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  • Moths are something that doesn't bother me at all - I can happily coexist with them, or catch them and pop them back outside. 

    As for Breakdown cover - our cars are both with AXA and on the occasions we've needed to use them they have been extremely good, too. How much it costs depends on the age of the cars so could be worth getting a quote. They were certainly extremely reasonable for us. 
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  • jwil
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    ladyholly said:
    I think the concern about moths ove butterflies is we usually see moths flying around lights inside whereas butterflies are normally outside so although we see them they are not in close proximity for long.
    I agree with this
    "Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee
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    Isn't it funny how we all react differently to various flying/crawling things.  Big flies, spiders just shoo them out the door/window unharmed.  But tiny flies have me wondering how I can swat them.  They make my skin crawl.  Insects outside I still wouldn't stomp on them even though they do seem to have a very nasty habit of biting me
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    Moths are something that doesn't bother me at all - I can happily coexist with them, or catch them and pop them back outside. 

    As for Breakdown cover - our cars are both with AXA and on the occasions we've needed to use them they have been extremely good, too. How much it costs depends on the age of the cars so could be worth getting a quote. They were certainly extremely reasonable for us. 
    I'm not too fussed about them, but the kids freak out at flying things.  I only googled this one as I'd never seen it before.  But it was definitely a bit bizarre having several on the window and one flapping around in the bathroom.  The kids would have had kittens if they'd seen it,

    Thanks for that info on breakdown cover.  Our vehicles range from 14 years old to over 50 years old, so I'd kind of like to stay where we are as I know we are covered, but not unless they come down in price significantly!
    "Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee
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    Well I've phoned and haggled, and got the price down a bit with 3 free months, but it wasn't enough for us so I've cancelled.  We've got time to look at other companies and find one that suits (and check what cashback offers are available too).

    I've been playing again with the retirement spreadsheet.  I've removed all the extras like the work on the house etc that I included before, and focussed solely on the basic income needs.  I've also added in DH in case he changes his mind once I give up work.  So I've now got a figure for me, one for DH and a joint one.  When we get to that date, then we can consider whether we've got enough or not.  Even working 10 hours a week at minimum wage will add another £400-£500 a month each to our totals, so if we can't quite retire, we could work significantly less!
    "Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee
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    Oooh exciting.
    Do you have a provisional date to look forward too?
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    We've both been looking at retirement figures the last few days then Jwil! 
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    beanielou said:
    Oooh exciting.
    Do you have a provisional date to look forward too?
    Yes, I've got my countdown in place :grin: 31st March 2033, 3474 days :D:D  It's the point at which I plan to move on from full time work - the mortgage will be gone and I should know what the kids are doing with regards to uni/work etc.  If I don't feel able to retire financially, or don't want to, then I will look for part time work. I can't access pension for another two years so would need to support myself from savings for those two years.  Of course, I could also decide to stay where I am - it's having the freedom to choose which is my aim.

    We've both been looking at retirement figures the last few days then Jwil! 
    Very true!  Though I look at mine several times a week to see what I can tweak to make sure it's possible :D:D  It's a real focus for me, so I am very much constantly looking at what I can do to achieve my aim.  It's also keeping me focussed on healthy eating and exercise so I'm able to enjoy it, so it has wider benefits too.
    "Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee
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    Jan - £141
    Feb - £139
    March - £89
    April £149
    May - £79
    June - £270
    July - £253
    August - £173
    September - £112
    "Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee
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    The freedom of choice of priceless. 
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