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What is FLYLADY? Well, it's our version of the US
flylady idea - but we work on the principle that housework is not fun, it's
boring, can be time-consuming, is often thankless but, unfortunately,
necessary. It's here on Old Style to provide the support we all need and to
make the whole task easier and quicker. We also accept that, sometimes, life
just gets on top of us and we can't keep up, maybe because we're time-poor, not
in the best of health and/or we have littlies who need us. We are definitely
NOT control freaks aiming for perfection and utterly spotless show-homes.
Welcome to the weekly Flylady thread. If you need help
organising your week or getting motivated when it comes to housework then come
and join us.
Thank you to Valli for last week’s thread.
There are 3 levels per day
with depending on how much time you have. Feel free to mix and match to suit
your own personal circumstances.
Every room
comes back around next week so please don’t stress about catching up.
These lists are only suggestions and not a must do
list; you are more than welcome to post and follow your own lists.
Also adding a declutter mission each day will help
to gradually clear the clutter and make flying easier.
A few of the basics before we start the week:
Hotspots are areas where if one thing gets put there,
loads of other things follow!
Daily routines are anything you need to do on a daily basis
like washing, swish and swipe kitchen and bathroom, ironing, making beds,
vacuuming high traffic areas, making meals etc.
Night-time routines are all things which make getting ready in
the morning easier, preparing clothes for the next day, making lunches, swish
& swipes of the kitchen and tidying the living room before you go to bed
plus personals like shower/brush teeth etc.
Fling Boogie - stick on some loud music, grab a bin bag
and whiz around the house finding items that can go out with the rubbish,
recycling, for charity shop, basically anything that will stop it cluttering
your home.
Swish and swipe/S&S means have a quick wipe over an area such as
a sink or toilet to prevent the build up of dirt. This is usually done on a
daily basis
HHE/HHC/HHI Half Hour exercise/challenge/ironing ... run
around for 30 minutes to the Benny Hill music frantically cleaning exercising
or ironing.. other music may be used if you prefer!
Some of our abbreviations: DH- dear husband, OH- other half,
KH/CF- affectionate term for ex husband or partner DS/DD- dear
son/daughter, DGC- dear grandchild, WM- washing machine, DW- dishwasher, LR/DR-
living/dining room, RoD- room of doom, Mr S/A/T/M/L/Al- supermarkets
Sainsburys, Asda, Tesco, Morrisons, Lidl, Aldi. You get the picture!
Click here to read Toots wonderful
welcome guide
Ok here goes this week!
I have also added Christmas extras this week so that we can hopefully be on top of the Christmas stuff before the big day 🎄
Please note these are the dates that Royal Mail are going on strike leading up to.Christmas.
Royal Mail workers are striking on seven days throughout December, including Christmas Eve, which will heavily disrupt Christmas deliveries.
The strike dates are as follows:
Thursday, December 1
Friday, December 9
Sunday, December 11
Wednesday, December 14
Thursday, December 15
Friday, December 23
Saturday, December 24
Monday ~ Grotty Kitchen and Gloomy Dining Room
Level
One...
Declutter and
mop/vacuum the floors
Find and wipe
the worksurfaces
Level
Two...
Wipe the big
appliances and units.. don't forget kickboards!
Wipe small
appliances and replace.. do one thoroughly.. descale or decrumb or
degunge!Clear and wipe a shelf or window sill
Level
Three...
Wipe the table
and replace the cloth if necessary.
Sort through
and clean out one cupboard
Clean the oven
and hob..
Wrap any
presents you need before the 25th, gifts for teachers or friends. Do you need
to give Christmas Boxes to milkmen, window cleaners etc?
Extras
- Don't forget any cards and presents that need posting. The post office are still delivering Special Delivery parcels on the strike days.
- Check through Christmas ornaments, do any need throwing away or replacing. Last thing you want when you decorate your tree is to find broken ornaments!!!
- Clean out the fridge.. make use of anything almost past its best
- Wash the windows
- Clean the top of the kitchen wall units.. if you can reach.. no accidents please!!
- Dust and Deweb
Christmas Extras
- Wrap all the presents for family/friends as you buy them. It makes it so much easier 😉
- Finalise shopping orders/lists for your christmas food shop.. remember shops are only closed for one day!!!!
- Check the smoke alarms
- Fill a binbag for charity shop
- Finalise your christmas menu and shopping list
- Defluff and deweb these rooms
- Stick all your cards up as they arrive.
- Christmas wrapping, try and get at least a few done when you've bought the presents.
- Replace the batteries in your annoying singing things
- Make a receipts envelope for all the receipts from Christmas presents, just incase anything needs to go back.
Wednesday ~ Brilliant Bathroom, Sociable Study
and other grotty places!
Level One...
Clean the loo
and the bath and the shower and the basins!
Defragment PC
and run spyware scans while scrubbing
Level Two..
Wash windows
and any chairs/sofas
Clean
curtains/blinds etc
Declutter
floors
Level Three...
Wash
bathmats/shower curtain and furry bog hats
Replace any
sponges/flannels/toothbrushes etc that need it, throw out any empty bottles..
decant dribbles into fuller bottles
Extras -
- Clear a hotspot, if it's bad spend at least 10 minutes on it.
- Clean windows in these rooms
- HHI
- Spend 30 minutes just having time for yourself, whatever it is doing.
- Fling boogies are here again, aim for 27 items to leave the house!
Christmas Extras
- Bake pies and buns!
- Make a note of when the binmen are coming over the Christmas period!!!
Thursday ~ Master messroom! and landing - 🎄It's December!! 🎄
Level One...
Strip the bedding
and get it washed!
