Weekly Flylady Thread 18th September 2023

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What is FLYLADY? Well, it's our version of the US flylady idea - but we work on the

principle that housework is not fun, it's boring, can be time-consuming, is often thankless but, unfortunately, necessary. It's here on Old Style to provide the support we all need and to make the whole task easier and quicker. We also accept that, sometimes, life just gets on top of us and we can't keep up, maybe because we're time-poor, not in the best of health and/or we have littlies who need us. We are definitely NOT control freaks aiming for perfection and utterly spotless show-homes.

Welcome to the weekly Flylady Thread. You're more than welcome to join us in the everlasting battle against dust, grime and gibble. The aim of our thread is to make those onerous tasks less daunting, and to support each other - and to make time for the finer things in life! 

Please do remember we have to abide by MSE rules; each post should, ideally, include some mention of flying.

Thanks to Valli for last week’s thread.

Every room comes back around next week so please don’t stress about catching up.

Please follow the forum rules on this thread as Flylady has been here a LONG time and is a fabulous support and resource for lots of us. All posts should have some Flyladyrelated (ooh a compound adjective) content! The idea is that even if you are really busy you don't need to fall off the wagon!

Every room comes back around next week so please don't stress about catching up These lists are only suggestions and not a must do list; you are more than welcome to ad dpost and follow your own lists.

Also adding a declutter mission each day will help to gradually clear the clutter and make flying easier. 

A few of the basics before we start the week..

Hotspots are areas where if one thing gets put there, loads of other things follow!

Daily routines are anything you need to do on a daily basis like washing, swish and swipe kitchen and bathroom, ironing, making beds, vacuuming high traffic areas, making meals etc.

Night-time routines are all things which make getting ready in the morning easier, preparing clothes for the next day, making lunches, swish & swipes of the kitchen and tidying the living room before you go to bed plus personals like shower/brush teeth etc.

Fling Boogie - stick on some loud music, grab a bin bag and whiz around the house finding items that can go out with the rubbish, recycling, for charity shop, basically anything that will stop it cluttering your home.

Swish and swipe/S&S means have a quick wipe over an area such as a sink or toilet to prevent the build up of dirt. This is usually done on a daily basis

HHE/HHC/HHI Half Hour exercise/challenge/ironing ... run around for 30 minutes to the Benny Hill music frantically cleaning exercising or ironing.. other music may be used if you prefer!

WM ~ Washing machine

TD ~ Tumble dryer

SC ~ Slowcooker

BM ~ Breadmaker

DW ~ Dishwasher

SOAADFA ~ Sit on 'bottom' and do 'nothing'

KH/XH/FW ~ Ex-husband and other not so polite versions

DH/DD/DS/DW/DP ~ Dear husband/daughter/son/wife/partner/whatever

OH/SO ~ Other half/significant other

NN ~ nice neighbour

Toxic (friend/mother/sister/whoever) ~ person in your life that seems to exist to make your life miserable

AF ~ Aunt Flo 'time of the month'.. nothing to do with flying but it comes up often.

ETA ~ Edited to add

Gibble ~ miscellaneous crap that appears forever homeless

Dot-to-dot ~ pick a small area (not a whole room) like a chair/coffee/table/shelf/worktop or wherever- thats your first 'dot' - totally clear it - clean it - and only put back what should be there - deal with what you have removed (not just move it somewhere else) then if you have time move on and do the same to another 'dot' -the idea is just like a dot to dot puzzle, you aim to join up all the dots and have a tidy room. The trick is to keep each dot tidy until you get them all joined up! All credit to AnW's Mum for this one

RoD ~ Room of Doom, the one room that feels like it is a permanent pit and cannot be used to its potential!

MAD half hour- Mad is the abbreviation for Make A Difference. The idea is that you have a Forth bridge (ie never-ending - or just huge) task but that you work on it in half-hour bursts. This way you know you ARE stooping, and that you won't get it finished but you will make a difference - so it might be clearing out - the garage or shed, or clothes sorting, or weeding - you get the picture - but rather than keep going until you've lost the will to live you do half an hour...but, eventually those half hours will get the job done!

Mr S/A/T/M/L/Al - supermarkets Sainsburys, Asda, Tesco, Morrisons, Lidl, Aldi. You get the picture!! 

