Different life - so new SOA!! Back once again :D

Different_Corner

Sea
it can't be easy for you. Don't get too stressed and once you feel ready you have to live life as my sig suggests

Sea78

Thanks

It now seems that I'm going to have to find £28 grand to buy him out as I am completely resistant to him having a percentage in my home!! I can do this, but it'll be hard.

Just want him out and not coping so well with it all tbh.

Hope everyone is ok though and is having a good day - Half way through the week tomorrow!!

Sea xxxxx

judi24

Sea I really feel for you! I am in the process of borrowing an extra 25k to buy my ex out just so I can have a clean break and him not have any right over my home - so I understand where you're coming from!
My heart goes out to you x

Sea78

thanks-sorry to hear that you've been in the same boat, but it does help somewhat!

I'm actually really gutted at the moment too because my dreams of having that third chld with him havegone and i can't bear to see baby stuff at the mo - sounds silly I know, but is really affecting me in a way I didn't think it would. I think that I've got in my head that I'll now be alone for the rest of my life, that no one will ever want to be with me as I'm just too much. I don't know. Rambling now!

whatatwit

Oh Sea, don't think that you will be alone for ever.

Wait until that git is out of your hair and then just see how your confidence grows. The real Sea will be back.

Well done on hitting 50.....do they still do the duck pizza at Papas?

Seaxwyn

Sea I feel absolutely certain that you'll have that third baby - and in much happier circumstances than you're in now.

Don't for a minute think that you're 'too much'. You are not the problem - your OH and his drinking were. You are fantastic and deserve better.

Sea78

now I'm all emotional!! Thanks for the lovely posts!

whatawit- hey there We should do a little local meet I think!

Seaxwyn - you're a diamond, thank you. I am just so all over the place and didn't expect to feel any of the feelings I'm feeling if that makes sense. I thought I was over our relationship a long time ago, but realise 8 years with someone actualy will take a grieving time too.

judi24

Sea - I know how hard it is! I was in a garden centre with my mum the other day - they had a lovely range of ornaments called Blue Jeans I think - something like Willow - They were all happy family, mum, dad 2 kids sort of things! My mum was admiring them - I just felt sad and wanted to cry! cos my family is now so dysfunctional!!! (i have been married twice! with kids from each marriage - so didn't learn from the first time!) - It's hard to see that there is anything good in the future - but I'm sure it will all work out for the best (I hate ornaments anyway!!!!!)

Sea78

I have that bloody ornament!!! The husband and wife one!!!!

So going on ebay...

judi24

lol i won't be buying it!!!!