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Living Large, on a Small Income, by the Sea.

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  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 29,049 Forumite
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    You are doing amazing.  Well done for tackling so many 🐸 🐸 🐸 
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £172.5K Equity 36.11%
    2) £1.8K Net savings after CCs 13/9/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £26.8K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 32.6/£127.5K target 25.6% 13/9/25
    (If took bigger lump sum = 54.5K or 42.7%)
    4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise)
    (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
    5) SIPP £4.8K updated 13/9/25
  • Tresinia511
    Tresinia511 Posts: 224 Forumite
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    @doingitanywaysaid "I should be embracing NSDs but I want to buy coffees, chocolate and flowers and candles right now. I also want to buy wine but I am resisting that one!" And my heart just hurt a little reading this,  agree with PiP, your budget needs to sustain your soul as well as your needs,  You should have these small pleasures when you need them! I know you can get creative when you need to and you need coffees and chocolates so get on that thinking cap!
  • doingitanyway
    doingitanyway Posts: 10,163 Forumite
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    edited Today at 5:05PM
    You are spot on @PennysIntoPounds
    I didn't really want the job, but I thought I should want it and that isn't quite the same thing...even the application form was...
    Right again on being allowed pleasures. The thing is my income is not enough for the things I want to do. It isn't that I am being particularly poor at making it work. But, however I look at it I am not spending within my budget. I have avoided my friend so far but she will be popping by later and I will say I am busy tomorrow...thank you for your thoughts  :)

    Thank you @savingholmes and @jwil:smile:

    Thank you @Tresinia511 consider my thinking cap well and truly on!!
    If you have built castles in the air, your work should not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them

    Emergency fund 800/1000
    Buffer fund 0/100
    Debt Free (again) 25/072025
  • doingitanyway
    doingitanyway Posts: 10,163 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Mortgage-free Glee!
    edited Today at 5:20PM
    So, the ordered mat was too thick and the door couldn't open without it bunching up...I received it yesterday and managed to get it sent back today.

    I am still dropping china but my reflexes are kicking in and I am sometimes catching it before it hits a hard surface. The catching is really satisfying  :D However, I have broken maybe 14 pieces of china in the past few months. It wasn't happening before so wondering if it isn't just clumsy me, or one of those things, perhaps something is affecting my hands or grip...

    I am ordering a dressing gown. It is expensive but as I spend lots of time in one, might as well do it in style :D  Plus, winter is coming and it is cheaper than a wood-burner! 

    It would be fair to say I have had a lazy day. No frogs. No To Do. Hey ho 

    I hope you have enjoyed your Saturday reader
    If you have built castles in the air, your work should not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them

    Emergency fund 800/1000
    Buffer fund 0/100
    Debt Free (again) 25/072025
  • Sarahwithlove
    Sarahwithlove Posts: 3,404 Forumite
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    That's alot of china to break in a small amount of time. Definitely try and take notice of what's causing it if you can. 

    Enjoy your dressing gown, love a good dressing gown in the winter. 
    *Dad loan - £5300 - £7200
    *Virgin Credit Card - £3552.50 - £0
    *Natwest - £1828.35 -£0.00

    Barclaycard - £2315.25 - £0.00

    Creation Finance - £960.32 £840
    *Total debt - £8040/£11641.17*


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