In pursuit of happiness...for real this time! Donner_kebab's debt diary!

Keeping_Motivated

Hi Donner

Just caught up on your diary. You're doing well as ever. I hope you have a lovely evening tonight and I hope it works out a free one for you!

KM x

donner_kebab

Talk about Grrrrrrrrrr!
Just got a text from my fella as he has been on a course in London...said that he has got to the station and can't see any trains so is going to get a meal there first! I check let him know that there is a train in 15 minutes time from when he text and he said that he is getting food so won't get it and will try and get the next one if he can. So no free dinner for me....what a load of carp Don't think I have anything to eat either as thought we were gonna go out tonight and I was gonna pop to the shop tomorrow...double grrrrrrrr! xxx

donner_kebab

Triple Grrrrrr! He hasn't got the next train and has said that the restaurant has given him free wine as his dinner was late...I hope for his sake that he hasn't had too much to drink so that he can't take us to see the movie...or I am gonna kick off big styleeeee....
Ok probably won't as am a big wuss who gets walked all over....but I will be gutted

Keeping_Motivated

Grrr exactly!!! So is he still coming to your house? Ask him if he will bring you a chinese for one on the way there!! The least he can do!!!!!!!! More grrrr

KM x

Keeping_Motivated

You don't need to kick off if you think you are a wuss BUT surely there is a middle ground?? That is IMO so out of order and I think you should make it clear you are not happy AT ALL. I assume its not often you have a free babysitter and you get time to spend on a night out so he could have made more of an effort.

Remember WE have to take some of the responsibility for the way people treat us. If we allow it to go on and act like we don't mind how can the other person know?

Hope you get it sorted
Take care
KM x

donner_kebab

Just got a text and turns out he has been drinking ALL DAY! So won't be driving anywhere. We organised this night out yesterday so it is not as if he didn't know. How selfish? I am right aren't I....that is bang out of order? I am so upset. xxx

Keeping_Motivated

Awe I'm sorry you are upset, I can see totally where you are coming from.

Is there anything else you can do with your evening? Any friends you can tag along with?

Keep strong with this and remember you are right and thats what you need to stick to when you put your point across.

Km x

donner_kebab

I have sent him a text telling him I am very upset. You are right, I hardly EVER get a night without Emily so this makes it worse. Also he has been drinking all day and knew about driving to the cinema but chose to carry on drinking anyway...probably thought to himself 'she won't mind as she just agrees with everything'. I want to cry...how stupid is that. I never get the chance for a night out, hardly ever...I am so very gutted. xxx

sallyx

Oh Donna
That is SOOOOO out of order, I would be tempted to get myself a takeaway, bottle of wine and lock the door. When he turns up no doubt drunk, wanting to stay over tell him to P*** off.
Why are men so insensitive sometimes.

Keeping_Motivated

I can understand you wanting to cry its so frustrating.. Is he the type ot be sorry and realise he is wrong when he is sober? I really do hope he makes this up to you.

Maybe you need to review this easy going image you are giving him. I mean its good to be easy going in some instances but not to the point that people let you down on something that is important to you like tonight is. x