IA's road to becoming a CAB Debt adviser.

Bunnyinthelights

Sar,
Nice to see you going out and DOING things-very very important I believe.

notanothergreyhair

slug2000 wrote: »

but you're also a human person

Rubbish! What? Really? A real human? Pfft!!!

Only joking. We are all hear to listen whether it is positive or not, and I know it usually is. Let's have a smile on your face...or I might be forced to make everyone laugh and get my !!!! out.







Clearly, I am talking about my male chicken. You dirty lot!

jinky67

immoral_angeluk wrote: »

Thanks hun. That means a lot. I don't really have any girlie mates in the non mse world that I can talk to. I do have someone I talk to but I always worry about him getting sick of me moaning.

Oh god I sound like a sadcase don't I? What the hell has happened to me?

Just wanted to say we are all here for you,whenever you want to chat.
I was having a really bad day yesterday,but if you dont tell people they cannot help.
When I decided to open up yesterday I had a load of pm's and hugs from people that I dont even know that well:A
It made me feel soooo much better (made me cry,but in a nice way;) )

I also have someone I chat to as well about things and I feel like you do...."he must be sick listenening to me complain" but I am sure if he was he would say.
You know I am always here:rolleyes:
love and hugs

floss2

Pics from our trip to see the ducks yesterday on our local canal.

Thems not ducks, I-A, thems swimmy swans!

I'm not near enough to call round & give you a real hug, so have a dodgy one instead: :grouphug:

Have you thought about life-coaching to help you work out what you want? And finding time for each other is hard. My DF works away quite a bit & can whizz off for 3 nights while I'm in work & come home when I'm in bed - we found that having a quiet cuppa in bed & a chat sees us through to when we next meet up. That may be more difficult with the girls, but we had to make a definite effort to get something which is now a routine time for catching up with each other.

Love Floss xx

Lucifa73

Hi, I've just spent the last 2 days reading this diary having 'met' you on the DFW running thread (please don't tell my boss!!!) and would like to say you seem like a fantastic person with a great family but my goodness woman you pack a lot in to a day!!!

I think perhaps AS might need to go? It sounds great in theory - a couple of parties, a bit of stock management each week - easy right? but then there's admin - receipts, accounts, banking, deliveries... if you think about how many hours you must be putting into this job (and I KNOW you won't be happy with less than full effort) wouldn't it be easier to find a regular 8 hours somewhere where you go in, do the work, go home and get paid? A regular hours part time job would also help you plan some kind of schedule to get things done. Is there any way you could perhaps pick up an extra shift or 2 at Argos?

Keep up the good work but make time for the good fun too!!!

P.S. I subscribe to a 'daily quote' newsletter and this cam through -

Happiness is like a butterfly which, when pursued, is always beyond our grasp, but, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you.
— Nathaniel Hawthorne

Perhaps its time to turn the internal dialogue down a notch or two and just enjoy your family (in a responsibly DFW way of course...)

L73 x

Lucifa73

I notice not one person has suggested spending less time on MSE :eek:


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immoral_angeluk

Lucifa73 wrote: »

I notice not one person has suggested spending less time on MSE :eek:


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Who on earth would want to do something like that?

Lucifa73

Not me - I'm hooked!!! 'twas merely an observation.

immoral_angeluk

I feel so pathetic. We've been through harder times than this and come out the other side smiling.. (or just about at least.)

slug2000

haven't I already told you to stop feeling bad for feeling bad?! I know I don't know you so feel free to ignore me, but you ARE NOT PATHETIC!
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