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Worried about person who drink drove
Several years ago I was due to get married for varying reasons we broke up. He went on to be married and have a child, but the relationship broke up after he had a partying / drug / stress breakdown. They were huge party animals I am absolutely not. He was sectioned albeit for a very short period of time. He managed to get…
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Worried about brother
My brother is 26 and lives at home. He's very quiet and shy and is slow to make new friends. He doesnt have many friends, and from what I can tell its always the friends (not him) that instigate any meetups. The only friends he has are from his school days. He's never had a girlfriend. I'm very worried that in 10 or 20…
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Advice - Help marriage breakdown
Hello there I usually use this site for bargains but here I am needing advice and to sound out whats happening personally Been married husband 6 years, two daughters, one toddler and one 9 month old Husband has alays had a bit of a temper but its always been me that has made amends or just tried to get on with life. I lost…
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January Adult Birthdays - Ideas please?
I'm struggling for ideas as to what to do for my birthday this week. DH will be at work, DS at school and DD at nursery till 12pm unless i choose to take her out for the day so i can go somwhere till 3.15pm. In some ways i envy my DH who has a July birthday that generally falls within schools holidays and we are all around…
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Partner split up with me- feeling lots of different emotions
Hello Not wanting to go in details, we have now split up and there is no chance of a reconciliation which is probably best for me to be honest. I have butterflies in my stomach and i don`t know why. It is not when i see my ex or if i hear from them. It can last all day and is annoying me. I just want this feeling to go…
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Suffers of BPD?
Are there any others here? I am really struggling recently and hoping to find some other people to chat to or something! :)
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help. I feel like an alien.
I'm sorry, but I really really do. I remember when I was a kid and everything I did was wrong, my parents always told me off and made me go to my room to think about what I had done. I did but I seriously never could figure out what the problem was, ever. I would have thought my parents were being unfair but at school I…
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Marriage struggling - just needed somewhere to offload.
I have been married 6yrs and we have been together 11yrs so not a new relationship and he is the father of my 2 children. But in the past 2 years we have been struggling. Initially he was the one bad with money and time and time again it has been my parents who have helped us out till he refused their 'help' any longer and…
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Is it normal to feel like this after a bereavement.
Hi I very recently lost my mum after a short and sudden illness.I am or so i thought happily married..my husband is the most wonderful,kindest man you could ever meet and has been my rock through losing mum.Weve been married 6 years and have a beautiful daughter together...over the last few days i discovered an old flame…
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Wedding cakes
Looking for help please. I want to do wedding cake for a friend. Im not good enough to make my own so I want to buy a couple of those ready made ones which just need decorating. Ive seen them in the supermarkets but have only seen one size. I really need to get two, one larger than the other. Does anyone know of any they…
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Will situation - getting desperate for advice!
Hi guys. I'm seeking some Will advice that may get a bit complicated here but bare with me. Bit of backstory: My dad lived in America (Indiana) for the past 7 years. He recently died (August 2011) of cancer. I was on fairly good terms with him and was out there with my sister when it happened. I'm not on great terms with…
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Another Will question
Hi I wonder if anyone can help. There is an awkard situation in my family, whereby several siblings dont speak. The parents are getting on a bit and have recently been discussing theor will. They have a large house and a number of rental properties. Their plan is to leave their house jointly in trust I believe to the…
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Low carb/Low GI diet
Not sure if this is the right place to ask, but there doesn't seem to be anywhere else. I want to change to a low carb, low GI diet. Can anyone point me in the right direction for diet plans, recipes, etc. I know there is a ton of stuff on Google, but I was hoping someone would have information on diets that have actually…
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What to look for in a childminder?
Good morning, I had my beautiful princess two weeks ago and plan on going back to work in September. We are looking into child care options at the moment and have yet to decide on a nursery or a childminder. My oh works shifts so we are only going to need child are for 8 days a month, the nursery is £42 a day and we are…
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Need a bit of direction
Hi all, just wanted a bit of help in the right direction I've posted under a new name to avoid recognition. At the moment im feeling a bit lost with no direction, I feel Ive been trying to keep things calm for so long that the real me has been lost. Ive been married to my OH for 13 years, the last 5 have been very…
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best place o look for nans lost relatives
hi all i was wondering where the best place was to start looking for lost relatives. my nan lost touch with her dad when she was little due to her mum and him spliting up. she has always wondered what happened to him so thought i would try to find out. we have his name but not sure if they were ever married, am waiting for…
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fiances 21st birthday what should i get him?
some advice please ladies and gents? its my fiances 21st at the end of march and i dont know what to get him budget is about £150 he has a season ticket to the team he supports has the football shirts he wants he love ps3 and always buys the games when they come out hes not massivly in to clothes or designers. i offered a…
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Cooled boiled water for formula
How long does water "last" before it can't be used? When my kids were babies, we used to make up the bottles in the morning, for the whole day, and store them in the fridge. But on the tin of forumla that my son's girlfriend is using, it says to use water that has been cooled for no more than 35 minutes. Does this mean…
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fffurious with OH
I just had a phone call from OHs best friends wife concerning her daughters wedding which is in 2013 - wanting to know if we wanted to book a room in the hotel which would cost £310! i immediately said that we wouldnt pay that much and would book a room in a B&B. and take taxis. OH is NOT pleased with me! I dont get why?…
