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Why are some people on here being so nasty?

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  • neverdespairgirl
    neverdespairgirl Posts: 16,501 Forumite
    Hello Catalystpod

    NDGirl posted the post Annpan was unhappy about at just gone midnight. Personally, if I was having to deal with this sort of stuff at any point in my day, let alone the wee small hours as an emergency, I would be feeling a little downbeat, too. I imagine posting here was a blessed break away from it.

    I still don't think she is 'downbeat' normally, though.

    I don't think I am normally, either. Must admit I'm not at my most cheerful when awaiting a whole lot of papers by fax at midnight though!
    ...much enquiry having been made concerning a gentleman, who had quitted a company where Johnson was, and no information being obtained; at last Johnson observed, that 'he did not care to speak ill of any man behind his back, but he believed the gentleman was an attorney'.
  • oldMcDonald
    oldMcDonald Posts: 1,945 Forumite
    Eh? Not sure I nitpick much, and I'm considered the star of the party in the pub, esp. when I do my (in)famous impression of a dying duck in a thunderstorm :rotfl:

    Two words, NDG, You Tube.

    Put this up on You Tube, now. You cannot, in all fairness, tell us something like this and then leave it to our imaginations. :)
  • mr.broderick
    mr.broderick Posts: 3,778 Forumite
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    carolt wrote: »
    Really well put.

    Certainly after years of smug comments from those who bought...years ago.. (and continuing smug comments, but only from desperate BTLetters on here - no-one in the real world is smug any longer, just nervous), it is a blessed relief to see prices finally falling and see the day when one can finally buy a home without being financially crippled in the process coming ever nearer.

    Obviously, this is no comfort at all to those who DID buy very recently, and are really worried about it, like the OP - who clearly need all the sympathy/help they can get.

    I'm pretty sure I've never posted anything rude to anyone in that situation; if our house purchase hadn't fallen through about 16 months ago, that could well have been me posting on this forum (to which I first came then, in search of advice on my planned purchase). I was just lucky - it fell through.

    On the other hand, like Pobby, I'm happy to agree I've frequently been (extremely) sarky to those who were posting in order to gloat at their wealth (for which read equity) compared to us non-home-owning 'fools' etc. I don't have a whole bundle of sympathy to spare either for those who chose to take risky punts on BTL as 'a one-way ticket to Easy Street' as Inside Track described it - ie those who felt in some way entitled to easy money for sitting on their backsides, yet couldn't even be bothered to actually check out the figures for themselves.

    But the OP is a long way from that - she was only attempting to buy a home for herself, to provide a secure foundation for herself and her future, (and those familiar with her story will know she was not entirely comfortable with the decision to buy initially, anyway) and does not deserve to be lumped in with the lot described above.

    So give her a break.

    God i love you..
  • Lotus-eater
    Lotus-eater Posts: 10,789 Forumite
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    There is no need for that at all and I have reported it.
    Freedom is not worth having if it does not include the freedom to make mistakes.
  • oldMcDonald
    oldMcDonald Posts: 1,945 Forumite
    God i hate you..

    Oh MrB, we all doubt that - truth be told, you seem to be quite obsessed with our Carol and her posts :D
  • Snooze
    Snooze Posts: 2,041 Forumite
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    Oh MrB, we all doubt that - truth be told, you seem to be quite obsessed with our Carol and her posts :D

    He's also obsessed with Deputy scare-mongerer !!!!!!? He seems to leave the Chief scare-mongerer brit1234 alone for some reason :confused: . His posts aren't complete without mentioning !!!!!!? and CarolT in them. :confused: Is there some we're missing? :confused:

    And btw, to those knocking neverdespairgirl, leave her alone!! She's not done owt wrong to you. :mad:

    :grouphug: @ NDG.

    :eek: :rotfl:

    Rob
  • oldMcDonald
    oldMcDonald Posts: 1,945 Forumite
    Snooze wrote: »

    :grouphug: @ NDG.



    Rob

    Ooooo, :grouphug:. NDG - you've pulled!
  • Snooze
    Snooze Posts: 2,041 Forumite
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    Ooooo, :grouphug:. NDG - you've pulled!

    Not at all!


    (I just don't want my thank you count to suffer if she takes the hump with all the slagging off and leaves!)

    :rotfl:

    Rob
  • mr.broderick
    mr.broderick Posts: 3,778 Forumite
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    There is no need for that at all and I have reported it.

    bothered....
  • Annpan
    Annpan Posts: 263 Forumite
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    Wow, not only a KGB charm-school reject but a doctor to boot :rotfl:

    Actually, I'm not at all depressed, although thank you for your concern. I'm extremely cheerful!
    Well deduced NDG. I didn't think you'd get it. Glad you have your cheerful head on tonight. You have a wonderful fan club on here that doesn't mind you rambling off into your own world of horror stories. Keep em coming if it helps with your condition.
    Getting my flak jacket on now ready for the onslaught.

    Love you loads.
    xxx KGB MB.BS.(1976 U.K) LMCC.DRCOG. MRCGP FO
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