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  • Hi guys, I'm just over 7 weeks and my three year old got in bed with us this morning and kicked me in the back, it hurt and think I imagianed tummy streching pains. Only very tiny ones, if that. Will it be ok?
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  • MrsTinks
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    Sparkly - I think it's always worth havign it checked out to put your mind at ease... HOWEVER - I went to see my doc before I got pregnant to discuss if I could carry on horseriding when I got pregnant and if so how long etc (ok I didn't but only because my morning sickness was so extreem!) what he said was that for the first 3 months even a fall from a horse would be unlikely to dislodge a "healthy" pregnancy anyway - if I got injured badly enough that it was a danger to the baby the injury would be severe at any rate that it would not be their first concern... Basically the body places the pregnancy at the deepest point in your abdomen it can to protect it so it will probably be fine. Whether you have pulled any muscles however is a different matter altogether!
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  • Sami_Bee
    Sami_Bee Posts: 14,555 Forumite
    Lisa - congrats! I had a TLP coz I tested early (I just "knew" I was) but didn't quite beleive it until the next day when I did a digital one! x

    SB your labour apart from being induced is quite similar to mine last time :D
    I'm really glad you had a VBAC :T at the time you think it's too hard/too painful but then you see your bubba and suddenly it's all seen through rose tinted glass ;) Keep posting in the parent club so I don't get SB withdrawals! xx
    The very best is sometimes what nature gives us for free.
    3onitsway wrote: »
    I think Sami is right, as always!
  • Sami_Bee
    Sami_Bee Posts: 14,555 Forumite
    Sparkly If they kicked you in the back you should be fine, there's lots of "stuff" in there to cushion the blow, My LO is 2 in 9days :eek: he's always kneeing my bump when I carry him and jumping on me in bed :rolleyes: baby usually just rolls over or occasionally tries to kick back (that's my girl/boy!) I'm heard from somewhere that it would take something much more powerful like a horse kicking you in the stomach to do anything to bubba.

    PS. Tine are you riding again? My friend has a rather tempermental horse called Barney and he "told" her she was preg both times as his personality completely changes when she's preg, he is much more chilled and gentle *awww*
    The very best is sometimes what nature gives us for free.
    3onitsway wrote: »
    I think Sami is right, as always!
  • keelykat
    keelykat Posts: 3,341 Forumite
    Hello ladies! Hope everyone is well and the 2009 bumps are behaving themselves!

    I am so enjoying being Mummy to my ‘children’. Jamie is an absolute dream and I can’t stop staring at him thinking last week he was still cooking in my tum! He is currently fast asleep in his Moses basket being looked after by Daddy. The plan goes that I come to bed around 10ish and the boys stay and play on the Xbox or watch some sci-fi! DH has been doing the feed around midnight and we then take it in turns to do the 3am! Then he wakes at 6am and that’s when I usually start my day. Poppy has really taken to him and walks over and kisses his forehead – my heart could melt!

    Right, on to The Birth Story! :D

    Arrived at the hospital induction ward at 9:30am and after being examined I was exactly zero cm dilated so had my first lot of prostaglandin at 10:30am and was told I would not be examined again for 6 hours. Told DH to go home and see to the dog and have a rest (Poppy was staying at Nanna’s).

    DH came back around 4pm just in time for my next exam but still absolute zero so another I had another dose of the gel! I was told that if nothing had happened within the next 6 hours, scheduled for 10:30pm, I would be transferred to a labour room and my waters would be broken. I sent DH home again around 6pm as I was so tired and just wanted to sleep. My cough and cold was getting worse and I had hardly slept the night before due to all the excitement of meeting my baby!

    Around 8pm I started to get crampy period type pains and asked for paracetamol which took the edge off and I was happy thinking, wow, I can easily cope with this lol. But the pain gradually got stronger and I felt two little ‘pop pops’ at around 10pm. I got up to go the loo and my waters broke but I thought I had wet myself at first! I ran to the bathroom with my PJ’s soaking, came back to my bed only to find I hadn’t finished and more water was to come! Whipped the sheet off my bed and whimpered for the MW lol. The pain was getting really bad at this point so I called DH and the MW hooked me up to the monitor to check my contractions.

    I had a tiny bit of my bed curtain open and as soon as someone walked past, I yelled that I needed some pain relief! Apparently there was a huge emergency going on and my MW had been called away so this lovely auxiliary (not sure if they are still called that?) went away but rushed back to take me to my labour room while she struggled with all my luggage – poor thing!

    She gave me gas and air and I could have hugged her! When my MW finally arrived I was put me on the monitor again but she had to leave to see to her post natal patient. I was in pain but she kept asking me was this my first baby. I think she thought I was making a huge deal about nothing! DH arrived and I couldn’t get my words out quick enough between contractions and sucking the gas but I did however manage to yell that he was my advocate and I needed him to get me help now!

    MW came back and I was half clinging off the bed. She told me it would be better if I changed positions as I couldn’t possibly be comfortable – I could have seriously thumped her!!!

