Single and in debt.

eco

Ossireo it wouldn't matter if you were a mile behind for me it's been out of the house,my sis comes with me sometimes and she dictates the speed and the breaks, you can have your dinner sitting on a hill looking at the view, it doesn't matter how much money you have the views are worth the walk alone

PrincessPeach_2

eco - a walk in the hills sounds lovely - wish there was something like that near me.

Ossireo, thanks - you're right one day at a time is the way to be - (i am forever planning the following week)

All, wont be doing the diet but will be here cheering you on.

eco

Princess peach I forget how lucky i am to be able to go hiking to some really great places, thats why i should get out more.

PrincessPeach_2

eco, it sounds great, i should get out of London more

Ytaya

eco, that sounds wonderful, a good goal. I've been trying to get outdoors more and walk more - I love it, but sometimes I can't find the motivation to get off my bum and do it. Which is crazy, because when I'm out there walking, I have a good time. I've set myself a goal to walk around the county where I live, there are some paths that link up around the circumference. It'll be good weekend stress relief!

ziggles50

Hi all hope you all had a nice weekend
well its the first day of that diet/healthy eating thing ladies....
well i'll be the first to say i managed to completely forget and ate a packet of fudge for lunch just becasue life sucks big time at the moment...but now i feel ill so it sucks even more...so supper is going to be an uber healthy salad
how's everybody else doing?

dollydumpling

Hi Ziggles50, day one for me too and going OK, but I refuse to throw out food so there are a few unhealthy bits and bobs lying around that will be eaten before I do my first super healthy shop! My official (officially decided by me that is!) is on Thursday as that will be 3 months to the day until my friends wedding.

Sorry to hear that life is bad for you; I hope the fudge helped if only for a short while.

sarahb123_3

Hi, first day for me today, have been quite good so far, but may have a glass of wine later, naughty I know, but will confine myself to a small glass! Have weighed myself and would like to be 20lb lighter by Chrismas, any more will be a bonus. Hoping to do a healthy shop tomorrow, and may go for a long walk if the weather is nice. Hope everyone is ok x

MoneyWorry

Hi everyone.....new to this board

My situation is a little different from everyone else's. I do see someone, but it is only a couple of times a month. He has a very high powered job, many friends and a couple of all consuming hobbies.

In a way it is a bit like being single, lol. The only thing is I don't want to stop seeing him because I really do like him, but I don't want be seen as being clingy and desperate with only him to turn to for company.

Where I am like everyone else on here is although not in debt, I only have very little spare money at the end of the month. I therefore need to do things on my own each month, but can never pluck up the courage. I have managed Starbucks during the day, but not managed the cinema yet.

I then start doing the paranoid worrying thing that I'm not interesting enough?

Silly isn't it? We find someone nice and then drive them away with impatience and worry, lol

paddlingfuriously

Hello everyone - sorry I've been gone for so long. Had my holiday then came back to manic work. Things are finally quietening down again so just caught up with the thread. Started my healthy eating yesterday too. Am going to do my healthy shop tomorrow evening and then planning to go to circuit training on Thursday - haven't been for nearly a month so that is going to hurt! No faster way to get the pounds off though....

How's everyone doing with hammering their debts? I need to have a very frugal month to make up for my holiday spending!