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  • Lula-Hula wrote: »
    Oh Tony,

    you might well be the only blokie in the world that I dont want emasculate today

    :eek: :shocked: :huh: :sad:

    What did I do to deserve that?
  • Hello all. I've not posted for a little while but my misery brings me back as things with 'tall and intesting' aren't going too well. He's a bit younger than me and doesn't seem to have much time for me at all. Although when he's with me he's usually quite attentive. he's also showing signs of selfishness which doesn't do it for me at all!!

    So he's turned into tall, interesting but evasive and therefore probably not what I'm looking for.

    Or am I being too fussy?

    Ossireo, sorry things aren't going too well for you either.
    xx
    LBM February 2008. DFD March 2013 19 August 2011
    Debt at LBM £14,395.48. Debt Now £0
  • eco
    eco Posts: 1,147 Forumite
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    Hi All,
    I'm bored at work i've eaten everything in sight and even tho I'm not hungry I could eat a scabby horse if it helped pass the time.
    michelle maybe it's for the best at least you gave it a go, and you've learnt something, and i don't think your been too fussy, no point wasting time on time wasters or the unreliable.
  • eco wrote: »
    Hi All,
    I'm bored at work i've eaten everything in sight and even tho I'm not hungry I could eat a scabby horse if it helped pass the time.

    Tell me about it. I've got a fridge under my desk so I can keep a week's lunches in there & not spend a fortune on going out for lunch but this afternoon's endless teleconference with strategic use of the mute button has already seen me polish off tomorrow's lunch. :o
  • eco
    eco Posts: 1,147 Forumite
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    SBC if I had a fridge in this office it would be empty now,but thank god I've an hour to go, I'm getting bored of trying to find something to do, and if anyone else interupts me when I'm busy on here I think I will scream, anyway time for a coffee.
  • :eek: :shocked: :huh: :sad:

    What did I do to deserve that?


    That's going to hurt in the morning!!

    Sorry mate.
  • Ossireo
    Ossireo Posts: 573 Forumite
    So he's turned into tall, interesting but evasive and therefore probably not what I'm looking for.

    Or am I being too fussy?

    I don't think you are being fussy at all hun. Sometimes with the best will in the world things just don't quite feel right and its perfectly normal. Selfishness is very much a turn off for me too :o

    Feeling a bit down today myself as well. Had a chat with the Scot and we are taking a break ... to be at that point after 6 weeks does not bode well really and I know I am as much to blame as him *shakes fist at all the personal demons*

    However since I got home all I have done is EAT! I had soup planned and went to the shop and bought bread rolls to go with it, ate 2 of the damn things .. they couldn't be any less GL if I tried :rolleyes: not to mention the mini pack of cookies and a fruit granola bar I have shoved in my gob .. does it make me happy...NO, yet I still do it :rolleyes:

    If anyone needs me I will be sat over in the corner wallowing in my own self pity anim_62.gif alternatively I will be in the fridge eating more then I should be animal0026.gif
  • eco
    eco Posts: 1,147 Forumite
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    Ossireo please stop beating your self up, 6 weeks is more than I've managed lately, get out of the fridge and get back on here.
  • Ossireo
    Ossireo Posts: 573 Forumite
    Aww don't worry, I don't tend to wallow for long, I tend to slap myself into some sense after a little while. Maybe that's as a result of the things I (and all of us!) have dealt with over the last few years, we tend to learn how to sort ourself out and keep fighting :rotfl:

    Big hugs all around! love0028.gif
  • eco
    eco Posts: 1,147 Forumite
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    true Ossireo, it's surprising how strong we really are, we just realise it at the time
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