    She eventually examined me, still with the impression I was a wimp, but it was then all systems go and her attitude soon changed as I was fully dilated and ready to push! I really don’t know who was more shocked!

    I couldn’t believe it was happening so quickly! She asked DH if he would like to see the head (eek!) which he did – still can’t believe he did that lol. He then held my hand tight and I gave birth to our gorgeous ‘little’ 10lb 12.5oz boy and he cut the cord – still can’t believe he did that either!

    I had a second degree tear and stitches but the whole experience was absolutely amazing and I felt a million feet tall knowing I had done it mostly by myself, with a little help from gas and air. It was a complete contrast to Poppy’s dramatic arrival and so different to what I expected.

    My notes say:

    Rupture of membranes 22:15
    Onset of labour 22:30
    Second stage 00:05
    Active second stage 00:10
    Birth of baby 00:22
    Delivery of placenta 00:30

    Duration I 1hr 35mins
    Duration II 0hr 17mins
    Duration III 0hr 08mins
    Total 2hrs 00mins
    Duration of ruptured membranes 2hrs 07mins

    Right, I think that’s just about it!! I’ve tried to be as honest as I can (i.e. it does hurt!) but the result is the beautiful baby you have been carefully baking for the past 9m and you really do parcel the pain to the back of your mind.

    I’m so excited for all you Mummy’s to be as you have this amazing experience to come and my journey has now ended! But I am the happiest Mummy ever and consider myself blessed.

    xxx
    Ive only just found out you had your baby! came on seeing who had given birth! Big congrats!! :D xx
    Mommy to Elliot (5) and Lewis (born xmas eve 11!)
  • Sami_Bee
    Sami_Bee Posts: 14,555 Forumite
    EDD
    Rara32 - 22nd December 2008
    Ladyra - 26th December!!
    sooz - 30th December 2008
    Spendaholic13 - 31st December 2008
    2009
    nesky99 - 4th January 2009
    ladybirdintheuk - 5th January 2009
    Flipper_72 - 8th January 2009
    Madmoobag - 10th January 2009
    Bekkki1 - 12th January 2009
    boredjellybean - 13 January 2009
    r.mac - 24th January 2009
    Lday77 - 1st February 2009
    spyrobabe - 5th February 2009 (C/section Offered 39W- Its a Boy!)
    Jamz (well Mrs Jamz) - 7th February 2009
    3onitsway - 9 February 2009
    sampainter - 11th February 2009
    lucifa73 - 11th February 2009
    Bounty2009 - 15th February 2009
    cazscoob - 16 February 2009
    durham05 - 17 February 2009
    MrsHayes - 20 February 2009
    bargainbird - 21 February 2009
    voodoozoe - 23rd February 2009
    Mikeboy - 28th February 2009
    My Fathers Daughter - 2nd March 2009 (boy!)
    happytails - 3rd March 2009
    carrieparkinson - 4th March 2009 (ish)
    Millie's Mum - 7 March 2009
    new mum again - 10 March 2009
    Redmel1621 - 12th March 2009
    jenkellyxx - 12th March 2009
    angelfairy - 13 March 2009 - Fri 13th it is so NOT happening on that day
    CanadaBound - 14 March 2009
    Snuffilin - 15 March 2009
    Astroming - 15 March 2009
    olliesmummy06 - 16 march 2009
    bathbabe - 17 March 2009
    crazyaboutsaving - 18 March 2009
    Cookiesncream/cookie304 - 19th March 2009 (could change though!!)
    JanineGr - 19th March 2009 (by my reckoning)
    taney - 19th March 2009
    Choccie - 22 March 2009
    mummy2mygirls - 23 March 2009
    angchris - 24th march 2009
    candygirl's daughter - 26th March 2009
    mrsctobe! - prob march 2009 but having a little confusion over due date!
    jakesmummy - 31st March 2009
    bloomin freezing - 2nd April 2009
    LittleMoo - 3rd April 2009
    wendyf - 5th April 2009
    slscarborough - 8th April 2009
    newmum1 – 9th April 2009
    sparkle03 - 15th April 2009
    xredwebx - 17th April 2009
    sismith42- 19 April 2009
    astonsmummy - 20th April 2009
    feelinggood - 20th April 2009
    cat4772 - 21st April 2009
    emma-uk – 21st April 2009
    cybermum- 26th April 2009
    Ems2 - 29 April 09
    freyaluck - 4th May 2009
    Kathy72- 5th May 2009
    Claire Jones - 6th May 2009
    RiaAnn - 8th May 2009
    shellsuit - 9th May 2009
    Icklebeans - 13th May 2009. Twins!!!
    MrsTine - 16th May 2009
    Krystaltips - 17th May 2009
    Candice56 - 18th May 2009
    greent - 19th May 2009
    ticklepenny – 22 May 2009
    code-a-holic - 22 May 2009
    Princess 81 - 23 May 2009
    Blottedcopybook - 28th May 2009
    Honeypop - 3rd June 2009
    Sami_Bee - 3rd June 2009
    Stargirl12 - 4th June 2009
    Mookiandco - 12th June 2009
    Searching_me - 12th June 2009
    Saverram_ 13th june 2009
    Hedgehog28 - 19th June 2009
    pinkpig08 - 28th June 2009
    mollythewestie - 29th June 2009
    moneymaker - some date in June, will hopefully find out soon !!!
    maryjane01 - 01 July 2009
    tarajayne- 2nd July 2009
    angela6834 - 5th July 2009
    Nicole136 - 8th July 2009
    Alex1234 - 10th July 2009
    LittlePickle - 10th July 2009
    Lu T - 11th July 2009
    elle_gee - 19th July 2009
    Skintchick - 20th July 2009
    Newmoneysaver - 5th August 2009
    djdymond - 13th August 2009
    AylesburyGirl-16th August 2009
    Jvic28 - 18th June - 17th August 2009
    Shelvis - 24th August 2009
    HypnoNu - 25th August 2009

