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  • Newstartforme
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    Good luck for the coming week Bee . Hope the interviews go well and you hear good news about your room . Glad you and your mum are on good terms regards helping with appointments x

  • beanielou
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    Maybe best to take it down.

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  • Newstartforme
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    Hope all goes well with gp appointment and subsequent benefit appointment. You might feel less pressured if you know you can cope financially with a job under 16 hours , also I think that will be more manageable for you going forward as you help your mum such a lot xx

  • beanielou
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    He’s a cutie 😻

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    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** in ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger.
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.[/b] [11 months left.[/b]
  • Newstartforme
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    As long as you cope financially whilst waiting for the benefits to commence that is the main thing xx

  • RedLipstick
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    Good luck with the GP visit and any assessment, and of course collect all the evidence you can from over the years. I wouldn't rely on the better quality of life though. Not to get into politics, but keep in mind the UK approach to caps, cuts, and all the plans for benefits reductions, I hope it's not going to impact your mental health going through the process. Also, please don't plan for benefits money until you have it in black and white.

    Don't want to out myself with what I do for living but please, don't rely fully on ChatGPT advice, especially when it comes to mental health, and any other LLMs (Large Language Models) supporting any medical self diagnosis (i.e. it's telling you you're experiencing hallucinations), speak to professional. These tools are built to be positive and encouraging, and although under relevant governance/compliance are not classified as high risk, they are classified as general purpose AI, not for medical self diagnosis. Please only rely on advice given in regulated medical setting.

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  • beanielou
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    I think you have summed up well. My personal thoughts are that you need to be doing some form of volunteering to give you some sort of structure 🤗. Even just a couple of weeks shifts a week.

    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** in ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger.
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.[/b] [11 months left.[/b]
  • Newstartforme
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    Hi Bee , glad the lady got back to you . Glad you got some time with mum today . Regarding all the different jobs , you have certainly tried very hard but that also won't be good for you mentally , never having stability for very long isn't a nice feeling . Good luck for anything you have on this week xx

  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 101,614
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    Do you already get PIP?

    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** in ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger.
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.[/b] [11 months left.[/b]
  • Newstartforme
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    Well done on completing the forms for pip , I believe the more detail you can give the better but it does take it out of you energy wise xx

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