Single and in debt.

Lula-Hula

TDQO wrote: »

Ello, the non smoking is going fine.

the ex knows I havent moved on, she has, thats the problem!

All this talk of detox is making me feel ill!

Well if she was a nice person then she wouldnt be rubbing your nose in it... better off without her I reckon. Plenty of lovely girls out there for you

TDQO

Lula-Hula wrote: »

Well if she was a nice person then she wouldnt be rubbing your nose in it... better off without her I reckon. Plenty of lovely girls out there for you

Well as usual it's far too complex to explain on an internet forum, especially as I don't have a clue how I feel about it!

Needless to say as soon as I move down to this mine I'm joining the local gym... I fully intend to go back to England buff and bulging with muscle :cool: That'll show her....

Lula-Hula

TDQO wrote: »

Well as usual it's far too complex to explain on an internet forum, especially as I don't have a clue how I feel about it!

Needless to say as soon as I move down to this mine I'm joining the local gym... I fully intend to go back to England buff and bulging with muscle :cool: That'll show her....

Ok, 'nuff said, will just commiserate & sympathise rather than criticize - sorry if I caused offence - wasnt intended .

Yay to looking buff & muscley + tan of course :dance: we might need photographic evidence ...

sarahb123_3

Lula-Hula wrote: »

I dont know what is wrong with me, it has to be starvation or just get fatter, & fatter & fatter I think like the time has come for drastic action & like you, if I can just see the first 5/6 lbs go then it [strike]might[/strike]will make me determined to keep going. 18 months ago I was wearing shorts & vest tops at the allotment... now I dont even want to go there wearing combats - they're not baggy anymore

3 years ago I was practically skinny, apart from huge hips. I had a nice flat stomach and everything:mad: Am so cross with myself for letting it get this bad, with my constant "oh, i'm already overweight, may as well eat this massive cake/burger/plate of chips." The problem is i just have to lose so much, 40lbs ish, it just seems so far away. Have broken it down in my sig into 10lbs a time, but even that seems difficult.

I don't want to spend the rest of my 30s being fat. I want to wear nice clothes and feel comfortable. I want to meet someone and I am avoiding it because I don't feel my best. I don't want to keep doing this every year. It just feels like everything hinges on losing weight. Even if I lose a stone I will still be fat:mad:

TDQO

Lula-Hula wrote: »

Ok, 'nuff said, will just commiserate & sympathise rather than criticize - sorry if I caused offence - wasnt intended .

Yay to looking buff & muscley + tan of course :dance: we might need photographic evidence ...

No, no offence at all! I'm just fed up with the whole situation.

I'd like to be tanned but I'll be spending far too much time in the gym! When I get going I can happily spend 4 nights a week in there and as long as I get a good diet plan sorted I'll be packing on the muscle

Sarah, you can do it! As you said, as soon as you lose the first 5-6lbs you'll realise how easy it is and it'll snowball from there... the fitter you get the faster you'll lose weight.

sarahb123_3

TDQO wrote: »

Sarah, you can do it! As you said, as soon as you lose the first 5-6lbs you'll realise how easy it is and it'll snowball from there... the fitter you get the faster you'll lose weight.

I wish it was as easy to lose as it is to gain I know you are right, as soon as I get a reasonable amount lost I will feel more positive. I need to start thinking along the lines of sensible food being good for me, but am stuck on thinking of food as a treat.

My head is hurting again but I am trying to think of that as a good thing, if it hurts it must be the toxins leaving my system. Am actually developing a taste for fruit teas which is good.:D Might see what other flavours I can find on my trip to the shops tomorrow.

Thanks for the tip about the ipod, it really helped, listened to a self help cd so was an informative walk:D

Lula-Hula

Sarah - I really sympathise, it's just hideous when you feel that you might as well keep on eating because nothing in the wardrobe fits anyway.

When I first started moaning about losing weight I needed to lose about 10lbs... I've just weighed myself & to regain the figure that fits into all my pretty clothes, I now need to lose 20 lbs. :eek: :mad: :eek: :mad: Like you I've previously been pretty skinny but to put this into perspective I'm only 10lb away from the weight I was when I had DD , except it's no longer concentrated into a bump :rolleyes: it's spread equally about my ample person.

Going to bed now, will report in tomorrow

night night
xx

TDQO

Do you have any friends that you could walk with??? Make it into a bit of a competition as to who can walk it the fastest or is less nackered after! When I piled on nearly 3 stone of muscle in 5 months it was because me and a mate challenged each other every day, it became a matter of pride!

sarahb123_3

Lula-Hula wrote: »

Sarah - I really sympathise, it's just hideous when you feel that you might as well keep on eating because nothing in the wardrobe fits anyway.

When I first started moaning about losing weight I needed to lose about 10lbs... I've just weighed myself & to regain the figure that fits into all my pretty clothes, I now need to lose 20 lbs. :eek: :mad: :eek: :mad: Like you I've previously been pretty skinny but to put this into perspective I'm only 10lb away from the weight I was when I had DD , except it's no longer concentrated into a bump :rolleyes: it's spread equally about my ample person.

Going to bed now, will report in tomorrow

night night
xx

We shall spur each other on! Night night x

sarahb123_3

TDQO wrote: »

Do you have any friends that you could walk with??? Make it into a bit of a competition as to who can walk it the fastest or is less nackered after! When I piled on nearly 3 stone of muscle in 5 months it was because me and a mate challenged each other every day, it became a matter of pride!

I did think about that, but to be honest, on the way home I thought, "thank goodness there is no one with me, I wouldn't be able to speak.":o Plus I did enjoy catching up with the downloads on my ipod.