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It is incredible how people can choose to live way beyond their means, even when earning an extremely good salary - and then expecting others to step in to bail them out.It’s a slippery slope to assist them,as they clearly have not grasped that others don’t live like them.As others have said, there will be help available.
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I agree. I imagine there will be a significant death in service amount - depends who he has nominated to receive that. It’s so dreadful to have to think about all this at such an awful time. Thinking of you all and sending love x
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Thank you everybody. I hope he has nominated my sister-in-law if there is death in service.
It gets worse, he didn't leave a will and I assumed everything would go straight to his wife, but it doesn't. This is yet another nightmare to it all.
Sept 24 : £32000 Sep 25 - £10356 Feb 26 - £6872
May 25 : £14000 Oct 25 - £9569 Mar 26 - £5998
June 25 : £13000 Nov 25 - £9275
July 25 : £12000 Dec 25 - £8975
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I can’t offer any further advice, other than what’s been already said. What awful things to have to deal with whilst grieving too. My thoughts are with you all xx
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