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Welcome to the weekly Flylady Thread.
What is FLYLADY? Well, it's our version of the
US flylady idea - but we work on the principle that housework is not fun, it's
boring, can be time-consuming, is often thankless but, unfortunately,
necessary. It's here on Old Style to provide the support we all need and to
make the whole task easier and quicker. We also accept that, sometimes, life
just gets on top of us and we can't keep up, maybe because we're time-poor, not
in the best of health and/or we have littlies who need us. We are definitely
NOT control freaks aiming for perfection and utterly spotless show-homes.
You're more than welcome to join us in the
everlasting battle against dust, grime and gibble. The aim of our thread is to
make those onerous tasks less daunting, and to support each other - and to make
time for the finer things in life!
Please do remember we have to abide by MSE
rules; each post should, ideally, include some mention of flying.
Thank you Valli for last week's thread.
Please follow the forum rules on this thread as
Flylady has been here a LONG time and is a fabulous support and resource for
lots of us. All posts should have some Flylady-related content! (i.e. it should
be on-topic)
The idea is that even if you are really busy you don't need
to fall off the wagon!
Every room comes back around next week so please don’t stress
about catching up
These lists are only suggestions and not a must
do list; you are more than welcome to post and follow your own lists. Also
adding a declutter mission each day will help to gradually clear the clutter
and make flying easier.
A few of the basics before we start the week –
Hotspots are areas where if
one thing gets put there, loads of other things follow!
Daily routines are anything you need to do on a
daily basis like washing, swish and swipe kitchen and bathroom, ironing, making
beds, vacuuming high traffic areas, making meals etc.
Night-time routines are all things which make
getting ready in the morning easier, preparing clothes for the next day, making
lunches, swish & swipes of the kitchen and tidying the living room before
you go to bed plus personals like shower/brush teeth etc.
Fling Boogie - stick on some loud music, grab a
bin bag and whiz around the house finding items that can go out with the
rubbish, recycling, for charity shop, basically anything that will stop it
cluttering your home.
Swish and swipe/S&S means have a quick wipe
over an area such as a sink or toilet to prevent the build up of dirt. This is
usually done on a daily basis
HHE/HHC/HHI Half Hour exercise/challenge/ironing ... run around for 30 minutes
to the Benny Hill music frantically cleaning exercising or ironing.. other
music may be used if you prefer!
WM ~
Washing machine
TD ~
Tumble dryer
SC ~
Slowcooker
BM ~
Breadmaker
DW ~
Dishwasher
SOAADFA ~ Sit on 'bottom' and do 'nothing'
KH/XH/FW ~ Ex-husband and other not so polite versions
DH/DD/DS/DW/DP ~ Dear
husband/daughter/son/wife/partner/whatever
OH/SO ~
Other half/significant other
NN ~
nice neighbour
Toxic (friend/mother/sister/whoever)
~ person in your life that seems to exist to make your life miserable
AF ~
Aunt Flo 'time of the month'.. nothing to do with flying but it comes up often.
ETA ~
Edited to add
Gibble ~ miscellaneous crap that appears forever homeless
Dot-to-dot ~ pick a small area (not a whole room) like a
chair/coffee/table/shelf/worktop or wherever- thats your first 'dot' - totally
clear it - clean it - and only put back what should be there - deal with what
you have removed (not just move it somewhere else) then if you have time move
on and do the same to another 'dot' -the idea is just like a dot to dot puzzle,
you aim to join up all the dots and have a tidy room. The trick is to keep each
dot tidy until you get them all joined up! All credit to AnW's
Mum for
this one
RoD ~
Room of Doom, the one room that feels like it is a permanent pit and cannot be
used to its potential!
MAD half hour- Mad is the abbreviation for
Make A Difference.
The idea is that you have a Forth bridge (ie
never-ending - or just huge) task but that you work on it in half-hour bursts.
This way you know you ARE stooping, and that you won't get it finished but you
will make a difference - so it might be clearing out - the garage or shed, or
clothes sorting, or weeding - you get the picture - but rather than keep going
until you've lost the will to live you do half an hour...but, eventually those
half hours will get the job done!
Mr S/A/T/M/L/Al - supermarkets Sainsburys, Asda, Tesco,
Morrisons, Lidl, Aldi. You get the picture!!
Click here to read Toots wonderful
welcome guide
Ok here goes
this week!
Monday Melee ~ Kitchen and Dining Room
Level One...
Clear and wipe kitchen surfaces
Clear 1 window sill
Open windows and let in that summer sun!!!!
Level Two..
Sweep and mop floors
Scrub out the sticky fridge!
Wipe dining table.. (clean table cloth if
necessary)
Level Three..
Dust any extra furniture in dining area,
checking for cobwebs on way round
Wipe and replace all those small appliances..
kettle, toaster etc
Clean cupboard door fronts and fronts of
appliances .. don't forget those kick boards..
Clean out your mankiest kitchen cupboard..
