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Progress not Perfection

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  • doingitanyway
    doingitanyway Posts: 10,291 Forumite
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    Glad dog improved. I had forgotten about Mexican bean burgers but will be making them now. Thank you
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  • Eep, that is quite the diary realisation!
    How are you feeling about it what with it soon being a different budget in retirement?
    Do you think Mr SA has grasped that there won't be the same money coming in?
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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,443 Ambassador
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    What are you going to be doing to ensure that you are not at home all the time at Mr SA’s beck and call? 
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  • Sun_Addict
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    Eep, that is quite the diary realisation!
    How are you feeling about it what with it soon being a different budget in retirement?
    Do you think Mr SA has grasped that there won't be the same money coming in?
    I won’t be able to save anywhere near as much as I do now that’s for sure. It’s hard to say how much I’ll have to play around with until it actually happens but I have a rough idea. I keep reminding Mr SA that things will be very different, whether it’s sunk in who knows. 
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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,443 Ambassador
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    beanielou said:
    What are you going to be doing to ensure that you are not at home all the time at Mr SA’s beck and call? 
    I’m determined to have time away from him. I have a few ideas of what I’d like to do to keep myself occupied - gym, U3A, lunch with friends, college Spanish lessons for instance. I keep reminding him I don’t plan to be doing everything with him every day. 
    Good. Keep telling him so it hopefully sinks in.
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  • enthusiasticsaver
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    Glad to hear that you have plans not to let Mr SA hijack your retirement.  Your plans sound good.  It is a shame you cannot get holidays away without him though.  I have a walking holiday next week with three friends as Mr ES does not do walking and I think whatever the circumstances it is nice for each of you to have their own hobbies/friends. 
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  • doingitanyway
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