The January 2009 BR Club

So_Sad_Angel

startagain wrote: »

Thankyou, thankyou, thankyou.. I can't believe that I, a middle aged intelligent female, am behaving like a lovestruck teenager!

get a grip woman..... lol

SA

:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: hopefully no more `weak moments` this week

.....stand back from that mobile phone girl !!!!

Enjoy your own space for a while.

Personally having been married for 20+ years I am loving the freedom!!!:D

Angex

So_Sad_Angel

philnicandamy wrote: »

S.A from a mans point of view...I split with my fiance of 8yrs a few weeks ago its hard BUT move on...wonderful & better things await you round the corner




Phil

Sorry to hear that Phil...hope you are doing OK.

Angex

startagain_2

philnicandamy wrote: »

S.A from a mans point of view...I split with my fiance of 8yrs a few weeks ago its hard BUT move on...wonderful & better things await you round the corner




Phil

Thanks phil and I am sorry to hear about your fiancee .... you sound pretty positive.. I will follow suit.

SA

philnicandamy

startagain wrote: »

Thanks phil and I am sorry to hear about your fiancee .... you sound pretty positive.. I will follow suit.

SA

I'm not saying its gonna be easy SA cos its not been...BUT i'm trying to stay strong & who knows what the future will bring

delcon68

Hi
Had OR meeting on telephone yesterday......God you read some posts and hear that it was ok, but this was far from ok. 1stly she started by saying i might not be able to keep my £400 car, as i could use puplic transsport, Then after much debate and tears from me, she said that i would be ok to keep it. Then we went back to when i was first married 16 years ago. We then talked about house sales etc. explained about ex etc and she seemed ok. then we got onto SOA. She said she was happy with everything, but would not give me anything for birthdays or christmas, she did let me have £20.00 for holiday. When i said about birthday / Christmas she looked at my food and put that up a little then also put my clothing up a little also petrol i think. well in the end my IPA was for around £80.00 of which i had £170 disposable, Which is ok as least there is an end. She did say that this would be confirmed and would continue for 3 years, she never said anything about it being reviewed. I felt very drained afterwoulds, it took about 1 hour 20 mins. She ended up being nice about the extra money on outgoingings. She said this would take about 6 weeks to sort. That i might be eligable for early Discharge, that a letter would come re: this. Well just wanted to let you know my experiance.

Thanks

startagain_2

thanks delcon for that ..... poor you! At least it is over and done with now.
I am not kidding when I say that I am dreading mine on Monday. You have proved the point that despite all the reassurances in the world that it will be OK and the worst is over - it all depends on the person who you get to interview you, and I suspect what side of the bed they got out of that morning!!!
I wonder why she went back that far?
You have earned a celebratory drink tonight .... well done!

SA

delcon68

Thanks, She was very nice at the end about give me extra outgoings, so that i could put some money towards presents. I am not sure about going back, she did say after i explained everything, that it was longer than five years ago, so would not really need info, as it was a little hard to remember some of the dates, etc.

yellowmonkey

Blimey SA. OR interview Monday. That seems to have come round quick. Easy for me to say mind as I bet it has dragged for you.

Hi to all Jan Clanners :hello:

ym

startagain_2

yellowmonkey wrote: »

Blimey SA. OR interview Monday. That seems to have come round quick. Easy for me to say mind as I bet it has dragged for you.

Hi to all Jan Clanners :hello:

ym

Have you been busy ym - I have missed you!

Come round quick - 5 weeks after BR, just want it behind me and not ahead !

SA

yellowmonkey

Have been working lots really and have been keeping up but not posting. Seem to be suffering from the "What if's" ATM but managed to snap out of that :rolleyes: as it does you no good.

Good luck for Monday. Im sure you will be fine

ym