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  • KajiKita
    KajiKita Posts: 8,279 Forumite
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    Good progress @PennysIntoPounds and @greent 😊👏

    I have started processing the last of the ripe tomatoes into pizza sauce. They are roasted they just need blitzing nosing, labelling and freezing 😊

    Found a present for my impossible to buy for dad’s birthday today - phew! 😊

    KK
    As at 15.09.25:
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    - OPs to mortgage = £12,345 Estd. interest saved = £5,863 to date
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  • rachmac3
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    I am declaring October November December the season for shedding! I do not want to take all this crap into 2026 with me. I don't think I'll get it all done (the actual shed looks dark n scary so might get done in spring, and I'm somewhat reliant on my father's help for shifting his storage unit), but I can make a blooming big dent in it! Anything I get done will make the rest less overwhelming.
    I have -
    Dad's stuff in my living room, spare bedroom, attic/office, and storage unit. That needs sorting and selling or sending to him.
    I have clothes etc for vinted and CS.
    I have my old toys and magazines that at least need sorting, ideally selling some.
    I also have a few boxes in the attic of 'stuff' I've moved from house to house.
    I have newly accumulated 'stuff' in the cupboard under the stairs.
    The cupboard over the stairs has unused Christmas presents I've been bought, and things I've bought for others then not seen for years.

    Ok, I think that's most of it. I feel a bit sick writing it down but it's the first step to taking proper accountability.
    Debts                04/01/25         01/10/25   
    Natwest2           £6,509.97       £5,830 
    NatWest CC      £7,612.74       £6,830
    Lloyds CC          £6,112.60      £4,940
    1st Direct CC     £176.03         £0
    CC total             £20,411.34     £17,600
    TSB OD             £500              £0
    1st Direct OD     £600              £250
    Car loan             £4,000           £4,000
    1st Direct Loan  £10,684.44    £8,710
    Total                   £36,195.78    £30,310
  • badmemory
    badmemory Posts: 9,982 Forumite
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    I suspect that you feel there is so much that you are overfacing yourself.  Can you just select a small area & deal with that.  I was getting nowhere because I kept saying all these places need dealing with & I wasn't dealing with any because it was so much.  Not great but I am now 3 areas down.  
    I was fine until my mother went into a care home & then her stuff was everywhere & I felt guilty for getting rid of stuff.  My sister kept saying just get rid of it but I couldn't, but now I have to.  Enough is enough.
  • PennysIntoPounds
    PennysIntoPounds Posts: 4,807 Forumite
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    £10 in your pocket is definitely a win @greent!

    Buying a birthday present, for a man, who is your father (and who is your father 😁) is the holy grail of achievements @KajiKita

    Excellent determination @rachmac3. Could you nicely suggest to your dad that he pays for a storage facility as all this stuff is long term impacting on your life now?

    These things definitely have to be done in stages @badmemory x
    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6466032/an-in-between-phase

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  • badmemory
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    As for having to buy for a difficult to buy for father - my father's birthday was New Year's Day.  After heaving a sigh of relief on NYD I used to start worrying about Christmas.  When asked - I don't want anything.  The daft thing is that I always felt that the thing he gave genuine thanks for was a cable jumper I knitted him.  Fathers!!
  • greenbee
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    Dog kongs and lick mats done for the next week or so.

    Freezer sorted. Dog walked twice. Cats pandered to endlessly.

    Two venison carcasses prepped and frozen for pet food.

    Billions of loads of washing done including mattress covers, pillow protectors, pillows and pet bedding. Must do the cleaning cloths overnight while there is cheap electricity again tonight. 

    Still have one blind to take down, and some stuff to tidy out of the way but I'm pretty much ready for the plumber. 

    Not at all ready for electricians as I still haven't made decisions on lights.
  • greent
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    Well done on the present buying, @KajiKita!

    @rachmac3 - sounds like you have a great bunch of stuff under the stairs for listing and with Xmas coming up hopefully you can shift a decent amount of it and turn your unwanted presents into someone else's presents 😁
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