Level Two...
30 minutes
floordrobe/junk clearing!
Vacuum and
turn the mattress, vacuum the landing and floor
Remake the bed
Clean the
windows
Level Three...
Wash any
curtains/etc that are in need
Wipe down all
the furry paintwork
Fill a binbag
for charity shop or the bin!
Extras
- HHI
- Update remaining present lists
- Collect all the dirty laundry from upstairs
- Clean out any pets/wash pet bedding
- Wash some light shades
Christmas Extras
- Make a timetable for christmas prepartions.. turkey in.. turkey out.. etc
- Spend 30 minutes just having time for yourself, whatever it is doing.
- Chase up any deliveries you are waiting for that have not arrived
Friday - Let's play catchy-up
Level One...
S&S the
kitchen and bathroom
Spend 30
minute pampering yourself!!
Level Two...
Catch up the
the window washing
Catch up on
the floor mopping/vacuuming
Catch up on
the dewebbing and dusting!
Level Three...
Collect ALL
the dirty laundry from about the house inc and bedding that needs changing..
Spend 15
minutes on your filing
Clean ALL the
filters and drawers etc on the kitchen appliances
Extras
- Wipe down ALL the paintwork you keep putting off
- Choose a manky kitchen cupboard and make it shine.. the inside.. NOT the outside!
- Clean out any pets/wash pet bedding. Let's get these smelling nice for Christmas 🙂
- Clean the pantry or airing cupboard or understairs cupboard or shed..
Christmas Extras
- Post cards you need to post. The strikes are going to make if difficult to get cards/presents to their destinations so post early if you can.
- Wrap presents for family/friends/teachers etc as you buy them
- Wipe out the freezer.. defrost if needed!!
- Straighten the baubles and lights on the christmas tree.. and if you haven't done it.. get it up stop being such a humbug, it's now 2nd December so the tree can go up.
- Write and send christmas cards!!
- Stick all your cards, that you've received, up!!
- Update remaining present lists!!!
- Make a timetable for christmas prepartions.. turkey in.. turkey out.. etc!!! You get the gist of it....
Declutter Challenge 2025
DH declutter challenge award 🏅⭐️
Comments
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I'm in this week
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I'm in too 😊IT ONLY TAKES SMALL DAILY ACTIONSFOR MAGIC TO HAPPENRosemary Ikpeme8
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I'm in thank you for the lists.Fayre done, pleased with how it went both ££ and flingageBreast Cancer Now 100 miles October 2022 100 / 100miles
D- Day 80km June 2024 80/80km (10.06.24 all done)
Diabetic UK 1 million steps July 2024 to complete by end Sept 2024. 1,001,066/ 1,000,000 (20.09.24 all done)
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Diabetic UK 1 million steps July 2025 to complete by end Sept 2025. 291,815/1,000,000Sun, Sea8 -
Thank you Natty. Count me in.
Thank you Honey_Bear - it's been a good day.
Pleased to hear that your grandma is going to get the care she needs, Raphael.
Belated congratulations to Valli's DD.
(((Hugs))) spoons and sticks all round, as needed xxx7 -
I'm in too, although if dry then gardening will be a priority tomorrow. Thanks for the list.Spend less now, work less later.9
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Happy Birthday iona 💐 🎂🥂 xxIT ONLY TAKES SMALL DAILY ACTIONSFOR MAGIC TO HAPPENRosemary Ikpeme9
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I’m in too. Ooooh Happy Birthday Iona! I hope your day has been wonderful xxx
I still have three things hanging over from last week, so I’ve moved those to this week.
My absolutely must do by 4pm Friday is:
- Loads of paid stuff (time of year means it’s busier than normal). I think I’m doing 32 hours this week…
- Post the four Christmas cards we are sending this year!
- Ring APHA
- Take delivery of sheep - this was delayed by a week
- sort a gap in fencing
- send some money to my newly set up ISA 🤗🤗
- submit end of month electric meter read
- keep food spends below £10
- list two items on eBay
- order myself a diary for next year
- buy a plumbing part from local DIY shop
- keep everyone fed and alive
- bake - we have no sweet treats in at all
WM is on so I can peg out before I leave in the morning. I half heartedly mopped the kitchen floor and swished the bathroom sink before I came to bed.
Sweet dreams all xx8 -
Happy Birthday Iona
Happy Lancashire day all
Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY"I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily DickinsonJanice 1964-2016
Thank you Honey Bear7 -
Happy Birthday Iona 🎂
I’m in, trying to do better.Dyson dehaired on put on charge
uniform ironed
DS2 visited and his place cleaned 🧽
Bath mats washed
lunch bag prepared
off to bed now7 -
Thanks for the lists. Somewhat alarmed by the prospect of "last minute" Christmas presents.......it isn't even the right month yet!
Having said that, I've gone through The Big Give and chosen "presents" ready when it opens on Tuesday.
Lots of bits today: have written more cards, crossed a few more things off the list, done a bit more of a report, gone to church and was asked to read - not that I mind, it was Isaiah which I love.
Went through various web sites with Mr N to sort out what else we are going to do when we go to London for the ballet next week, i.e. best places to see Christmas lights without paying a fortune (Kew Gardens £21.50 for example - not a chance!). I think walking up Regent Street and round Covent Garden will do us absolutely fine.
Also went online to see the Bournemouth light trail map as they have a fantastic Christmas tree display which is free. Need to plan it carefully as Mum gets tired quickly; however, we are down with her in 2 weeks time as well as over Christmas so she can see it in several stages if she needs to.
Have a good week everyone, don't stress. Happy mating Raphael......Remember...a layer of dust protects the wood beneath it.6
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