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An in-between phase

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  • Blackcats
    Blackcats Posts: 3,982 Forumite
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    Hope you are feeling a bit better tomorrow.
  • Thanks @Blackcats. I do try to at least struggle on with some bits most of the time, but when too many things hurt or aren't working at one time sometimes you just have to let yourself lie down and be steamrollered!
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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,473 Ambassador
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    Feel better soon.
    Be kind to yourself.
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    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
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  • Thank you @beanielou. What is this 'be kind to yourself' you speak of?! 😁 No, I am trying but as you know it is very, very wearing on one's physical and mental resources to feel dire, to not be able to do anything about feeling dire, and to live in dread of when the next time to feel even more dire than usual quickly rolls around. But at least there are books and wine under blankets and side lamps, so all is not lost 
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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,473 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Books & cats are my salvation.
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • Oh @beanielou what lovely pics, thank you! Aw look at der likkle fluffy faces- herhum, I mean, what fine and mighty warriors they are *tickles the mighty warriors floofyness*
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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,473 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    They light up my life every day.
    Both rescues at different times.

    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • They are gorgeous. 
    Thank you for being a cat-rescuer
    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6466032/an-in-between-phase

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  • EssexHebridean
    EssexHebridean Posts: 24,615 Forumite
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    Can't beat a Beanie-supplied pusscat piccy when you're feeling a bit grot, eh! They are a pair of beauties! 

    Hopefully you're feeling at least a bit more up to speed today anyway - and echoing the fact that yes, sometimes, you just need to accept that sitting and resting is the fastest way to create at least some sort of an improvement. 
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