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What is FLYLADY? Well, it's our version of the US
flylady idea - but we work on the principle that housework is not fun, it's
boring, can be time-consuming, is often thankless but, unfortunately,
necessary. It's here on Old Style to provide the support we all need and to
make the whole task easier and quicker. We also accept that, sometimes, life
just gets on top of us and we can't keep up, maybe because we're time-poor, not
in the best of health and/or we have littlies who need us. We are definitely
NOT control freaks aiming for perfection and utterly spotless show-homes.
Welcome to the weekly Flylady Thread. You're more than welcome to join us in
the everlasting battle against dust, grime and gibble. The aim of our thread is
to make those onerous tasks less daunting, and to support each other - and to
make time for the finer things in life!
Please do remember we have to abide by MSE rules; each post should, ideally,
include some mention of flying.
Thank you Valli for last week’s
thread.
Please follow the forum rules on this thread as
Flylady has been here a LONG time and is a fabulous support and resource for
lots of us. All posts should have some Flylady-related (ooh a compound
adjective) content!
The idea is that even if you are really busy you
don't need to fall off the wagon!
Every room comes back around next week so please
don’t stress about catching up
These lists are only suggestions and not a must
do list; you are more than welcome to post and follow your own lists.
Also adding a declutter mission each day will
help to gradually clear the clutter and make flying easier.
A few of the basics before we start the week
Hotspots are areas where if one thing gets put
there, loads of other things follow!
Daily routines are anything you need to do on a
daily basis like washing, swish and swipe kitchen and bathroom, ironing, making
beds, vacuuming high traffic areas, making meals etc.
Night-time routines are all things which make
getting ready in the morning easier, preparing clothes for the next day, making
lunches, swish & swipes of the kitchen and tidying the living room before
you go to bed plus personals like shower/brush teeth etc.
Fling Boogie - stick on some loud music, grab a
bin bag and whiz around the house finding items that can go out with the
rubbish, recycling, for charity shop, basically anything that will stop it
cluttering your home.
Swish and swipe/S&S means have a quick wipe
over an area such as a sink or toilet to prevent the build up of dirt. This is
usually done on a daily basis
HHE/HHC/HHI Half Hour exercise/challenge/ironing ... run around for 30 minutes
to the Benny Hill music frantically cleaning exercising or ironing.. other
music may be used if you prefer!
WM ~
Washing machine
TD ~
Tumble dryer
SC ~
Slowcooker
BM ~
Breadmaker
DW ~
Dishwasher
SOAADFA ~ Sit on 'bottom' and do 'nothing'
KH/XH/FW ~ Ex-husband and other not so polite versions
DH/DD/DS/DW/DP ~ Dear
husband/daughter/son/wife/partner/whatever
OH/SO ~
Other half/significant other
NN ~
nice neighbour
Toxic (friend/mother/sister/whoever)
~ person in your life that seems to exist to make your life miserable
AF ~
Aunt Flo 'time of the month'.. nothing to do with flying but it comes up often.
ETA ~
Edited to add
Gibble ~ miscellaneous crap that appears forever homeless
Dot-to-dot ~ pick a small area (not a whole room) like a
chair/coffee/table/shelf/worktop or wherever- thats your first 'dot' - totally
clear it - clean it - and only put back what should be there - deal with what
you have removed (not just move it somewhere else) then if you have time move
on and do the same to another 'dot' -the idea is just like a dot to dot puzzle,
you aim to join up all the dots and have a tidy room. The trick is to keep each
dot tidy until you get them all joined up! All credit to AnW's
Mum for this one
RoD ~
Room of Doom, the one room that feels like it is a permanent pit and cannot be
used to its potential!
MAD half hour- Mad is the abbreviation for
Make A Difference.
The idea is that you have a Forth bridge (ie
never-ending - or just huge) task but that you work on it in half-hour bursts.
This way you know you ARE stooping, and that you won't get it finished but you
will make a difference - so it might be clearing out - the garage or shed, or
clothes sorting, or weeding - you get the picture - but rather than keep going
until you've lost the will to live you do half an hour...but, eventually those
half hours will get the job done!
