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Next steps; grip-relaxing bimbling, and avoiding the temptations

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  • Humdinger1
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    @Suffolk_lass, thank goodness you're on the case! Second all suggestions above.  That hospital needs a rocket up the jacksie! Love Humdinger xx 
  • Watty1
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    For some reason i was thinking about this, and, at the very least you need to write and send both electronically and via post so that the detail is on his records.  It sounds to me as if the detail has been missed completely and at no  point in the future do you want to be trying to recall "detail" when stressed.   You may never need to, but, if it is on his records you might not need to.

    Why I say this I have no idea, my recent biopsy showed that the hospital had no records for an earlier biopsy - but - were able to tell me I had had hepatitis in India in my 20s.  ?? How random!
    Made it to mortgage free but what a muddle that became

    In the event the proverbial hits the fan then co-habitees are better stashing their cash than being mortgage free !!
  • foxgloves
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    I think it sounds as though Mr SL needs to continue taking his recovery at a relaxed pace. These things take it out of us more than we really know, until we try to get back to normal.
    I know you live in an old property, but I am wondering if it used to be a farm? There are some interesting words in your diary like 'cart lodge' & 'pig shed' which sound much more eclectic than 'garden shed' & 'wheelie-bin corner' which is what you'd get in mine. 
    It must be lovely harvesting your own honey, although you're probably so used to it now that it is quite a mundane occurrence. I think I'd be so ridiculously excited, I'd probably frighten all the bees away!
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    2) To read 100 books (36/100) 3) The Shrinking of Foxgloves 6.5kg/30kg

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  • Suffolk_lass
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    Ha! Nothing so grand as a farm @foxgloves. It was two adjoined farm workers cottages with a large plot of land so they could grow their own food and keep their own animals. When it was made into one cottage, the owner before last built a bungalow that is prefab underneath modern cladding and brick slips with an L shaped garden, and two small two bedroom cottages built in the front left corner of the left side of the house plot. The bungalow was gifted to her son. We sold the land to the right after finding my back was badly fractured and it seemed unlikely that I could maintain it going forward. The money was nice, and bought the house in town our son partly owns, a car, and paid down some debt, when we were flat broke. We still have about 1/3 of an acre with the old pig shed. The double cart lodge was built by the previous owners. It is just too narrow for our cars. I can get the small one in, but not get out (of the car!) easily !!! Apparently it is just right for all our carp and Mr Sl's motorbikes (no, I don't know why he needs two either, except that one or the other invariably is in having work done, needs work done, or is planned to have something done, and you need a backup to deploy when unavailable, apparently).
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    OS Grocery Challenge in 2025 I am at £1286.68/£3000 or 42.89% of my annual spend so far
    I also Reverse Meal Plan on that thread and grow much of our own premium price fruit and veg, joining in on the Grow your own thread
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  • I wonder if i could pick your beekeeping brain?  we have bees "nesting" in our roof space, what should we do that doesn't involve removing ceilings or slates?
    Mortgage at 01.01.14 £119,481.83:eek: today £0 Emergency fund £5.5/5.5k & £200/200 cash.:jWeight 24/02/19 14st 7lb now 12st determined to stop defining myself by my mistakes. Progress not perfection.:T100%through my 1% mortgage challenge. 100% through my pb challenge.
  • Watty1
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     Apparently it is just right for all our carp and Mr Sl's motorbikes (no, I don't know why he needs two either, except that one or the other invariably is in having work done, needs work done, or is planned to have something done, and you need a backup to deploy when unavailable, apparently).
    I am learning from the VNM that motorbikes invariable need "work done" as he has one or two in bits in my barn (He says one and the rest is "spares" but I think he may be misleading me :)  He is therefore looking at a third that is road ready.   I'm assuming that one will turn up soon to go with the other bits in the barn.    

    I have horses, currently all 3 have their "issues" as does WattyDog. It would seem motorbikes are no different!
    Made it to mortgage free but what a muddle that became

    In the event the proverbial hits the fan then co-habitees are better stashing their cash than being mortgage free !!
  • Suffolk_lass
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    I wonder if i could pick your beekeeping brain?  we have bees "nesting" in our roof space, what should we do that doesn't involve removing ceilings or slates?
    It depends on the bees. Are you sure they are not wasps?

    We get bumblebees in the roof space of our pig shed from time to time. With bumble bees the nests are annual, and the new virgin queens will be being laid round about now to emerge, mate and find somewhere to overwinter and the parent nest then dwindles and dies out. If it is these, the best advice is to leave them and they will be gone by mid September at the latest. The same applies to wasps and hornets, and lots of the solitary bees that nest in close proximity to each other.

    The only bees to overwinter are honey bees and if they take up residence, as a swarm, you need to act quickly to discourage them from drawing comb (the forerunner to long term residents), using smoke to discourage them. You can also get open mesh floors in sheets from beekeeping equipment suppliers to use to block potential points of entry (chimneys, holes, vents etc.) for the future.

    If they become established you really do need a specialist bee removal builder. Even if a colony dies out over winter, the wax combs they have drawn and the smell of it (and any honey) will attract future swarms, if it is not removed. 

    It really annoys me, as a beekeeper when I see people on local facebook groups saying "Just leave them, they will disappear". When bees swarm they move to a bivouac location and then send out scout bees to find a new home - then they do leave THAT location, to take up residence in people's homes. Then they cause a nuisance and cost a lot to remove. It sounds as though that may have happened to you @in_need_of_direction. A decent bee-friendly builder will make good the damage, and use a bee vac to safely remove and relocate the bees, removing all the evidence they have been there.
    Save £12k in 2025 #2 I am at £4863.32 out of £6000 after May (81.05%)
    OS Grocery Challenge in 2025 I am at £1286.68/£3000 or 42.89% of my annual spend so far
    I also Reverse Meal Plan on that thread and grow much of our own premium price fruit and veg, joining in on the Grow your own thread
    My new diary is here
  • Thank you so much. Thankfully they are definitely bees as dh is allergic to wasp stings.
    Mortgage at 01.01.14 £119,481.83:eek: today £0 Emergency fund £5.5/5.5k & £200/200 cash.:jWeight 24/02/19 14st 7lb now 12st determined to stop defining myself by my mistakes. Progress not perfection.:T100%through my 1% mortgage challenge. 100% through my pb challenge.
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