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  • Getting the odds and ends of G sold to pay for the dressing gown is a great idea.
    I love a nice dressing gown, makes you feel like a lady of the manor before you, or even if you can't be bothered to, wash and dress!

    Sorry to hear about the family upset. Really sensible to wait for things to settle a bit before getting involved beyond sympathies though.
    Respectfully, some members of your family have previously rather presented things in different ways in the hope it'll part you with your purse or boundaries, so hopefully this will turn out to be a situation in which neither occurs.
    Hugs all the same for a stressful situation

    Some areas provide Falling classes, it might be worth looking online or contacting your GP to see if anything similar is accessible. Strengthening is brilliant but bodies are gonna body, learning how to fall more safely if you do, could be useful in time.

    Though me and Mr PIP went through a week last month where everything seemed to be spilled or banged into or just weird, like I would pour some wine and maybe I'd misjudged the velocity angle, fair enough, there might be a drop of spillage, but the drops would land in a completely nonsense place like the liquid had gone up and leapt. We ended up having to blame it on the poles shifting or somesuch 😁
    I expect your home is having an electromagnetic doodah passing through, is my scientific opinion 👍
  • Sun_Addict
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    Probably best to wait awhile before you offer help with the family situation. It will give you time to assess things and think about what you can do realistically. Hope whatever it is can be resolved fairly swiftly. 
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  • Seasidegal58
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    Sorry to hear about the family upset - yes, best to wait and assess as @PenniesIntoPounds and @Sun_Addict have commented. 
    Make-up and nice clothes/costume jewellery also make me feel better when I go out....
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  • jwil
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    I hope the family situation resolves without you having to do anything.
    "Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee
  • beanielou
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    Hope things resolve themselves. 
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  • Tresinia511
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    Dia,  so much going on! Get your dressing gown on immediately,  monitor and boundary-ise your internal response monitor before engaging text finger on your family WhatsApp group and if anyone notices you are quiet,  use the electromagnetic doodah theory as to why your whatsapps are whatsnots🤣
  • beanielou
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    Another vote for muting the WA
    Hope your appointment goes well. 
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
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