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MSE Pregnancy Club IV

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  • MrsTinks
    MrsTinks Posts: 15,238 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Combo Breaker Name Dropper
    right sorry I have just caught up (sorry Tara!) Soon as you said head it clicked and now I remember :)
    As Sami said - take your written notes with you as well as list of witnesses etc - make your own notes at the time if you feel up to it and then if you do decide to leave you can speak to ACAS about constructive dismissal if need be.
    Huge hugs and good luck for tomorrow - let us know how it goes! I'm sure it will all be fine!
    DFW Nerd #025
    DFW no more! Officially debt free 2017 - now joining the MFW's! :)

    My DFW Diary - blah- mildly funny stuff about my journey
  • tarajayne
    tarajayne Posts: 7,081 Forumite
    On a much more important note, my DD 8 got a place at a local competative swimming club tonight. She was beaming when she got out of the pool, once she's 9 she can enter the galas. Very proud.
    Too many children, too little time!!!
    :p
  • Triggles
    Triggles Posts: 2,281 Forumite
    Tara - hope everything goes okay! Good luck!

    We went to our local Asda for the baby event - what a disappointment! Everything split into different aisles, so it was hard to find. Nothing much interesting there at all! Oh well!

    We have our 12wk scan tomorrow - guess how much sleep I'll get tonight? Probably very little!!!
    MSE mum of DS(7), and DS(4) (and 2 adult DCs as well!)
    DFW Long haul supporters No 210
    :snow_grin Christmas 2013 is coming soon!!! :xmastree:
  • Sorry to hear about your rubbish day Krystal... hugs

    WEll, I popped on to fill you in on Pickle world...
    I had an AWFUL 'review' - completely out of the blue and totally unfounded reasoning. I didn't have the energy or brain power to argue my point... I sat there looking in disbelief as they tore strips off of me.
    2 days later I get a sort of apology 'we actually got access to the work you've been doing and we didn't realise etc etc'
    2 days after that, I got a 98% apology.

    The only thing is that in the initial 'review' they threatened me with my job and said I had a month to 'turn things around'. So I don't know where I stand now. And I know it sounds silly, but I don't want to ask either - I don't want to rock the boat and TBH, I haven't the brain power or emotional stability to venture down that road.
    *sigh*
    I'm still very tired - not made better by the fact that my glucose levels were high so I have to cut right back on sugar... agony as that's what I'm craving!

    Bit of a moan really! I'm so sorry to be so blummin miserable!!

    Love to you all...
    Pickle
    xoxox
  • tarajayne
    tarajayne Posts: 7,081 Forumite
    Thinking of you Pickle, I might not have a job by the end of tomorrow either. Crap thing is I know I do a bloody good job, everybody has said it and all because this country has gone childrens rights mad on the say so of one 7 year old I could be out on my ear. Lets hope that the interviewers have the common sense to see what a load of crap this is! Have you not, like me, worked long enough now to get MA even if you loose your job now?
    Too many children, too little time!!!
    :p
  • Oh Pickle!

    Would a pervy pregnant lady hug make you feel any better?

    Have two ;)


    :grouphug:

    :grouphug:


    Edit - want to join in taraj?? ;o)
    r.mac wrote: »
    please listen to MFD - she is a wise woman :D
    Proud Mummy to the gorgeous Benjamin John born 14 March 2009, 8lbs 14oz
    A new little seedling on the way, due 30 September 2012
  • angelfairy
    angelfairy Posts: 3,594 Forumite
    ((hugs)) LP..sorry you aren't having a good time of it lately.

    another here that wasn't impressed at asda. gutted really. got some plain white sleepsuits that i wanted anyway and some wipes. no breast pump at mine unfortunately which is what i wanted. oh well.

    should be going to sleep, but keep looking online at different baby things
  • angelfairy
    angelfairy Posts: 3,594 Forumite
    ladies who have had growth scans (34 weeks), what did bubs actually weigh compared to what you were advised at the scan???
  • Triggles
    Triggles Posts: 2,281 Forumite
    AF - we have a few small baby items we will need to purchase, and we're thinking we'll check out Boots for some of it. At least then we get Boots points. We'll watch for sales and when you get more points.
    MSE mum of DS(7), and DS(4) (and 2 adult DCs as well!)
    DFW Long haul supporters No 210
    :snow_grin Christmas 2013 is coming soon!!! :xmastree:
  • angelfairy wrote: »
    ladies who have had growth scans (34 weeks), what did bubs actually weigh compared to what you were advised at the scan???


    Try not to worry about it sweetie - bubs has measured bang on so far hasn't he? When you saw the midwife last week did she say 'OMG - IT'S A WHOPPER IN THERE :eek: ' or 'you are measuring just about right Mrs AngelFairy' ??


    ;):D
    r.mac wrote: »
    please listen to MFD - she is a wise woman :D
    Proud Mummy to the gorgeous Benjamin John born 14 March 2009, 8lbs 14oz
    A new little seedling on the way, due 30 September 2012
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