MSE Pregnancy Club IV

Sami_Bee

astonsmummy wrote: »

Oh great, we have it near enough every day, it will cost me a fourtune! :rotfl:

You can get them for free :money: I have tonnes of mates ones from family planing they said "we'll give you some while you wait for your IUS" (this was after I had chris) they gave me about 30 to last about 3 weeks :rotfl: I didn't use any of them

Triggles

cazscoob - aw hun, hugs for you! I can't imagine how you're feeling right now, especially with all the hormones and such! I cry at adverts, so well done to you for holding it together! A good cry will make you feel better anyway, so don't feel like you can't! Then you can take a deep breath and figure out what to do. I agree it's possible he's freaking out a bit with a baby almost due. Hopefully you can work it out, if that's what you want to do. Either way, you know you have our support!

Sami_Bee

Caz, :kisses3: maybe he's just feeling overwhelmed at the moment and just needs a bit of "space" (why he picks now to do this tho...men!) I think its hard when you're young like us, Me n OH split for about 6mths (after I cheated on him ) not long before I got preg with Chris, it was awful at the time but I'm glad we did coz it made us both realise the grass isn't greener on the other side and we are meant to be together. If you've never had time apart it could be a good thing but I hope he realises quickly!! love n hugs xx

MrsTinks

Caz - I'm sorry you're feeling down and I'm sorry he's decided to pick now whilst you're pregnant to make this decision
If you can get him to agree then I think some councelling is a good idea - even if it does nothing more than give you both some closure...
I would say give the guy credit where credit is due - I don't think it's something he's rushed into deciding... Obviously his communication skills lack somewhat or he'd have spoken to you a lot earlier about your cheating still affecting him...
Look to the future and try to stay positive... I know it's going to be hard, but you have a little bump to think about and 4 other gorgeous kids - and given time like Sami says you may find that you both realise that you ARE meant to be together...

cazscoob

sorry had to feed kids, im so confused he has went to his mums and said he will be back later. i feel that he has got everyone to talk to and i have noone. i kind of gave up everything and everyone to prove to him how much i loved him and wanted to be with him. the main prob being that friends all still spoke to other guy and i wanted a break from everything. so now im in a village with noone thats really that close to me and i dont really have anyone i can turn to? things have never been 100% since new year but i just thought hormones and trying to get house/kids back into a routine didnt help all that much? am sooo lost right now cant even think what to say? all i can say is thanks you lot xx

slscarborough

I really feel for you caz. DH and I went through an extremely bad patch just after DS2 was born. I think I cried everyday for 2 months but we eventually worked through it. Sometimes saying you are leaving is just a cry for help.

mrsmortenharket

Has anyone suffered with depression?

I have been off work for amonth. Due to go back for 2 weeks & then MAt Leave starts.

Am considering not going back.

I am not better. TBH, if anything worse.

Or am I the only miserable old trout?!

Lisa x

angela6834

So sorry Caz.....I hope he realises what he has and re thinks things.....

You can always talk to us x

Sami_Bee

mrsmortenharket wrote: »

Has anyone suffered with depression?

I have been off work for amonth. Due to go back for 2 weeks & then MAt Leave starts.

Am considering not going back.

I am not better. TBH, if anything worse.

Or am I the only miserable old trout?!

Lisa x

If you have been off work because you've been signed off by doctor then I suggest you go back to doc's to see about getting more help, ignoring the problem will just make it worse

mollythewestie

((((((Hugs))))) to you Caz. I really don't know what to say, I really feel for you and i am thinking of you. I hope your OH just needs some space to think things through and you can sort things out. And remember you always have people to speak to - us!