Ok here goes this week 

Manic Monday – Living Room, Landing and Stairs

Level One

Open windows and let the air in..

Quick window clean, get rid of finger marks

Level Two

Dust everything

Clean mirrors


Wash cushion covers

Wash sofa covers if removable

Level Three

Wash throws and pet bedding

Wipe the phone

Vacuum under sofa cushions

Mop/sweep hard floors if applicable


  • Wipe light switches, sockets (make sure they are not switched on
  • Sort through your handbag and fling all those ancient bus tickets and receipts.. don’t forget your purse too!!!
  • One load of washing
  • Paperwork clearance.. spend 15 minutes minimum sorting through those piles of paper.
  • Vacuum under furniture you can manage to move without hurting yourself
  • Have a shoe and jacket cull!!
  • Go through lurking piles of paper and throw!
  • Wash the front door and doorstep

Tuesday Thrills ~ Kitchen and Dining Room

Level One...

Clean floors

Level Two...

Clear and wipe kitchen surfaces

Sort fridge bringing what needs using soon to the front, clean out any spills or manky stuff in there!!

Wipe dining table.. (clean table cloth if necessary)

Level Three...

Dust any extra furniture in dining area, checking for cobwebs on way round

Wipe and replace all those small appliances.. kettle, toaster etc

Clean cupboard door fronts and fronts of appliances .. don't forget those kick boards..


  • One load of washing
  • Empty bin and make it smell nice
  • Wipe window sills and clean windows in these rooms
  • Clear and wipe the tops of the wall units!!
  • Clean oven if you didn't do it last week
  • 30 minutes ironing.

Wednesday Whiles ~ Master Bedroom & Landing

Level One...

Check fire alarms are working

Remove and wash bed linen.

Level Two..

Dust surfaces & make sure no cobwebs..

Vacuum mattress before replacing with fresh linen

15 minutes floordrobe clearance

Level Three...

Vacuum floors in bedroom and on landing

Sort one area of clothes or linen storage making sure only what should be in there is, anything that's had it's day or doesn't belong there is removed

Clear out one 'hotspot' drawer/box



  • 27 fling boogie time, time for that midweek fling, go on grab a bag and clear that clutter
  • Put away those summer clothes from someones cupboard and get out the winter woollies.. don’t store anything that is past its best! Make a list of things you need to buy!!
  • Clean windows in these rooms
  • Check house for places where draughts are getting in.. doors, windows etc and see if there are ways to stop it!

Thursday Tinkles ~ Bathroom and Study/Pc Area

Level One...

Clean floors in these rooms (even if it is around the clutter)

Level Two...

Clean baths, toilets and sinks

Clear any clutter from desk

Dust PC and desk and wipe off those cup rings!!

Wipe keyboard, house phone, sockets, switches and mouse etc

Level Three...

Clear clutter from floor

Wipe down tiles in bathroom.. defragment the pc while doing this, if you do the disc cleanup as well it clear all the cookies and temporary files too. Yes it is a thing to defrag, it helps laptops/tablets/phones!!!!!

Clean shower screen/curtain if you have one/if required

Clean the brushes/dust box/filters on the vacuum cleaner!!!! .. make sure they are completely dry before using it though.. I don’t want anyone electrocuted!!



  • Wipe the skirtings, door and window frames in these rooms
  • Wash your bathroom mats, nets, clean blind/curtains etc
  • Sort a wardrobe or part of, a drawer or set of drawers making sure it has what needs to be in it and any 'extras' are put where they should be
  • Give the pc desk a right good clean! Pull out the case, defluff and degrot it all!!

Friday Frills ~ those frightening Friday kids rooms and spare rooms

Level One...

Vacuum the floor, even if it's just where you can see

Level Two...

Clear away anything that isn't in it's place, clothes, toys, books etc

Dusting.. all those shelves and flat fluffy surfaces!! Don’t forget the light shade and curtain pole!!!

Level Three...

Strip beds and replace with fresh linen .. check if duvets need freshening up too

Sort through a cupboard/chest of drawers and get the clothes out which are no longer wearable, too small or out of season

Wipe any sticky marks off walls and doors



  • Wash a set of curtains, nets, duvet or throw
  • Time for the Friday Flylady Fling, in the toy box!!!! aim for 27.. if no toy box you’ll have to choose another area

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