Slimming World Support Thread

peachyest

Skin-catt , you have to do what you think is right for you , dont be rushed into having babys until your settled .
the other thing is you hate the job your in , it would be a fresh start for you with a firm that care, more money ,more hoilday , h/care, you could save and when your ready to have children and take the time off work your ok , money wise.
Having a dad with parkinson is such a worry , and i know if i was your mum id wont you to go and do well for yourself , it dos'nt mean you dont care, you could still give surport as you are , your parents would be so pround of you no matter what you do .
Just take the time to really think about it , remember if you have a baby , its means time off work and its not easy to leave your baby to go back to work , child cost , juggling job & mother hood and everything else that comes with it , just make sure your o/h would surport you money wise and conmitement wise too , thats the most important thing , dont be court up wiht the romance of it all , make him get down on his knee first , your worth it

Skint_Catt

I will def wait for the bended knee and I know he would support me. He knows that if we could afford it by hook or by crook I would not want to return to work after having children (not til they're school age preferably). Oh so many thoughts. I've texted him, but he must be busy at the mo. I never was any good at just making decisions!

redmel1621

Skint_Catt

Just to add, last year i picked up a few apps, for jobs that would get me closer to my dream job, my dh put in the suggestion that I am better off where I am. Although he would never stop me taking a job or push me away from the idea, it did put a bit of doubt in my mind. I didn't bother applying and I do regret it now. I will be looking again this year though.

Mel x

findingmyownway

have you phoned them yet?

charlies_mum

HI everyone :wave:

Well done to everyone who's lost this week. Just a quick note as I am on holiday, but have found out that our campsite now has Wifi :j

I have thought about being good, but it really ended there . Lots of wine, takeaways and yes, even chocolate :eek:

Oh well, back to normal when I come home tomorrow, I will let you know how much I put on

Skint_Catt

findingmyownway - I've emailed the peron requried a I can't talk at work and can't get out of the office. They haven't replied but left a voicemail on my mobile at the same time I was emailing. I've turned it down.

Mother gave me earache not about moving - she thought it was a good idea to save money - but about OH only looking after himself so I hung up on her . OH keeps calling but not making me feel much better as he just wants to talk things over tonight and my eyes keep welling up.

Sorry to take the thread off topic but you're all so helpful!

Nessa56

Well done to all losers and maintainers

Hope things work out for you skint catt haven't read all of the thread but get the gist - hugs -

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terrigrunshaw

o skint_cat im so sorry to hear u turned it down u seemed made up about it when u got it,im sure whatever happens it'll all work out somehow 4 u, lots of hugs 4 u xxxx

Skint_Catt

Ok, I turned it down. Got an email back and they really really want me so have given me until Thursday morn to sort things out with OH!!!! :rolleyes:

PetitePeche

I haven't fared very will with SW so far. I think my problems are my love of red wine and carbs . On my green days I stuffed the potatoes down so quickly it was unreal ... all because the diet says you can! I'm now considering continuing but restricting myself to Red days. I did the Atkins diet a few years ago and lost loads of weight and think that this is a much milder and fat free version. I have 7 weeks to go before trying to fit into last year's bikini ... what are the chances of that with 1.5 stones to lose ?

PP