    TTC LIST
    witchyroo, sjm, Fishcake_random, Lesleydejager, jo_jo, picklesmum, durham_girl, likabu, Pooky, emptypocketz, Miss_pink & Mr Pink, Boobylou, lilmrsmullen, jiblets1, Lillian06, Uisge10, CHARLIE54, Andrea78, AnnieM, Wondermum07, Melvis, Janec08, Helen79, Hayley11, Ruth.77, fattybooboo, lisabell, elastigirl, Filmstar,Becky_Sleaf

    BIRTH LIST
    Poppyjoe - 12th December 2008 at 22:54 by emergency CS 7lb 13, we have named him Fraser
    SallyCinnamon - 14th December (11 days early) by emergency CS. Sophie Louise 8lb 6oz
    SeptemberBaby - 28th December Jamie Jack born at 00:22am on Sunday 28 December 2008 weighing a 'whopping' 10lb 12.5oz!
    miss_corerupted - ?th December 8lb 15oz. Gethin Morgan
    onlyroz - Monday 29th Dec 2008, 7lb 7oz, Ellie


    PROBABLY GIVEN BIRTH BUT TOO WORN OUT TO LOG ON LIST
    Usually allow 2 weeks after EDD before transferring to this list...
    Avfcforever - 7th December 2008
    Verianna – 8 December 2008 (girl)
    Paddington- 9th December 2008 - a girl!

    Thought I'd post the list so it's easy for all these newbies to find it when they work out their EDD's :D
    The very best is sometimes what nature gives us for free.
    3onitsway wrote: »
    I think Sami is right, as always!
  • astonsmummy
    astonsmummy Posts: 14,219 Forumite
    Sami_Bee wrote: »
    Lisa - congrats! I had a TLP coz I tested early (I just "knew" I was) but didn't quite beleive it until the next day when I did a digital one! x

    SB your labour apart from being induced is quite similar to mine last time :D
    I'm really glad you had a VBAC :T at the time you think it's too hard/too painful but then you see your bubba and suddenly it's all seen through rose tinted glass ;) Keep posting in the parent club so I don't get SB withdrawals! xx
    Ohh I didnt realise she had a VBAC, thats what i'm hoping for, so fingers corssed!
    :j Baby boy Number 2, arrived 12th April 2009!:j
  • Sami_Bee
    Sami_Bee Posts: 14,555 Forumite
    Ohh I didnt realise she had a VBAC, thats what i'm hoping for, so fingers corssed!

    Oh now I'm wondering if baby brain made it up! :confused: I think poppy was an emergency c-section.

    anyway lady, what were you doing watching darts yesterday? :rotfl:I was too but not out of choice
    The very best is sometimes what nature gives us for free.
    3onitsway wrote: »
    I think Sami is right, as always!
  • MrsTinks
    MrsTinks Posts: 15,238 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Combo Breaker Name Dropper
    Sami_Bee wrote: »
    Sparkly If they kicked you in the back you should be fine, there's lots of "stuff" in there to cushion the blow, My LO is 2 in 9days :eek: he's always kneeing my bump when I carry him and jumping on me in bed :rolleyes: baby usually just rolls over or occasionally tries to kick back (that's my girl/boy!) I'm heard from somewhere that it would take something much more powerful like a horse kicking you in the stomach to do anything to bubba.

    PS. Tine are you riding again? My friend has a rather tempermental horse called Barney and he "told" her she was preg both times as his personality completely changes when she's preg, he is much more chilled and gentle *awww*

    I was up till I fell pregnant... my main concern was that I seemed to be combining flying lessons with my riding lessons and managed to get a back injury before falling pregnant - hence getting medical advice before carrying on :) I'm sorry to say the horse didn't seem to show the slightest sympathy for me when pregnant ( i would have had one or two lessons before I knew myself :) ) but then it wasn't my horse but a riding school horse - lovely though she is! :)
    DFW Nerd #025
    DFW no more! Officially debt free 2017 - now joining the MFW's! :)

    My DFW Diary - blah- mildly funny stuff about my journey
  • Hi - is anyone else suffering with nose bleeds. I have never had a nosebleed in my life including my other pregnancies however this morning it wont stop bleeding.
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