating mamans birthday :j Have a great day :bdaycake: :bdaycake:

    Who succeeds? We decide:D


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    bismarck 31/31 (assumed) 11/31
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    budget babe 31/31 11/31
    eselt 31/31 11/31
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    the rugby coach no target set 6/31
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    winebox 16/31 3/31

    No of days pledged = 551
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    :wave: morning all.

    Winebox thanks for the thought, I am fine, just don't have much enlightening wisdom to add :D not that I ever did of course:o Hope you have made it up with OH and well done on 3 its a better result than Feb:T
    Fedupski Hope the whiplash is better today that sounds nasty
    Budgie hope all is well with you

    Still on 7 here but happy with that. Should be AF today then having a "devil" weekend with loads of social events planned. I will be watching my unit intake though as I really am quite a lightweight now which is great, (cheap date anyone:D )

    Have a successful day everyone what ever your goal is.:A
    29th Feb Quit Day :j
  • eselt
    eselt Posts: 604 Forumite
    Hi all- happy birthday maman, have a lovely day.

    GC- I took your advice last night and thought, right I will try and raise my self esteem by doing something for others, so I phoned an old freind and complimented them on how well their daughter had sung in the school play and told them how much I'd missed them since I hadn't been going out drinking, I made sure I only talked about positive things and congratulated them on the fact that they had just got a promotion at work- just little things, but you're right GC when I put the phone down I felt really positive, and my old friend emailed me this morning to say how well I sounded and would I like to go to dinner (and her and OH wouldn't drink). Result. I might spend today thinking about other things I can do- anyone got any ideas?

    Hope everyone is OK today- good luck.
  • winebox
    winebox Posts: 1,129 Forumite
    Gosh eselt well done - lovely idea & lovely result!!

    Jo (& anyone alse who was reading....) you know yesterday I was desperate to get OH to go on this night away with me so he'd drive, well serves me right I spose...he is going to go, so I have to pay for him cos I said I would, but as he wants to leave early next day we're driving separately! So that scheme well & truly backfired on me.:rolleyes: now I can fret for the next 16 days about getting there :eek:

    Hi everybody!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • :D Happy birthday Maman, have a lovely day and hope you get some nice presents!!! present.gif


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    All well here today apart from achiness!

    HI all - another one for me!

    Jo I know exactly what you mean!!
    Total debt 26/4/18 <£1925 we were getting there. :beer:
    Total debt as of 28/4/19 £7867.38:eek:
    minus 112.06 = £7755.32:money:
    :money:Sleeves up folks.:money:
  • jo1972
    jo1972 Posts: 8,901 Forumite
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    Eselt, that's fantastic! Well done :)

    WB, oh dear.....tell him what a waste of petrol that would be and you want to travel with him....can't you leave early the next day too?
    DFW Nerd no. 496 - Proud to be dealing with my debts!!
  • winebox
    winebox Posts: 1,129 Forumite
    jo1972 wrote: »
    Eselt, that's fantastic! Well done :)

    WB, oh dear.....tell him what a waste of petrol that would be and you want to travel with him....can't you leave early the next day too?

    Not really - it's my niece's 40th birthday (obv I was very young when she was born ;) ) do & her birthday is actually the next day, & she lives 8000 miles away (which is why she's rented a house for us all) so I haven't seen her for months & months!
  • winebox
    winebox Posts: 1,129 Forumite
    Sorry maman - Many Happies from me too......
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