Trying For a Baby II

vickyjayne

i know how you feel, i think my bbs are bigger and since i had a tiny bit of spotting thurs night ive had an ache low down in my back since, itching to do a test but AF not due til Friday

Then i wonder if its all in my head, roll on friday

skintchick

I have no idea when AF is due! I am on day 38 taking the first day of my mc as day one, and usually come on around day 34, so I *could* be late but as it can take six weeks for AF to return I might not be.

Arrgh! It's driving me mad!

Shall I test in the morning or try and wait? Last time I didn't test positive till day 35 and of course that was when everything was normal.

vickyjayne

Curiosty gets the better of me and im very tempted to test in the morning if my tests arrive (bought online)

If you could wait a few days it might be better for you, depends on how you feel about what result you could see.

skintchick

vickyjayne wrote: »

Curiosty gets the better of me and im very tempted to test in the morning if my tests arrive (bought online)

If you could wait a few days it might be better for you, depends on how you feel about what result you could see.

I will be gutted if it's a BFN but I have never had these symptoms before in my life except when I was last PG so I am pretty certain that I am. But I know I tested negative for a week or so last time (when I just knew I was PG) before I got the BFP and so maybe it is better to leave it longer? OH thinks I should wait but I'm not sure why.

vickyjayne

If you could wait until thursday you would be d41 then you would know for sure but if you feel the same as when you were pg i wouldnt be able to help myself.

OH is just thinking of your feelings by waiting a few more days but ultimatly its up you and only you will know how you feel and what you will feel like with whatever result you get

(got everything crossed for you though)

shelly

skintchick wrote: »

But I know I tested negative for a week or so last time (when I just knew I was PG) before I got the BFP and so maybe it is better to leave it longer? OH thinks I should wait but I'm not sure why.

Just on that basis alone I would wait to test. If you test now and get a neg you will be gutted when all along you might be pg but test might not show it.
What harm can a few more days make?


Good luck whatever you decide to do.

GracieP

skintchick wrote: »

I will be gutted if it's a BFN but I have never had these symptoms before in my life except when I was last PG so I am pretty certain that I am. But I know I tested negative for a week or so last time (when I just knew I was PG) before I got the BFP and so maybe it is better to leave it longer? OH thinks I should wait but I'm not sure why.

I don't want to sound negative, and it's perfectly likely that you are pregnant. But on the run up to the 1st AF after my mc all my pregnancy symptoms came back. And I had very, very distinctive symptoms. A tightness in my stomach I'd never felt before and a dyspepsia pain under my breastbone along with a very odd nausea. They were so strong that even though we hadn't BD'd properly I really thought I might be pregnant again. It was absolutely awful as when my AF came it was almost like the mc all over again.

I've googled the phenonmenon a lot but I haven't found anything similar, so maybe I'm just a weirdo.;) But try not to get too excited just in case. You say you can't take the thought of a BFN, but how badly will your AF affect you if you convince yourself you're pregnant now.

elastigirl

I had such a rough nite. I have been cramping all nite and now it's just a dull ache. I hardly slept. I am only on cd9 so it isn't AF i was praying it wasn't something else more nasty but i couldn't be pg yet could i? Hope it goes soon.

HypnoNu

I had a call yesterday from one of my real sisters (I'm adopted) and she's 7 weeks pregnant, I am really pleased for her but now i want it even more for me, I'd love to be able to share the pregnancy with someone so we can go through the experiences together...every day seems so long doing this.

After saying i wasn't going to get obsessed with this i am getting more obsessed by the day, I bought some ovulation tests at the weekend even though we were just going to see if it happened naturally without getting technical, i can't help myself....it doesn't help that I'm not really sure what my "official" cycle length is, I have an idea but this is the month which should confirm the timescale i'm working with, so it means i don't know how long i have to wait for AF....

I guess this is just s bit of a vent and a moan really, I don't have anyone else i can discuss this with, our friends don't really know we've come off the pill and i don't want OH to know i'm getting obsessive because i don't want to add that pressure....:o

ginvzt

Hello everyone! I am back from visiting parents in law this weekend. I was a bit down (a lot) yesterday, and I got a huge temperature drop in the morning (from 36.71 to 36.38!!!) and it was only CD24!!! I was hardly keeping my tears (or not, when I could close the door of the room), as that means I am not pg this month again! 15 cycles gone, and not a little faint laine on any of the tests.... Had a lot of cramping yesterday, especially on the plane. My MIL must have thought I've really lsot it, when I started 'jumping' in the car to the airopirt or at the dinner table! The temp recovered a bit this morning and AF haven't showed up yet, but I am sure it is on the way...

I met my godson to be on Friday and he is so addorable!!!! Not crying at all (only when he is denied food at usual time - he is 4 months old) and he sleeps 11 hours at night without waking up for food - amazing! Going back at the end of December for Baptism.