Leaving my husband

rolo-polo1965

Oh my i cant believe this

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rolo-polo1965 Friday

Spoke to soliciter today. She is preparing some paperwork for me which i should have next week. He has told me i can buy him out of the house, so spoke to a financial adviser and i can do this and will be paying a mortgage that is less than the rent.

Very pleased.

Will update with news as it happens


It is 2 months to the day since you first posted. Look how far you have come in that short time!!!

Your latest news is fantastic. You are a real inspiration Rolo.

msb5262

I am so much in agreement with yoni_one. You are an inspiration!
Harriet x

rolo-polo1965

Hi

Saw mortgage people and yes they have given me a provisional offer of a mortgage, so i can buy him out of the marital home which is brilliant.

I have spoken to all the kids and they are happy to move back home if he moves out and signs it over to me.

He is driving me mad with teh amount of emails he is sending me, yes i do read them and they all say very musch the same. The same dribble he has been spouting for the past 6 weeks.

I am still waiting for some paperwork from the soliciter regarding the divorce, as soon as that comes he willl have to realise we are over.

As and when i will update

msb5262

Hi Rolo,
This sounds like really good news. Congratulations! I often think of you and wonder how it's all going - the answer is that now you're in control, it's going better every day. Fantastic!
Harriet x

yoni_one

That is fantastic news rolo!!! Sorry he is still bombarding you with emails but I can understand why you read them, they validate everything and are evidence he is not changing. I hope that you gain strength from that.

I am chuffed to bits you are on the road to moving back in, I hope it doesn't get messy when he needs to leave, you know where we are either way.

Money_maker

Great news.

I love a happy ending or a brand new sparkling beginning.

Well done x

McKneff

Hi Rolo, glad things are panning out for you. You've come a long way.
Keep it up. regards
Anne

Emmzi

drive by hug rolo, hope its all still ok!

rolo-polo1965

Hi

Thought i would give you an update:

Went to see soliciter and signed some forms yesterday, for legal aid. She said next step is for her to write to me then we send stuff to courts and to hubby.

Hopefully things will start moving now.

Still not sure i want to buy him out of the house, i know i can afford to and that tha bank will lend me the money. But i am not sure i want to go back there. I have been looking to see what other houses are available rond here to see if we could buy somewhere else. But we will see.

rose28454

rolo-polo1965 wrote: »

Hi

Thought i would give you an update:

Went to see soliciter and signed some forms yesterday, for legal aid. She said next step is for her to write to me then we send stuff to courts and to hubby.

Hopefully things will start moving now.

Still not sure i want to buy him out of the house, i know i can afford to and that tha bank will lend me the money. But i am not sure i want to go back there. I have been looking to see what other houses are available rond here to see if we could buy somewhere else. But we will see.

I have just come across your thread and thought I would say well done. I split from myOH in April 2008 after 27 years and he lives in a nearby village and on the whole things are cordial. However I have stayed in the family home and am left with a large mortgage and a lot of debt. Also in the last month I have been sleeping terribly and feel very low. Hopefully it will pass. The question I wanted to ask is has your OH got an alcohol problem as some of his behaviour reminds me of my OH;s behaviour. He is an alcoholic but has been sober since last April. I go to Al Anon ( for the families of Alcoholics ) and find it really helps. If I have got the wrong end of the stick I apologise but what I am suggesting is you need some counselling yourself to help you get on with your new life. Lots of hugs:j