Different life - so new SOA!! Back once again :D

taxi73

Hi Sea..how are you today?..don't ever feel that it's you as we all know that everything was down to him.You are a wonderful person and in time will meet the right person.
Sorry to hear that your son is being tested for autism.
I'm sure everything will work out fine for you and that you will be so much happier and stronger when things settle.
If you want anything just pm me...

Lemon_Tree

Hi Sea glad you see you again (but it's down to me as i haven't been on as much recently)
sorry to hear that OH is getting you more and more annoyed, i suspect there's lots of counting to 10 going on. At least the solicitor is making a little progress even if it doesn't feel like it.
Hope the littlies are doing ok during all this give them a hug from us.

In_Search_Of_Me

aww hugs for you me lovely. At the moment it sounds as if youre feeling quite overwhelmed which is no surprise in the circumstances. Living with someone who puts you down and is so cruel to you emotionally just adds to it...If there is anything I can do let me know - happy to ring for a chat if it helps. As for being single - what is worse being on your own and happy with the hope of a knight in shining armor or being with the wrong man? Hang in there and keep us posted but more importantly keep posting....

whatatwit

Sea, a mini meet sounds good.....now do we know any good review sites so we can find somewhere decent. :whistle: ....I've heard Chesters in town does a good jacket potato :rotfl:

FiFo_3

Hi everyone
posted on MSE - ask a "cccs advisor a question" but have been overwhelmed by how nice everyone is, am having money worries, oh self employed business really bad, i have filled in Debt remedy on cccs web tring to convincd myself this is the way forward. But like alot of you guys have felt at some point feel as if i'm swimming against the tide, and very scared of what to come. Have 2 kids, worried about christmas. Found cccs deb remedy helpful but i worry about entering a dmp, is it really bad, don't want phone calls at work etc. Please any advice/encouragement would be great.

whatatwit

Hi FiFo, your best bet is to start a new thread on this board.

Click on the 'new thread button' top left of the main page and post your question above......there it will get seen by a lot more people.

Good luck and well done for posting.

FiFo_3

thanks whatatwit as i said am new, you are all brill, have been around for a while but haven't had courage.:j

In_Search_Of_Me

Fifo the hardest thing is accepting you have a prblem and sorting it is liberating...hope you start your own wee thread and sort things soon!

Sea how you doing me lovely? Hope youre ok? Hang in there and remember "this too shall pass"....

Sea78

i really am trying to remember that this too shall pass - although it's getting increasingly difficult!!

I went off to Leeds on Sat night which was great - skint as though now.

Could put a whole lot as to what it's like right now, but I think it's quite obvious really!! He now wants me to divorce him on grounds of adultery, rather than unreasonable behaviour as he thinks my examples are too damning on him. Which they are, but they are the truth!!

Just tired of it all really.

Hope all are well

xxxxxxx

Damita

Well done on SOA and well done on your new life and how much dedt you have already paid off, you should be proud