Extra Mission : help yourself
- Clean the hob
- Wipe down any tiles and shine those taps.. a toothbrush is great for cleaning away the gunk!
- 32 fling boogie..
- Phone someone you love just to tell them so!
- Empty the bin.. wash it out.. and make it smell SWEET
Tuesday
Twister! ~ Living room, halls and stairs
Level One..
Vacuum floors and sofas and hall and stairs
Level Two...
Dusting, even if around everything
Remove clutter making sure stairs especially are
safe and no-one can have any accidents falling down them...
Clean TV, other electricals and cabinets
HHI
Level Three...
Wipe and water plants, or better still gather them all up, then run some water in the bath and put your plants in the bath for a couple of hours to have a lovely soak...
Sort through a dumping drawer/cupboard
Vacuum under furniture you can manage to move
without hurting yourself
Extra Mission: Pick one or more of the
following tasks
- Clean windows & any other glass like mirrors, pictures etc
- Sort through shoes and coats and bags
- Binbag dance.. Get a binbag.. fill it and bin it!!!
- Wash any cushions, throws or curtains that need it
Wednesday
Winging & Flinging ~ Bathroom and Study/Pc Area
Level One...
Open windows
and let fresh air in through the house..
Clear floors
of guff and stuff
Muck out any
pets make them all smelling sweet we don’t want stinky pets in the hot weather….
Level Two...
Clean baths, toilets,
don't forget the outside! and sinks
Clear any
clutter from desk
Dust PC and
desk and wipe off those cup rings!!
Wipe keyboard,
house phone, sockets, switches and mouse etc
Level Three...
Wash your
bathroom mats, nets, clean blind/curtains, shower curtains etc
Wipe down
tiles in bathroom.. defragment your pc while doing this.
Empty and
clean out all the upstairs bins!
Sweep and mop
and deslop the floors in these rooms.
Collect all
the dirty laundry
Extra mission: Take your pick!
- Wipe the skirtings, door and window frames in these rooms
- Wipe the tops of the cabinets and cupboards in therse rooms
- Fling all those empty bottles and tubes
- Replace any sponges, flannels, toiletries that need it
- HHI... a bit more gone!
Thursday
Thllliiing!~ Master Bedroom & Landing
Level One...
Check fire alarms are working
Remove and wash bed linen and duvet covers.
Fling open the window and let in the fresh air
Level Two...
Dust surfaces & make sure no cobwebs..
Vacuum & turn mattress before replacing with
fresh linen..
Air the duvet
15 minutes floordrobe clearance
Level Three...
Vacuum floors in bedroom and on landing
Sort through the cupboard and fling everything
that no longer fits
Clear a hotspot.. or spend 15 minutes clearing
one.
Extra tasks list, as usual choose one or more
- 34 fling boogie time, go on grab a bag and clear that clutter
- Clean all the upstairs door frames
- Clean windows in these rooms
- Clear the top of a bedside cupboard/chest of drawers or shelf
Friday Frenzy
~ those frightening kids rooms and spare rooms
Level One...
Open the windows and let in the fresh air...
Clear away anything that isn't in it's place,
clothes, toys, books etc
Level Two...
Make an appointment for some ME-time..
hairdressers? manicure? night out with friends? .. whatever just do it!
Level Three...
Vacuum the floor
Dusting.. all those shelves and flat fluffy
surfaces!! Don’t forget the light shade and curtain pole!!!
Strip beds, turn and vacuum mattresses!! and
replace with fresh linen .. check if duvets need freshening up too!!
Clean 2 windows
Grab a toy box and throw/rehome anything that is
no longer wanted.. it'll be chrimbo before we know it and we need the space!!
Wipe any sticky marks off walls and doors
Extra Task List
- Wipe the radiators, skirtings and window & door frames!
- HHI
- End of week fling!! grab a binbag and fill it with stuff to leave the house.. rubbish or charity shop or to donate to a friend!
- Vacuum the floor
- Update bank accounts/finances
- Bake a cake/buns/Twinks hobnobs with the children..
Declutter Challenge 2025
DH declutter challenge award 🏅⭐️
Comments
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Thank you for the new list, Natty x - and thanks to Valli for last week's x
Great to have you back in the Flylady fold, Dizzy x
DH is doing OK - thanks for all good wishes. He still hasn't been out of the house, but it's been raining so I haven't insisted.
This evening our meal included 3 runner beans and a dozen French beans harvested from the garden.
Tomorrow morning my friend K is coming round to help me clean windows, for which I shall pay her in cake! I shall let her get on with it while I dust and hoover. Everywhere is tidy, apart from the usual RoD = study. I have a heap of admin with four very short deadlines, but I did manage to write a report yesterday, so that's one thing off the list.
Gentle strokes to Littleydog and (((hugs))) spoons and sticks to everyone else xx
10 -
I'm back and needing to tackle all the cobwebs which have sprung up in our absence. Garden looks dreadful; so many crispy plants, it was really upsetting to walk round. We're just focusing on hanging baskets/patio pots and edibles for watering now and also saving any washing up water etc to chuck over things. Tiny amount of rain this evening, don't imagine it will make any difference.
