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Suicidal - please help me!

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  • mollypolly
    mollypolly Posts: 1,737 Forumite
    Sporter. Where are you.Please come talk to us.
    :happylove :happylove
    I'm back!!!!
    DMP starts 1st July 2015:T
    Dfd March 2021 (hoping to get there sooner )
    DMP mutual support group number 444
    Proud to be dealing with my debts at last :j
  • tealady
    tealady Posts: 3,850 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Mortgage-free Glee!
    Hellooo.... Anyone there? Sporter please log in even if its just the word Hello
    Find out who you are and do that on purpose (thanks to Owain Wyn Jones quoting Dolly Parton)
  • sporter_2
    sporter_2 Posts: 88 Forumite
    Hi, I'm here.........I'm ok.

    Reading all your advice has brought tears to my eyes. You guys are WONDERFUL:beer:

    Sooooooooo sorry i didnt get back on the forum until now. Havent been doing anything apart from working and going home.

    Today I did ring Payplan and i have an appt with them on Monday. Over the weekend I will do my SOA (promise) and put it up for you all to see.

    I have to do this and i'm so glad to have friends like you......

    Thank you so much

    Sporter
  • Bismarck
    Bismarck Posts: 2,598 Forumite
    simply thanks for getting in touch.....please keep with us...
    For what I've done...I start again...And whatever pain may come ...Today this ends... I'm forgiving what I've done -AF since June 2007
  • basketcase
    basketcase Posts: 1,229 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Welcome back!

    Had a few of us worried there for a bit. :eek:
    A budget is like a speed sign - a LIMIT not a TARGET!!

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    1 FROG (minimum) per week; 6/52
    WEIGHT I'll start with 25 lbs (though I need to lose more!) and see how it goes...🤔 0/25

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  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    I'm so glad you are okay - sometimes everything can seem so crappy, but when you face up to it and take control, it is amazing the difference it makes to your life.
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
    :smileyhea
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  • mumoftwins
    mumoftwins Posts: 2,498 Forumite
    sporter wrote: »
    Hi, I'm here.........I'm ok.

    Reading all your advice has brought tears to my eyes. You guys are WONDERFUL:beer:

    Sooooooooo sorry i didnt get back on the forum until now. Havent been doing anything apart from working and going home.

    Today I did ring Payplan and i have an appt with them on Monday. Over the weekend I will do my SOA (promise) and put it up for you all to see.

    I have to do this and i'm so glad to have friends like you......

    Thank you so much

    Sporter
    Well done for coming back Sporter:T just caught up with your thread and I must tell you that this is the best thing you can have done by coming onto the DFW board and posting - you'll get loads of support and good advice and you'll never feel alone!

    Chin up - you've taken the first step :A
    Christians Against Poverty - www.capuk.org
  • Merlot
    Merlot Posts: 1,890 Forumite
    Sporter, I'm so pleased to see you back, well done for contacting Payplan, look forward to seeing your SOA at the weekend.

    Merlot.x.
    "Wisdom doesn't automatically come with old age. Nothing does, except wrinkles. It's true, some wines improve with age. But only if the grapes were good in the first place." — Abigail Van Buren
  • monkey22_2
    monkey22_2 Posts: 118 Forumite
    Glad you're back Sporter:j .You had us all worried for a while.

    Just wanted to say, I've had a DMP with Payplan for the past two years or so and it's the best thing I EVER did. Seriously, I don't know where I would be now without them. They helped me sort out my disastrous debts and I'm sure they'll be able to help you too.

    Good Luck
    Worry is like a rocking chair - it keeps you busy but it gets you nowhere.

    £2014 in 2014. £0/£2014:)
  • bountiful
    bountiful Posts: 485 Forumite
    Hi Sporter - suggest you start a new thread to plot your progress - maybe call it "I'm back and I'm OK" ?! We are all working away at our own challenges - all different - all potentially DEPRESSING - but keep coming on here for encouragement. love xxx
    Debt free by 22 January 2009 - thanks to an unexpected inheritance - take heart - it DOES HAPPEN!
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