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Please help desperate for some advice re contact issues
Hi please can anyone help me. Am I being unreasonable in asking my ex husband where our children will be staying while in his care now he has moved in with his new 3mth girlfriend? There is a long history 5 years of contact issues where I wanted and offered as much contact as possible and ex husband wanted min contact as…
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Anyone used freebie Wedding Websites?
My niece is getting married next year, and is on a very tight budget. She was excitedly telling me about her plans at the weekend, and I mentioned that free websites were available, where you could put a map of the church, wedding gift list etc. I'll happily do all the input for her, but I wondered if any Moneysavers had…
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cost of living
Morning everyone :) Hoping someone can help me out with this, at the moment I live in spain and I'm planning on moving back to the uk (suffolk) as soon as I find a job. My partner is in the RAF and hes based in suffolk so ideally we'd like to find a flat to rent near to his base. Could anyone tell me how renting works in…
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Baby with Cold.
My poor little man has got his first cold (theres me being all clever taking him to loads of baby classes!) He is very snotty, got a cough, and grumpy to go with it. Ive given him some calpol, and am letting him breast feed whenever he wants, is there anything else I can do for him? Any help much appreciated
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Need some advice
Long time lurker here, first post. I have become aware that someone I love is drinking what I think is a lot. I drink less than 10-20 units a year though, so I know what I think is a lot is probably very different to other people, so I'd welcome your opinions. The person in question is married retired lady in her mid…
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face book threats
have posted about my daughters split with her patner trying to sort out the morgage etc and have been given great advise. She is back home and trying to sort out her life. She is seeeing old friends again male and female but her x has been in touch asked her to go around to sort things and then has said he has heard all…
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Does this sound right? - divorce
Hi Ive registered under another name but im a long time poster and visiter to these boards. I realise that im probably opening myself up to being flamed on here by my story, but I really do need some help and advice as to what others think about this situation. I met my partner 3 years ago. We do not live together. When we…
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Where can I sell reusable nappies?
I went onto Ebay today to try and list a set of 2nd hand reusable nappies. The pack cost over £300 when purchased so with the free listings weekend I thought that it would be a great time to list them. However, I have had an email from Ebay saying that they have withdrawn my listing because they do not allow the sale of…
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What To Do With Old Notes
My grandad unfortunately had to go into a care home for some respite whilst we emptied his house. In doing so we've found a number of old £20 notes that are now out of circulation. We don't live anywhere near London and won't be making any trips down to it anytime soon so can't get to the Bank of England. The notes are the…
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10 best ways to save your money on weddings
Here you go :j Tips to reduce wedding expenses 1. Find the best bargain. Do not stick into one supplier. Find as many suppliers you can find and then choose which you think has the best price. Best price means affordable price but with quality. You can find wedding suppliers (catreing, venue, cakes, flowers, gown, etc) at…
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Advice needed please!
Okay, so long story... I'm 21 and a Student Nurse (in my last year or uni) been with my boyfriend for 22 months, lived with him for 6. For the last 18 months or so, I've had depression, and in March I finally got off my backside and went and did something about it, depression was officially diagnosed and now I'm on…
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gotta have colposcopy-whats it like?!
I had a smear last year that showed minor changed so had to have another 6 months later, that was week n bit ago. had results this morn and still showing minor changes, so theyve referred me to hospital for a colposcopy and if that shows more abnormalaties i have to have a local and the cells removed. Im a single mum so…
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Help....not sure what to do.
This may be a long one so I shall start now! Thanks in advance for reading. I am posting under a different name as am a regular on this board and my husband does come on here at times. I got married 7 years ago and 10 months later we had twins. I had to give up my career as my husband also works shifts and as we have no…
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No will - who gets what when stepchildren involved?
My Mum and Dad divorced in the 70's. He re-married someone who had grown-up children. I was still in constant touch and considered part of the family by his new wife. In 2007 my Dad died. I don't know if there was/is a will. I wasn't privy to any paperwork at the time. I was still in constant touch with his wife who…
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Breach of community order
Ok please do not lecture me about this, I just want some information. My son has a community order. He has been doing the hours no problem. He was meant to be going away for a weekend and showed his probation officer the details of where he was going. On the weekend in question he was in fact ill so did not go away. The…
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Bed wetting.
This is so embarrassing for me but I can't tell anyone else. My husband (who is 41) likes a drink EVERY NIGHT even if he just has 3 maybe 4 cans, It really gets me down, but worse he wets the bloody bed and will still carry on doing what he is doing. It's not every night, perhaps once a month. He just come back from the…
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Clarks Kids Shoes Policy?
Hi I think I read somewhere that if you have purchased clarks kids shoes and the kid grows out of them within a few weeks you can return them. Does anybody know the time frame of this? I had a look on their website but can't find this. I bought my ds trainers a month ago but he has started getting blisters from them now.…
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ending relationship , who gets what ?
not sure is this is the right section so accept my apologies if its not i recently split up with my girlfriend and was wondering how i stand with getting stuff back that i bought for her/us during our relationship i stupidly spent a fair amount on here including a secondhand car ( although i only lent her the money )…
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Divorce, bills & notice of pursuant.
Hi, My wife and i have decided to get divorced after two bad years, i have move out and left her with the family home with our two children. I recieved a notice of severance today from her solicitors (notice of pursuant) so that the house would be held at tenants in common. Is this something i should sign, as we have not…
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At a low ebb....
Ok, I'm really low and tho I've often felt this way and manage to drag myself out, it's harder this time. Here's my problems as I see them: I am self employed and have no work ATM. Can survive financially till the end of June and will then run out of money. Am working hard on getting work and have 4 appts next week which…