Mr S/A/T/M/L/Al - supermarkets Sainsburys, Asda, Tesco,
Morrisons, Lidl, Aldi. You get the picture!!
Click
here to read Toots wonderful welcome guide
Right
here we go...
Mondays
are Marvellous!! - kitchen and dining area
Level One
Sweep and mop the floor
Declutter and wipe the
worksurfaces
Level Two
Wipe the table
degunge the fridge
Wipe the units and large
appliances
Level Three
wipe any drawers that are grotty
and cluttered
Wash the windows and sills
Run WM's and DW's through a
clean cycle.. don't forget to scrub out the drawers and filters.
Extras
- Deweb and polish
- Clear out a cupboard of junk!
- Wash any curtains/table cloths that need it
- S&S the hob & oven
- Wipe and water plants
- Dust all the electricals.. carefully.. don't want anybody getting fried!!!
- Wipe front door.. inside and out!
- Binbag dance
- HHI
Wiggly
Wednesday- Master bedroom and landing!
Level One
Strip and wash the bedding
Clear the floordrobe
Level Two
Air the duvet....
Clear the floors and vacuum them!
Wash windows
Clean out pets/wash beds
Level Three
Sort through a hotspot
Organise your toiletries and make-up stash, do you really need 6 lipsticks!!!!
Sort through a cupboard.. make it neat and tidy
Empty and wash out all the bins
Extras
- Half hour... FILING... meanness I know but it won't do itself!!
- Deweb and dust
- 36 fling boogie!! .. GO
- Empty and wash out all the bins!!
- Quick one.. check those smoke alarms - no that doesn't mean burn the toast/bacon to check 🙂
Thursday
Thrills - Bathroom and Study..
Level One
Declutter the floors
Wipe down sofas and seats
Level Two
Dejunk the desk and wipe off the gunge
Vacuum/mop floors
Scrub the bath, sinks, toilets, showers and tiles etc
Level Three
Wash the windows
Empty out a cupboard clean it out and put back only the bits you need to keep
Defrag the pc and delete 50 useless emails
Extras
- Collect all the laundry from upstairs
- HHI
- Change any lightbulbs you have been leaving.. !!
- Sort out the coats and bags and shoes..
- Do a cupboard stock take,sort a meal plan and shopping list
- Fill a binbag for charity shop
Declutter Challenge 2025
DH declutter challenge award 🏅⭐️
Comments
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Thanks for the thread.
I should be able to fly a bit more this week.Spend less now, work less later.5 -
TY for Fred.. I hope all is well Natty xx
I have a landing to clear and a front room to dig out and a few bills to pay this week. I am really fed up of the mess in here.. I have blanket to knit for the new grandbeast but trying to finish this cardigan first.
LB moment 10/06 Debt Free date 6/6/14Hope to be debt free until the day I dieMortgage-free Wannabee (05/08/30)6/6/14 £72,454.65 (5.65% int.)08/12/2023 £33602.00 (4.81% int.)5 -
Thank you for the new thread, Natty. It sounds as if you are up to something!
DH went out to his wargames this afternoon, so I had a visit from DS1 and DGD1+2 all to myselfManaged to declutter a Jamie cook book to DGD2 and a phone (for DGD2 when she starts secondary school) to DS1.
Just writing my list for the coming week. I need to sew a paw back on one of Rosie's puppy toys before I lose it.
Love from Rosie to HB's new family member xx
Well done for Flying solo, Fayolle x
(((Hugs))) spoons and sticks to all Flyfriends in need. Hope everyone has a good week xxx6 -
Thanks for the thread.
Another week rushed by. Went down to my Mum's on Thursday, lots of traffic so not our best journey. Pottered round doing things for her, took her out for lunch on Friday. Saturday another traffic-laden journey driving Mum up to SB and SIL in London. Lovely lunch with them, DB and SIL then drove home - golly it's the first time I've driven over Tower Bridge, scary but interesting! DB drove Mum home.
