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The giving up/cutting down alcohol support thread!

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  • yellowmonkey
    yellowmonkey Posts: 7,052 Forumite
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    well done united, cant wait to hear what miss chealski fiona phillips has to say in the morning,

    I Have yet to hear anything interesting from her yet :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

    Hi Ab :hello:

    ym
  • ageing_biker
    ageing_biker Posts: 353 Forumite
    evening ym, there's a website of people who dislike her, google fp, quite funny some of it
    proud of myself staying sober today with the footy, lets go to russia and rap it up
    smoke free since 16 feb 08
  • yellowmonkey
    yellowmonkey Posts: 7,052 Forumite
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    Hear hear and well done. I am at work so only tea for me :D

    ym
  • SamanthaA
    SamanthaA Posts: 345 Forumite
    jo1972 wrote: »
    Samantha, I reckon it was a weekend for it you know. It's definately harder when it's sunny out I've decided. There's something for me about driving to Tesco, I have to drive past a pub that has a huge outside area at the front with nice benches, pretty lights in the evening, loads of lovely plants and shrubs. God it looks so inviting! Plus it's right by the traffic lights and s0ds law means I'm always sat at a red light watching all these people sat out there enjoying themselves in the sunshine with a cold beer :mad: Do I sound resentful :D

    You are sooooo right!
    Hadn`t thought of it like that, but yes! On Saturdays drive from work, I passed at least 6, yes thats 6, pubs and because it was 7pm and a nice sunny evening, they all had people outside, either cose of smoking ban or thats where beer garden is!
    So I didn`t fall, I was pushed pysocologically(sp) speaking, or am I just passing the buck??

    No Beer, although I was tempted by the wine thats in fridge from last night!
    6/31 May (1 bottle of wine & 1 can cider in fridge - day1){lets see how long that lasts!?!}
    Living debt free, since Sept 08 & Dec 10 :wall:

    "After a time, you may find that`having` is not so pleasing a thing after all as `wanting`. It is not logical, but often true." MR SPOCK

    "Failure is always an option" Adam Savage
  • In_Search_Of_Me
    In_Search_Of_Me Posts: 10,634 Forumite
    Watching celeb rehab o fiver - fascinating! Some of them are sooo ful of s***!!
    Samatha if you have it in the house & cant not have it why not get rid of it! Makes it sooo much easier than having it screaming "drink me" from the fridge!
    Nerd no 109 Long haulers supporters DFW #1! Even in the darkest moments, love and hope are always possible.

  • SamanthaA
    SamanthaA Posts: 345 Forumite
    I know that thanks, but the MSE in me keeps thinking you paid for it, don`t tip it down the sink!

    I have a birthday party to go to & I will be driving, so I want to try & keep it as the gift. Will lock it in the shed - can`t hear it from down the bottom of the garden!!!

    Besides having it on my `signiture` with you lot will make me show will (or is that No )power!
    Living debt free, since Sept 08 & Dec 10 :wall:

    "After a time, you may find that`having` is not so pleasing a thing after all as `wanting`. It is not logical, but often true." MR SPOCK

    "Failure is always an option" Adam Savage
  • mollypolly
    mollypolly Posts: 1,737 Forumite
    :hello: :hello: :hello: Wow.
    Only been gone a couple of days and its taken me an hour to catch up.
    Seems like its been a hard weekend for some.:(
    Hope you are all ready for a new week and feeling positive.
    There has been some wonderful posts on here over the weekend.Too many to mention, but thanks to everyone for all your encouragement and support.
    Its day 35 for me today (Five weeks) .(Golly, where did they go.)And I couldnt have done it without this thread.

    :iloveyou: ALL

    Good luck and thanks again.
    Love Mollypolly xxxx
    :happylove :happylove
    I'm back!!!!
    DMP starts 1st July 2015:T
    Dfd March 2021 (hoping to get there sooner )
    DMP mutual support group number 444
    Proud to be dealing with my debts at last :j
  • Bismarck
    Bismarck Posts: 2,598 Forumite
    SamanthaA wrote: »
    I know that thanks, but the MSE in me keeps thinking you paid for it, don`t tip it down the sink!

    I have a birthday party to go to & I will be driving, so I want to try & keep it as the gift. Will lock it in the shed - can`t hear it from down the bottom of the garden!!!

    Besides having it on my `signiture` with you lot will make me show will (or is that No )power!

    When I made the move, I had a bottle of chilled lager in the fridge (Mrs B's), a 4 pack of Fosters that I'd been given as a present that was not the original pack as I'd kept drinking it and replacing it.....and a bottle of port from a buy one get one free.

    I think the Port went to a raffle, Mrs Bismarck started on the special Czech lager that was hers a few days after D-day, had a sip and came upstairs and said she didn't want to finish it.

    I looked at her, terrified..."WHAT HAVE YOU DONE WITH IT?"

    "I poured it away" she said...."didn't fancy it any more"

    "good" I said, relieved.

    The 4 pack of Fosters stayed somewhere in the garage for 8 months until I'd forgotten to buy my brother a birthday present and there it was : the perfect present - one pack of nicely chilled, especially important pack of Fosters...
    For what I've done...I start again...And whatever pain may come ...Today this ends... I'm forgiving what I've done -AF since June 2007
  • Bismarck
    Bismarck Posts: 2,598 Forumite
    SamanthaA wrote: »
    You are sooooo right!
    Hadn`t thought of it like that, but yes! On Saturdays drive from work, I passed at least 6, yes thats 6, pubs and because it was 7pm and a nice sunny evening, they all had people outside, either cose of smoking ban or thats where beer garden is!
    So I didn`t fall, I was pushed pysocologically(sp) speaking, or am I just passing the buck??

    No Beer, although I was tempted by the wine thats in fridge from last night!
    6/31 May (1 bottle of wine & 1 can cider in fridge - day1){lets see how long that lasts!?!}

    One step at a time!

    Each event you manage strengthens you....

    The toughest used to be the aisles of supermarkets....now I just chuckle inside and say a version of the Lords Prayer in my head.

    "yeah though I walk in the valley of the shadow, I will not fear evil"

    and I walk though and nothing's appeared in my basket...and my will is strengthened still further.
    For what I've done...I start again...And whatever pain may come ...Today this ends... I'm forgiving what I've done -AF since June 2007
  • jo1972
    jo1972 Posts: 8,901 Forumite
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    Bismarck wrote: »
    One step at a time!

    Each event you manage strengthens you....

    The toughest used to be the aisles of supermarkets....now I just chuckle inside and say a version of the Lords Prayer in my head.

    "yeah though I walk in the valley of the shadow, I will not fear evil"

    and I walk though and nothing's appeared in my basket...and my will is strengthened still further.

    Thank you for this post Bismarck, one day I hope to achieve this day after day rather than keep falling at the first hurdle.

    Needless to say, and as predicted yesterday, I've already caved. Going docs later today hopefully if I can get an appointment and will pour it out to the poor bloke. Lucky for him he is completely unaware of what is gonna walk in through the door later :rotfl:

    Hope you all have a lovely day :)

    xx
    DFW Nerd no. 496 - Proud to be dealing with my debts!!
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