Dbc 1 - Mot 0

sasp

Pania, I can believe that some neg comments will get through as there are unfortunately people who are 'just like that'.

Try to ignore the neg, unfortunately it's in our nature as good people that the neg comments are the ones that we remember, (as an adult I can still see my school report - 'is easily distracted! LOL)

You are an amazing person along with the other fab seven, please do not let anything spoil your hard work hun.

sasp xx

ampersand

pania wrote: »

I received a very negative PM earlier re what we are attempting to do and it very nearly made me post to say I can't do the PM's anymore, but reading through the thread,and the words of this song have pepped me up to carry on. If MOT can take the continual knocks i can put up with one.
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:A Dear Pania - :A
I am shocked by you receiving such a thing.
To do it via a pm is a very low, cowardly swipe.
Of course it will be hurting - attacks from those that don't even know us always have the capacity to wound and unsettle.
Better squidge back down with all of us here.
Budge up, everyone - pania needs a Make It Better .
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Good lyrics.

MYLITTLESISTERLOLA

pania wrote: »

I thought of this song whilst lying in bed last night, and how it particularly fits this thread and this scenario. I really hope that when you read the words you will see what i mean, and instantly recognise the song. These words could've been written for you MOT and the way you are.

I received a very negative PM earlier re what we are attempting to do and it very nearly made me post to say I can't do the PM's anymore, but reading through the thread,and the words of this song have pepped me up to carry on. If MOT can take the continual knocks i can put up with one.

I can't believe that someone has been so nasty that is really not what this thread is for :money: would not be pleased !!!

MYLITTLESISTERLOLA

p.s. if it continues name & shame !!!

pania

no i know, have had 2 one, reasonably expressing concerns which was replied to hopefully in a balanced and reasonable way and if the poster is reading, no hard feelingfs, to the nasty person.... PPPPPPFFFFFRRRRTTTTTTTTTT!!!!!!!!!!
to you!!!

supersavershal

Hi MOT hope you have had a decent weekend.We are all rooting for you.

edgarjay

wow, just spent the last 6 hours of my working day reading these posts, (now got boss reading them) what a story and an absolutely determined set of people, i too have not much to give but will be pm'ing Pania shortly to offer what i can.
really really hope this gets sorted for your family MOT and to the rest of DFW what a bunch of people to be associated with in some small way, thx x

ampersand

Welcome on board edgarjay - remember it all started with this brave post from mot:
http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.html?t=553259 back in September.

edgarjay

thx ampersand, did actually mean the whole posts though (sorry, needed to skim some of others though )

ciarasdreams

Although I have read all of the threads from the beginning last September I have never actually posted on any of them before mostly because the events and situations that have conspired to create Mumoftwins current situation fall totally outwith the range of any knowledge or life experience that I possess. I knew that I could not do or say anything to help the situation and the only thing that I really had to offer were words of sympathy which in truth would serve more to make me feel better than actually ever do anything useful for Mumoftwins. I am speaking for the first time today because I am absolutely disgusted by the way that those who have managed to find a way to support a family in need in a practical manner have been abused because there is and never has been any need for that at all. For those who do not approve of helping a family avoid the horrific reality of finding themselves without anywhere to call home that is your right and it will be respected but the best way to express your opinion is probably by not contributing to this thread and not visiting it rather than by making personal attacks particularly by PM to those who do because this in itself only serves to lessen the validity of your opinion. Although I have not said it before my thought and heartful best wishes are and always have been with this family in their time of need.