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  • jwil
    jwil Posts: 22,627 Forumite
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    Hi jwil, 
    Your PADs are inspiring me. I started doing this last month (after a long hiatus from the forums I am back to pay down my mortgage) and I felt like it wouldn't make much difference with small PADs here and there, but reading stories like yours helps me to see every little really does help. 
    I remember those books from my DS1, DS2 & DD too. I have actually kept our favourites back when the kids all had a clear out, so if I should ever be blessed with grandkids I will hand them back over as a gift, hopefully the kids will have their own fond memories of reading them with me and it's not just me who remembers them, :joy: DFW321 :heart:
    Hi DFW321,good to see you back!  Well done on the PADs, it's surprising on how they add up.

    I'm sure your kids will have good memories of reading together, it was always a lovely time of day.

    Loving Little Miss's enthusiasm for decluttering - now I wonder where she's got that from eh?! what a star though, even if there isn't much to sell at least it's gone from the house!

    How's your knee doing now? I'm having an issue with one of mine in particular at the moment - not sure what's causing it but every few days it swells up a bit and gets sore. I'm trying to be scrupulous about not sitting with my feet tucked under me a I'm sure that doesn't help! 
    I hope I've taught her well :D  However, I don't have half as much determination and dedication as she does, I wish I did!

    My knee seems ok again thank you.  It's very strange isn't it.  On Friday I could barely walk by the end of the day, it was so painful, but resting it overnight helped.  I have taken it easy on Saturday, and yesterday did a bit of walking but tried to keep it gentle.  This morning I walked to school as normal and it was fine.  I'm just getting the odd twinge now and it can be a bit uncomfortable at night but it's mostly ok.  Funnily enough I think sitting badly at our home computer doesn't help as our desk has a shelf on it so we can't put our knees under it. My work setup is fine as I've got a proper table for that.

    I hope your knee improves soon.
    "Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee
  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 29,109 Forumite
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    Hope your knee improves EH as well as Jwil.

    Great news on your DD's continued decluttering Jwil. Sounds like she's well and truly got the message that things have to go before anything new can come in.
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £171.3K Equity 36.55%
    2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 10/10/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £30.9K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.25K) = 35.5/£127.5K target 27.8% 14/11/25
    (If took bigger lump sum = 62K or 48.6%)
    4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise) (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
    5) SIPP £5.1K updated 14/11/25
  • jwil
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    One of my meetings was cancelled today which turns out to be a good thing as I got a phone call this morning to say the kids in the afterschool club were doing a demonstration and presentation today so could I come down early to watch.  Nothing like a bit of late notice!  So I finished at 3.30, went down for that, brought the kids home, and then straight back down to school for the SATs meeting.

    I think it's just going to be one of those weeks where I don't know whether I'm coming or going.
    "Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee
  • jwil
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    Hope your knee improves EH as well as Jwil.

    Great news on your DD's continued decluttering Jwil. Sounds like she's well and truly got the message that things have to go before anything new can come in.
    Thank you :)  Hopefully she's got the message!
    "Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee
  • jwil
    jwil Posts: 22,627 Forumite
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    Today's PAD - £2

    Jan - £319
    Feb - £36
    "Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 97,040 Ambassador
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    That sounds really positive :)
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  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 29,109 Forumite
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    Sounds like your new boss is going to be helpful.
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £171.3K Equity 36.55%
    2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 10/10/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £30.9K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.25K) = 35.5/£127.5K target 27.8% 14/11/25
    (If took bigger lump sum = 62K or 48.6%)
    4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise) (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
    5) SIPP £5.1K updated 14/11/25
  • jwil
    jwil Posts: 22,627 Forumite
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    beanielou said:
    That sounds really positive :)
    Thank you, it does :) 

    Sounds like your new boss is going to be helpful.
    It does, and it's a big relief.
    "Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee
  • jwil
    jwil Posts: 22,627 Forumite
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    Today's PAD - £2

    Jan - £319
    Feb - £38
    "Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee
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