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  • Sun_Addict
    Sun_Addict Posts: 24,075 Forumite
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    Sorry to hear it’s not the news you wanted. At least you know where you are now after all the uncertainty. 
    I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)
  • maggiem
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    Sorry to hear that news, hope you are not too shocked.
  • Really sorry to hear that @jwil - I have been there more than once & it has always worked out for the better x
  • Have you thought what your redundancy package might look like? Best advice I got upon leaving a job was to give myself a work break and actually plan based on what I wanted.  I don’t guarantee that it’s always perfect but it made me think about negotiables versus non negotiables. It even got me gardening for the first time in my life.  Even though it’s now a rare activity, it brings me joy that I would never otherwise have discovered.  
    In the meantime, take care and breathe.
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  • Oh no sorry to hear the news. Take time to digest it and go easy on yourself. Absolutely gutted for you. And i know its not gonna help at the moment but as someone whose not long been cut from a job I've somehow forged a new path. Hopefully they will at least treat you all decently in the consultation period. Are your colleagues all affected too. Makes morale drop like a sack of **** doesn't it, take care xxxxx
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  • jwil
    jwil Posts: 21,992 Forumite
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    Have you thought what your redundancy package might look like? Best advice I got upon leaving a job was to give myself a work break and actually plan based on what I wanted.  I don’t guarantee that it’s always perfect but it made me think about negotiables versus non negotiables. It even got me gardening for the first time in my life.  Even though it’s now a rare activity, it brings me joy that I would never otherwise have discovered.  
    In the meantime, take care and breathe.
    Thank you.  When they did VR I asked for a quote to find out, and had a big battle with them over the conditions I was entitled to - there being thousands different in terms of what they said I was entitled to and what I understood I was.  I eventually 'won' and have the emails stored safely in case. I'm glad I had that battle then and not now.

    I have decided I am going to sit it out, and not rush to do anything. I'm not leaving without that redundancy payment, so I'm not going to start looking yet.  I've decided I'll take a month off, and then start looking.

    Oh no sorry to hear the news. Take time to digest it and go easy on yourself. Absolutely gutted for you. And i know its not gonna help at the moment but as someone whose not long been cut from a job I've somehow forged a new path. Hopefully they will at least treat you all decently in the consultation period. Are your colleagues all affected too. Makes morale drop like a sack of **** doesn't it, take care xxxxx
    Thank you.  I know you've had a rough time recently too.  I spoke to a couple of colleagues last night and it appears they've taken a wrecking ball to our team.  I can't believe it.

    If it’s any consolation I lost a job I loved a week after I lost my mom 😞 However I found a much better job 2 weeks later that I’m still in 24 years down the line. 
    Thank you.  That must have been unbelievably tough for you.  I'm glad it worked out in your favour though.
    "Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee
  • I agree you definitely need to wait for the redundancy package and at the risk of being a conspiracy type theorist person do you have the emails stored or printed on your own device :) 
    Take care xx
    Jan 18 Joint debts 35,213

    Mortgage Jan 18- 77224 May 25- just under 65k

    June 25 Debts in my name only £5170. DH can't keep track...
  • jwil
    jwil Posts: 21,992 Forumite
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    I agree you definitely need to wait for the redundancy package and at the risk of being a conspiracy type theorist person do you have the emails stored or printed on your own device :) 
    Take care xx
    I most certainly do :grin:  I have them saved in several places.  I'm obviously a conspiracy theorist type person too.
    "Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee
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