Trying For a Baby II

Little_Pickle

Hi ladies...

I was going to wait, but we're having a party to night and I wanted to check just in case....

I think I got a BFP...

It's faint but you can see it easily...

can't take it all in....

LP
xox

angela6834

Little_Pickle wrote: »

Hi ladies...

I was going to wait, but we're having a party to night and I wanted to check just in case....

I think I got a BFP...

It's faint but you can see it easily...

can't take it all in....

LP
xox

OMG congratulations....i thought your af wasnt due till 5th november tho?

I wonder if you ov before you thought.....congratulations once again and enjoy your party xx

GracieP

Hi lizziebell, I'm sorry to hear your news. It will be hard going for a while and can hit you and your dh in different ways. He might seem distant right now, but it can hit men differently. Myself and my dh were often in completely different places. He didn't seem too affected by it at first and he said a couple of really insenstive things at times. But it wasn't out of insesnitivity, he just didn't understand. He felt awfully sad for me but not for our loss, iyswim.

It didn't really hit him until about a month afterwards, when a woman he works closely with had her 12 week scan and brought in her pictures. (Which personally I thought was a little insensitive, as she knew about my mc.) It was that that made him really feel his loss.

Try not to let your dh's reaction get to you. Just focus on taking care of yourself as much as you can. It will get better. And then maybe a bit worse for a while. And then better again.

angela6834

I dont want to seem insensitive after the current topic of conversation but Little Pickle spured me on to do a test after her posting tonight and i got a BFP....I cant believe it....we all wish for this but im so shocked now its happened....a bit scared i think xxx

elle_gee

I dont want to seem insensitive after the current topic of conversation but Little Pickle spured me on to do a test after her posting tonight and i got a BFP....I cant believe it....we all wish for this but im so shocked now its happened....a bit scared i think xxx

Yay, congrats to my fellow Friday-er! :j

ETA: Congrats also to LP

nicole136

angela6834 wrote: »

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I have noticed something interesting...well maybe not, but we all seem to spot most symptoms the first week following ov and then thigs seem to return to normal week of af!!!

tHATS WHAT HAPPENed to me, I hads loads of symptoms 1st week then settled down the 2nd, then got my BFP.

Yay for lil p, and angela, :T :j :j :j :j :beer:

congrats. I was really shocked with mine, still not sunk in.

angela6834

nicole136 wrote: »

tHATS WHAT HAPPENed to me, I hads loads of symptoms 1st week then settled down the 2nd, then got my BFP.

Yay for lil p, and angela, :T :j :j :j :j :beer:

congrats. I was really shocked with mine, still not sunk in.

To tell you the truth i would have bet money on the fact i was pregnant the first of the 2ww...but then this last week almost all of them have disappeared.....ln fact i thought i had really bad pmt this morning and thats the reason i didnt do a hpt.....thought i was going to kill someone....i had a strange feeling the egg might have been fertilised but then hadnt implanted because the change was so dramatic....

Thank you everyone for all your support lately...i really dont think id have stayed saine without being able to voice my thoughts here xxx

shelly

Congratulations Little Pickle and angela :j

Wishing you all the best for the coming months.

Shelly x

Little_Pickle

thanks guys.. just stepped away from the party to come back on...
It was faint but you could see it...
We are hoping it's not wrong and not a chemical pregnancy...
*fingers crossed*
It was well within the 3 minutes before you have to disguard.
I just can't believe it...
I'll post a pic in a sec if I can get my camera back!
LP
xox

Stephb1986_2

Yay congratulations!!! Im so pleased for the both of you

Steph xx