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Getting the balance right

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  • LadyWithAPlan
    LadyWithAPlan Posts: 3,771 Forumite
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    That wild swim looks amazing!
    You definitely need to look after yourself, your mental and physical health has to be put first including adventures. 
    Sorry to hear re your OH but it sounds like you are facing that situation square on and starting to financially make plans and save  to look after yourself which is super important. 
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    No seriously, just don’t buy things. 99% of our success with our savings rate is attributed to the fact that we don’t buy things... You can and should take advantage of discounts.... But at the end of the day, the only way to truly save money is to not buy stuff.    Money doesn’t walk out of your wallet on its own accord.
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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,974 Ambassador
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    Must admit I don't use braw!
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  • elantan
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    edited 27 July 2022 at 7:39PM
    greent said:
    Yep - braw is not used in England (well, certainly not down in Glos) - although I have a Glaswegian friend who educates me in all sorts of words used in Scotland. I love regional dialects :) 
    aye weedgie itself has it's own words ... I speak kinda weedgie tbh, I meet a lot of people every day and very often they play guess where El is from, i was born in England but have lived all over so have accents from everywhere, i tend to speak a fair bit of weedgie with some fife, doric, welsh and English thrown into the mix 

    It is important to remember that Scot's is a language all on it's own 
  • elantan
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    I seem to be picking up a lot of Scottish just from the diaries on MFW 🤣!
    I can think of worse ways to pick up a language  :D  :D
  • elantan
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    badmemory said:
    Which all goes to prove that the teaching of english lit has sunk over the years.  Alright so it has been over 60 years but what happened to - A braw bricht moonlit nicht the nicht?  Just showing off my memory here before dementia is a fact not a worry!  Worry intensified today as "friend" when asked this morning if I could borrow his carpet cleaner asked me if he had one.  He is a few weeks younger than me.  Scary time - asked my son who confirmed that is where we borrowed last time.  This second guessing is a killer!
    That's what a certain Spice girl said, I still thought braw was universal lol

    Aye my memory ain't so great either anymore sadly 
  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 29,034 Forumite
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    I guessed at what braw meant and just checked and I was right. I too pick up all sorts of vocab here
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £172.5K Equity 36.11%
    2) £1.6K Net savings after CCs 14/8/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £25.6K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 31.4/£127.5K target 24.6% 1/9/25
    (If took bigger lump sum = 53.3K or 41.8%)
    4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise)
    (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
    5) SIPP £4.8K updated 29/7/25
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,974 Ambassador
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    My hairdresser is from Glasgow, keep wondering if I'm brave enough to get her to say "There's been a murder...." 🤔🤣
    Go on!!!  :)
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    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

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    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
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  • elantan
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    My hairdresser is from Glasgow, keep wondering if I'm brave enough to get her to say "There's been a murder...." 🤔🤣
    that would have me laughing     just dont do ye olde   FREEEEEEDOM that would dae me heid in  :D  :D 
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