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  • jwil
    jwil Posts: 22,031 Forumite
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  • savingholmes
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    Hi Jwil - as you know I totally relate on the job front. Not surprising you're having anxiety in the circumstances. It's a messy situation. 

    Good your house is coming together and that you are able to be more active with the kids.
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  • jwil
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    Hi Jwil - as you know I totally relate on the job front. Not surprising you're having anxiety in the circumstances. It's a messy situation. 

    Good your house is coming together and that you are able to be more active with the kids.
    Thank you,  although I wouldn't wish it on anyone, it's nice to know people understand.

    The house is slowly getting there and it's nice to get out and about.
    "Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee
  • doingitanyway
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    Sorry for your anxiety. It makes sense. I recall when we had redundancies at work and everyone felt on edge, as we always had the feeling that not all information was being shared with everyone. 

    The house is sounding good.
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  • jwil
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    Sorry for your anxiety. It makes sense. I recall when we had redundancies at work and everyone felt on edge, as we always had the feeling that not all information was being shared with everyone. 

    The house is sounding good.
    Yes, it's definitely the case that information is not being shared and it's all just dragging on for so long.  It's been going on for well over a year now.

    The house is definitely improving, still a long way to go in terms of 'stuff' but progress with the structure is happening which is good.
    "Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee
  • jwil
    jwil Posts: 22,031 Forumite
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    Today's PAD - £2

    Jan - £319
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    Apr - £114
    May - £118
    June - £93
    July - £123
    August - £53
    "Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee
  • Family day out sounds fantastic as does the time spent reading, both amazingly good for making you feel better I'm sure. Housework can wait a bit longer whilst you recharge x. Says me who spent all b***""y night cleaning cos th house is not in a  Good way. Any tips for being full time whilst running a house are welcome!! Especially when the kids are home making more mess 😂
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  • jwil
    jwil Posts: 22,031 Forumite
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    Jan - £319
    Feb - £135
    Mar - £129
    Apr - £114
    May - £118
    June - £93
    July - £123
    August - £61
    "Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee
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