Pregnant and Hubby doesnt love me

Oh dear Lord, when will I ever get to read a post about a man who is confused and no longer in love with there partner WITHOUT there being another woman in the mix.

What is is with men!!!!!! ?????? So sorry OP that you are going through such a horrible time. I sincerely hope that in time you will be one hell of a lot better off than you are now - infact I am sure you will be.

Forgive my anger. Just recently my neighbour came crying that her partner said he no longer loved her and "wanted to be alone" - my ar@e! I had my doubts but she was so distressed that to suggest another woman would have been cruel.

Fast forward a couple of weeks and he is living with another woman with 3 kids. The lovely lady he has left has 3 of his kids. What a mess. Oh I know women do this sort of thing too, but lots of woman will genuinely leave an unhappy marriage to be alone.

OP, hugs and blessings to you and your lovely little blessing, for that is what she/he will be for sure.

"heres hoping for a much better future - hopefully with someone who can love me for me and my baby as his own and want a huge family... maybe rich and handsom too? or is that asking too much?"

I'll have a drink to that for you fitzillian:beer: You are well worth it!:T:T I think you deserve a "fitzillian rocks" t shirt myself - i wish i was good with that glitter glue stuff:o

Hi Fitzillian,

Hope you are doing ok. Re the name thing. I know you are putting the baby in his name, which I think is a good thing. But really it still would not stop him legally having parental responsibility anyway as this child was conceived within the marriage and unless your divorce comes through, will be born during the marriage. Therefore the child is 'legitimised' and he would have a say in what name the child goes in anyway. He can even go and register the child without you because you are married. He won't need your permission for parental responsibility (although he doesn't sound responsible anyway).

Hope this helps

paigexstewart wrote: »

I havn't read through the whole thread yet so sorry if I have missed anything important.

Can I ask why you were trying for a baby if you both wern't completly happy?

I think your OP said he felt different when you started trying so maybe it is his fault, but surely there must of been telling you something wasnt right from the start?

Also your husband must be decent enough to pay child support otherwise you wouldn't have considered having a child with him.
Hope you are coping ok. There is plenty of help out there if you look.

Wouldnt it be nice if life was always straightforward and clear cut and nothing unexpected happened....:rolleyes:

:hello: Hey Fitzilian, how are you doing now?

Still thinking of you and when you find your rich and handsome man, please ask if he has a brother for me as I'd quite like to trade my OH in