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Partner split up with me- feeling lots of different emotions

Hello

Not wanting to go in details, we have now split up and there is no chance of a reconciliation which is probably best for me to be honest.

I have butterflies in my stomach and i don`t know why. It is not when i see my ex or if i hear from them. It can last all day and is annoying me.

I just want this feeling to go away and to be able get on with my life. I do miss my partner alot.

How have you dealt with a split? Thanks in advance

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  • smudger1964
    smudger1964 Posts: 683 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 500 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    edited 22 January 2012 at 9:18PM
    The old adage about time helps and I have been there many times,throw yourself into something else be it work or a hobby make yourself busy.Have you got some good friends who you can spend some evenings with chatting?
    If there is no chance of a reconcilliation its all you can do
  • geoffky
    geoffky Posts: 6,835 Forumite
    It will disappear as soon as that hunk gives you the eye and you think oh crap here we go again in for a penny in for a pound.:):):)
    It is nice to see the value of your house going up'' Why ?
    Unless you are planning to sell up and not live anywhere, I can;t see the advantage.
    If you are planning to upsize the new house will cost more.
    If you are planning to downsize your new house will cost more than it should
    If you are trying to buy your first house its almost impossible.
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