Pretty tired today after all that traffic concentrating, so went to church, did a load in the garden, did a bit of a report then made dinner. That's about it for today. Next week needs to be very efficient as our few days away with BIL is the end of the following week.Remember...a layer of dust protects the wood beneath it.8 -
Morning all
lovely day yesterday, so i ploughed through the laundry bin and got it all line dried, including towels. Also cleaned out the peg bag (home of more dust bunnies) since it was almost empty. Unpegged into either ‘to be ironed’ wash basket or ‘put to air only’ wash basket which, happily, was the fullest. Most of it hit the maiden to air last night. The forecast for the rest of the week isn’t good so pleased about that. i also washed my car, did some weed pulling, cleaned out the bunnies with DDs help, visited the Aged Ps, and, finally, got the bark chips spread over the section of front garden between my drive and next doors little wall. Well, about a third of it - need 2 more bags so must keep an eye out at Mr L. It’s my long term plan to suppress weeds, improve the soil and keep the moisture in as my front garden dries out very quickly.
I also decluttered three episodes of endeavour from the tv box and started knitting, a baby cardy for a baby born last Friday, because i haven’t felt like knitting after the failure of the last project.Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY"I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily DickinsonJanice 1964-2016
Thank you Honey Bear7 -
Morning dear friends
Feeling quite chirpy, despite knowing that it's going to be a tricky day at the paid stuff. Pilates done, lunch packed, DW emptied and kitchen tidied.
Late start and late finish at the paid stuff today, going to get ready in a minute.
Hope Monday is kind to you all x8 -
Morning all.So far today I have done dailies, some admin, hoovered through and walked Poppet in the pouring rain. Dry washing is away and second wash load today is in machine.
I'm now waiting for DD to pick me up to take DGD2 to soft play.
Have a great day everyone.Spend less now, work less later.7 -
Squeak at dentist this morning. 10:50tomorrow DD1 has a hospital appointment so I have LionelWednesday is my nail appointment 12:30 and EC has a MW appointmentThursday Twinkle is at dentist 11:40and Friday I might go a whole day without seing anyone but myself!
DD1 & gf turned up at almost midnight last night.. They are here until Wednesday when it is their friends funeral.OH starting his first training course of the new recruits.
I am going to do the DW and WM and then finish knitting this pink cardigan .. I need to do 2 leafy blankets and several more cardigans.. I will do a quick whizz over the front room too.. I am losing sofas again.The back landing needs clearing and I will have someone vacuum it later.. probably about 6pm when everyone is awake!I have a parcel to package and flingI need to clean the potty for Lionel for tomorrow.I need to order a spare part for the Joolz pushchair too so I can sell it.List 5 things on V!nted (£140 in my balance on there at the moment)
Mondays are Marvellous!! - kitchen and dining area
Level One
mop the floor
Level Two
Level Three
Wash the windows and sills
ExtrasTwinkly Tuesday - Living room, hall, stairs and porch!Level OneDeclutter ALL the floors!!Clear the mantle of junkLevel TwoDust those flat fluffy surfacesVacuum/sweep all the floors.. stairs too!Level ThreeWash the windowsWipe down ALL the paintwork!Extras- Wipe and water plants
- Wipe front door.. inside and out!
LB moment 10/06 Debt Free date 6/6/14Hope to be debt free until the day I dieMortgage-free Wannabee (05/08/30)6/6/14 £72,454.65 (5.65% int.)08/12/2023 £33602.00 (4.81% int.)6 -
I am home alone and did 2 hours of cleaning/tidying/sorting before I sat down then did admin type things on my phone before I let myself check anything else 😂
hope everyone well x6 -
Not really sure what is going on, I have 'lost' the morning, goodness knows what happened, I have cleaned since 8am until 12.15 noon when OH asked what was for lunch, I told him it was too early ( I thought it was about 10am) I know I haven't been sitting around or on internet.Bed doneWM x 2 dneWhole house hooveredWooden floors washedBins doneBasins / toilets cleanedBreast Cancer Now 100 miles October 2022 100 / 100miles
D- Day 80km June 2024 80/80km (10.06.24 all done)
Diabetic UK 1 million steps July 2024 to complete by end Sept 2024. 1,001,066/ 1,000,000 (20.09.24 all done)
Breast Cancer Now 100 miles 1st May 2025 (18.05.2025 all done)
Diabetic UK 1 million steps July 2025 to complete by end Sept 2025. 737,770 / 1,000,000Sun, Sea6
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