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  • marleyboy
    marleyboy Posts: 16,698 Forumite
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    why are all you lovely ladies soooo far from me,...its sooo not fair
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  • sarahb123_3
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    Hi everyone, just got in, lots to read! Hope you're all ok.

    36, Manchester x
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  • runmichellerun
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    Buffythedebtslayer wrote: »
    32 and in the south

    xx

    South where? Come on, just give us a county ;)
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  • skint_spice
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    marleyboy wrote: »
    My gosh!! ITS NOT?????;)

    do you think that's where I'm going wrong on the internet dating thing? do they want to see my photo???:D
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  • sarahb123_3
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    marleyboy wrote: »
    why are all you lovely ladies soooo far from me,...its sooo not fair

    What do you mean? :D
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  • sarahb123_3
    sarahb123_3 Posts: 2,767 Forumite
    Princess Peach, thanks for cheering me up last night xxx
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  • marleyboy
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    sarahb123 wrote: »
    Hi everyone, just got in, lots to read! Hope you're all ok.

    36, Manchester x
    I got one I got one :D:D:D Drinks are on me hun ;)
    :A:dance:1+1+1=1:dance::A
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  • marleyboy
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    skint_spice wrote: »
    do you think that's where I'm going wrong on the internet dating thing? do they want to see my photo???:D
    No its not the pic hun...tink its the reference to the Spicette ;)
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  • PrincessPeach_2
    PrincessPeach_2 Posts: 313 Forumite
    sarahb123 wrote: »
    Princess Peach, thanks for cheering me up last night xxx

    no probs xxx
  • dollydumpling
    dollydumpling Posts: 54 Forumite
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    35, London.

    I was thinking about this thread today and came to the conclusion that despite the tears and heartbreak my life is better for having met all the men I have been out with. This includes the one who was dating my friend at the same time, the one who ended up chucking himself off of a building coked out of his head thinking he could fly and the one who dumped me 2 days before Christmas (and of course, being the sucker I am I still dropped £300 worth of presents round at his Mums on Xmas eve!).

    And thinking all of that made me really happy; that despite the tears and heartbreak I learnt something about myself from being with each of them and each one had something fabulous about them.

    Does that make sense? I guess what I am saying is that although I am single with no kids and sometimes feel that I've got things wrong, I realised today that if I were given the option of having met "the one" at age 20 and settled down with 2.4 I wouldn't take it as that would mean not having the fun and angst and drama that I've had over the years from dating the wronguns.

    Thanks for all your stories on this thread which have helped me realise this.

    DD xx
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