Suicidal - please help me!

charl8888

I can't help agreeing with bowz25 - don't worry about your credit rating too much, most people here will not be seeking more credit for a while. I for one have vowed never to use a credit card again if I can help it. Being given too much credit is what got most of us in trouble in the first place! The peace of mind that you will get from having affordable monthly payments will be worth the damage to your credit rating if you go down the route suggested by CCCS.

p.s. Have you got anything you could sell?

dancingfairy

Big hugs to you. If you have spoken to CCCS then they will have given their advice- they are not out to make money from you so will have given the best advice they can.
Please phone the samaritans or the doctors. You will get through this- it is only money at the end of the day it is not worth it. Take care.

nomoneynomoney

Hi Sporter
I hope the support on this forum helps you.
I think lots of us have felt suicidal at one time or another and not known which way to turn.
CCCS can really give some good advice and I think go and see your GP to get a bit of help for how you're feeling.
If you can share the problem with someone that will help.
It is only money - if you haven't got it then they can't have it.
Post back so everybody know's your ok. We all have different amounts of debts and problems, you are not alone

dancingfairy

Just giving this page a bump if anyone else can give support/advice. I see the OP has disappeared for now. I hope Sporter you've gone off to get some help. Please let us know you're o.k.

bountiful

(another bump!) Hi Sporter - if you can start by making a list of your debts and how much and the interest rates you are paying - this would be a good beginning. I posted my debts and interest rates last week, and due to the advice on here have already managed to reduce two of them to 0% interest rates....... I had no motivation to do that on my own, I was completely stuck and couldn't see a way out. Give it a try, eh? xxx

calleyw

As has already been said it is only money.

You are priceless there is no money that can replace you. So please stop talking like that.

As has been said you need to do a SOA and people here will see how they can help.

Please take care and do come back.


Yours


Calley

leoetal19

ooooooh sporter come back and get some hugs n positivity ive been where u r and its a cold n lonley place, come into the warnth n company
i never got the guts to post my soa either but took all the advice from others and swapped providers, cancelled previously held 'necessities' and keep gleaning all i can.
there is soooo much light at the end of your tunnel its blinding. put on your sun glasses, come back and lets try to help. ive had the tablets and they helped-but the feeling of being back in control is better. small steps. towards the ligth and warmth-i will hold your hand all the way x come back and talk to the lovley people here xx hugssssss xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

sand-dancer_3

Hi hun, as the other lovely folk have already said on here - help is here, no matter how bad things seem at the minute you'll find support and advice and friendship on here. Please let us know youre ok xx

weegie.geek

sporter wrote: »

but dont want credit rating to get any worse than it already is

Credit rating doesn't matter if you're dead. I'd rather be alive with a !!!! credit rating than deal with a good one.

If you're genuinely suicidal and not being a drama queen, get yourself to hospital and ask to speak to the duty psych. !!!!!!!! to your credit rating. What's more important?

leoetal19

hello sporter n hugs 2 u xxxx sorry ur nt feeling up to coming back to your thread, i know when ur down confidence fluctuates.
to be hnest the word suicidal makes me want to hug u tight and make it go away. sadly we cant if we are talking to no-one. if u read this and all the other posts just know people care and want to help. pm me if u want, but please be safe xx in the scheme of things, ur soooo important and unique and special. ur debt just is not.