It was a couple of degrees cooler in the Peak District so we had a fab time, I managed to get in 2 wild swims.
Hugs, spoons etc to all.Remember...a layer of dust protects the wood beneath it.10 -
Ah Narco… yes it’s a bit cooler up there. We get snow up there and it’s fine here. I don’t miss DS’s footballing days when we had to head up to Buxton for a match…
I’ve lost my reading glasses…I think I might have left them in the pub on Thursday but when I ring it either doesn’t get answered or goes to a busy message.
a bit of tidying today and some slimy carrots have made it into the compost bin - and my ironing is up to date.
I itch where I’m stitched. Hopefully the plasters will stop me scratching and ripping myself open.Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY"I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily DickinsonJanice 1964-2016
Thank you Honey Bear9 -
I've been run ragged again.. and I will be all week.. I get to sit down on Sunday.. if I am lucky!!
I may be meeting myself coming back.
LB moment 10/06 Debt Free date 6/6/14Hope to be debt free until the day I dieMortgage-free Wannabee (05/08/30)6/6/14 £72,454.65 (5.65% int.)08/12/2023 £33602.00 (4.81% int.)8 -
Morning all
Hoping to rejoin if you will have me? Life has rather overwhelmed me the last few weeks / months… not sure how long it’s been. Have been following along with you all, sending hugs, sticks, spoons and GWS wishes to any in need.
Flying has been the basics only, and it shows! Work as always is busy but I need to get back in to a flying routine. Will be my own lists I think so I’m starting at the top of the house in my office… as I have to spend a lot of time there I want it to be a pleasant space. I’ve been needing that ‘blur background’ function on video calls rather too much recently!
righto, cuppa first, then a walk for some fresh air before I begin!
back later…9 -
Morning all
going into the office today and I am walking there….not least because I cannot drive.
hope you all have a good dayDon't put it DOWN; put it AWAY"I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily DickinsonJanice 1964-2016
Thank you Honey Bear9 -
Morning ladies
Thank you for the lists as always, and welcome back to Dizzy and Badcat.
Positive stuff first - our pigs arrived yesterday and we’re in love already 💕💕
Annoyingly I have tested positive for the lurgy this morning (I just knew deep down I had it), feels just like a heavy cold at present TBH. I am going to spend some time ebaying to bring some much needed funds in, I’d forgotten how much the children eat when they’re off school!
Sending very gentle hugs to you Valli, I wish I could help in some way.
Right I’m off to feed the pigs and bleach my teaspoons xx
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Me again
well 30mins has restored order to my office!- All surfaces dusted
- Bedding taken off sofa bed (only been a week since we had guests
) and bed folded up
- Wm run with bedding and pegged out…with one eye on the weather
- Windows cleaned
- Paperwork stacked, still needs sorting but at least it’s tidied now
- Basket of gibble that belongs in other rooms put outside, again needs to be sorted later
- Mugs (wondered where they all were lol) glasses etc in to DW
- Vac run
- All office items not in use put away
- Bin emptied
Much better! I can work now, I’ve allocated another 30mins later to do some admin then that will also clear the paperwork pile (it’s not all work but I reckon they owe me the hours that I can take some time out of the working day to do that!)Baby steps and all that, target to do next room tomorrow or sooner if I have time.10 -
Thank you for the lists.Bed stripped and remadeWM x 2 done out on whirlyKitchen doneWhole house hooveredCar taken to garage for service and MOT, walked backThroughly cleaned where cat eat, as they 'love' to drag their food across the floor.Cleaned inside of conservatory windowsTook hand brush and have brushed out side of all window ledges to remove cobwebs etc. yukeby parcel to post, nearest Post Office is approx 2 miles away, so I'll walk there and back, that should be walking done for the day, with the other steps I have already done today.Keep safeBreast Cancer Now 100 miles October 2022 100 / 100miles
D- Day 80km June 2024 80/80km (10.06.24 all done)
Diabetic UK 1 million steps July 2024 to complete by end Sept 2024. 1,001,066/ 1,000,000 (20.09.24 all done)
Breast Cancer Now 100 miles 1st May 2025 (18.05.2025 all done)
Diabetic UK 1 million steps July 2025 to complete by end Sept 2025. 504,789 / 1,000,000Sun, Sea11 -
Morning xx
Taken my car to the garage to get exhaust fixed, walked back.
Made my bed, WULTD a bowl of pots, bowl refilled with remaining pots, fed the birds, taken out the recycling.
I didn't feel well at the weekend- so minimum flying done: got all my laundry washed and dried on Saturday though so not completely idle. I did a test for the lurgy yesterday but it was negative. But I still feel bleurgh.
Take care my lovelies. Good to see some 'old' faces back 👋
RxxIT ONLY TAKES SMALL DAILY ACTIONSFOR MAGIC TO HAPPENRosemary Ikpeme10
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