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PIP assessment - advice
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Muttleythefrog said:Jack_bauer24 said:Muttleythefrog said:Jack_bauer24 said:Hi, I need advice. I got my PIP backpay 2 weeks ago, but I give a thousand to my mate as I owed him some money, now, out of spite, my dad is going to report me to PIP for giving my mate a thousand, I am just wondering, if he does, could I get in trouble with PIP and will they stop my payments because of this? I paid my mate as I just wanted it out of the way as my mate lend me some money to tide me over till I got my PIP. Its stressing me out now this just in case they stop my payments as I only got awarded 2 weeks ago, when my dad said that last night in the text message that he is going to report me for giving a thousand to my mate, I broke down in tears as I don't want to lose this PIP.Any advice would be great, thank you. I could not sleep with this stress.
Do you get any income related benefits.. ? You can spend these as you wish too but there can be issue of deprivation of capital by giving money away if it leads to gaining (or retaining) benefits.
I think you need to take a hard look at who and what is in your life... bad websites... bad people... these are clearly affecting your health.
I only get UC, and I got awarded LCWRA yesterday.
Em... if your savings have never gone above £6k you definitely have no issues... it gets a little more complicated if they ever have for a month.1 -
Sorry to be a pain, but I can't stop worrying about my dad reporting me to PIP, all because I paid my mate back because he lent me money for food, gas, electric and bills. My dad said he is going to report me to PIP as he said, I shouldn't be giving my mate back out of my PIP, as that is not what PIP means.
I can't sleep with the stress. I blocked my dad now, I don't want anything more to do with him. Could I get my PIP stopped because of this?0 -
Jack_bauer24 said:Sorry to be a pain, but I can't stop worrying about my dad reporting me to PIP, all because I paid my mate back because he lent me money for food, gas, electric and bills. My dad said he is going to report me to PIP as he said, I shouldn't be giving my mate back out of my PIP, as that is not what PIP means.
I can't sleep with the stress. I blocked my dad now, I don't want anything more to do with him. Could I get my PIP stopped because of this?2 -
No, they won't care2
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Jack_bauer24 said:Sorry to be a pain, but I can't stop worrying about my dad reporting me to PIP, all because I paid my mate back because he lent me money for food, gas, electric and bills. My dad said he is going to report me to PIP as he said, I shouldn't be giving my mate back out of my PIP, as that is not what PIP means.
I can't sleep with the stress. I blocked my dad now, I don't want anything more to do with him. Could I get my PIP stopped because of this?
Sounds like stopping him from contacting you was probably a sensible step to protect your mental health.3 -
Ok, thank you, you 3 for your replies. It has eased my anxieties. I don't want my dad in my life anymore after this, so I blocked him for my peace of mind and for my mental health.3
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Jack_bauer24 said:Sorry to be a pain, but I can't stop worrying about my dad reporting me to PIP, all because I paid my mate back because he lent me money for food, gas, electric and bills. My dad said he is going to report me to PIP as he said, I shouldn't be giving my mate back out of my PIP, as that is not what PIP means.
I can't sleep with the stress. I blocked my dad now, I don't want anything more to do with him. Could I get my PIP stopped because of this?
Your dad is probably clueless about what PIP is about and he is certainly wrong about this.... sounds more likely he is wanting you to give him the money.... pleased you are distancing yourself from someone who seems intent on causing you harm.
I need you every time you have those thoughts that he may get you into trouble over PIP money... to remind yourself of what we have said here... as all we can do is repeat clearly what has already been said with re-enquiries. We here have vast experience of claiming PIP and helping people with claims (we've given you extensive advice that has been proven correct or accurate for your claim) while understanding very well the surrounding issues... your dad almost certainly does not have this knowledge, experience or understanding as demonstrated by their ridiculous text...and they're acting maliciously.
"Do not attribute to conspiracy what can adequately be explained by incompetence" - rogerblack3 -
Muttleythefrog said:Jack_bauer24 said:Sorry to be a pain, but I can't stop worrying about my dad reporting me to PIP, all because I paid my mate back because he lent me money for food, gas, electric and bills. My dad said he is going to report me to PIP as he said, I shouldn't be giving my mate back out of my PIP, as that is not what PIP means.
I can't sleep with the stress. I blocked my dad now, I don't want anything more to do with him. Could I get my PIP stopped because of this?
Your dad is probably clueless about what PIP is about and he is certainly wrong about this.... sounds more likely he is wanting you to give him the money.... pleased you are distancing yourself from someone who seems intent on causing you harm.
I need you every time you have those thoughts that he may get you into trouble over PIP money... to remind yourself of what we have said here... as all we can do is repeat clearly what has already been said with re-enquiries. We here have vast experience of claiming PIP and helping people with claims (we've given you extensive advice that has been proven correct or accurate for your claim) while understanding very well the surrounding issues... your dad almost certainly does not...and they're acting maliciously.1 -
Jack_bauer24 said:Sorry to be a pain, but I can't stop worrying about my dad reporting me to PIP, all because I paid my mate back because he lent me money for food, gas, electric and bills. My dad said he is going to report me to PIP as he said, I shouldn't be giving my mate back out of my PIP, as that is not what PIP means.
I can't sleep with the stress. I blocked my dad now, I don't want anything more to do with him. Could I get my PIP stopped because of this?
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There's nothing your dad can report you for. It's arrears of PIP, it's money that is owed to you and it has no effect on your benefit. You are free to do with it what you want.You can be a millionaire and get PIP so having money - or no money at all - will not affect PIP.2
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