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Trying For a Baby II

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  • kencokenco
    kencokenco Posts: 120 Forumite
    Leapardlady just wanteds to say how sorry I am to hear your news. Sending lots of hugs your way hun.:grouphug::grouphug::grouphug:
  • Catw0man
    Catw0man Posts: 859 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Leopardlady so sorry hear your news, sending lots of hugs your way.

    Well I've got to contact the Early Pregnancy clinic tomorrow, so may have to go for a scan, did a pregnancy test tonight and it's still positive so that seems like a good sign and have had no more bleeding so fingers crossed
  • MadMac_2
    MadMac_2 Posts: 1,173 Forumite
    Best of luck Catw0man, fingers crossed for you. Thinking of you also, big hug x
  • Nikabella
    Nikabella Posts: 413 Forumite
    I too would like to come back & join you all.

    Sadly this bean was not meant to be.

    Once I feel strong enough to deal with everything I will be back.

    A.x
    :DBeautiful DD born Jan 2007 :D
    :sad: One Angel baby lost April 2009 :sad:
    :D Beautiful DS born March 2010 :D
  • MadMac_2
    MadMac_2 Posts: 1,173 Forumite
    Oh Nikabella, I'm so sorry to read that. Big hug to you too and hope you will be back soon x

    If anybody wants to PM and chat/vent/cry privately about your loss, do feel free - my virtual door is always open.

    In fact, time for a weirdo group hug! :grouphug:
  • nunnygirl
    nunnygirl Posts: 2,206 Forumite
    Oh no, bless everyone who is back, so sorry to hear it's not to be this time (((hugs))) to everyone who wants one :(
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    2011 Total - £526.62

    2012 Total - £503.87
  • elastigirl
    elastigirl Posts: 581 Forumite
    Hugs to everyone that needs one. I am so sorry for your losses. It does take a while so just take it easy. Thinking of you.

    My af isn't due till next week but i don't feel right at all, I have side pain again! I haven't said anything to my dh as i don't want to worry him as the hospital said they would have to operate if i was admitted again with pain or an ectopic and that i would most likely lose a tube. Maybe i am just worrying myself but the pain is the same as before and i was right then.

    I am throwing myself into cleaning and getting ready for my ds and dh's birthdays tomorrow and good friday to stop myself thinking about it.
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  • nunnygirl
    nunnygirl Posts: 2,206 Forumite
    Elastigirl, if I was you I'd tell someone about the pain, just in case it gets more serious. You've said in your post you've been right about the pain once, no-one knows your body like yourself

    Fingers crossed it's nothing serious hun x
    Sealed Pot Challenge Member 1216 -
    2011 Total - £526.62

    2012 Total - £503.87
  • aless02
    aless02 Posts: 5,119 Forumite
    Sorry to hear about all the losses :(. I'm only on 11 DPO, but this 2ww has been far easier as was distracted by mini-holiday and being very busy. I've decided not to worry and over-analyse too much, as it just makes me miserable when AF shows up...so I'm trying not to think about it and that way AF coming won't be such a let-down. Conversely, if she hasn't shown up on 14-15 DPO, I can start worrying then! :P
    top 2013 wins: iPad, £50 dental care, £50 sportswear, £50 Nectar GC, £300 B&Q GC; jewellery, Bumbo, 12xPringles, 2xDiesel EDT, £25 Morrisons, £50 Loch Fyne

    would like to win a holiday, please!!
    :xmassmile Mummy to Finn - 12/09; Micah - 08/12! :j
  • cedrickerry
    cedrickerry Posts: 256 Forumite
    Hugs to all those who need them and sorry to hear of your losses

    I've started spotting so am probably out for this month. DHs phantom symptoms were not a sign! He's very down about it and wants me to go the docs. We've only been actively TTC for 4 months, but as we've not been actively preventing for 7 years (although not exactly BDing like bunnies) he's adament somethings wrong. I'm happy to wait 2 more months as recommended (I'm 35) but don't want to put added pressure on him. Maybe wait and discuss further when AFs not affecting my thinking.
    2009 total raised £2373.60:j
    the new garden beat me in 2010 just £1306.66:o
    2011 - 365 £ a day.
    Life Changing October 2011 - DF & £10000 saved - twins came - no plans
    2013 - twins now 14 mths old - lets get sorted!
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