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  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 29,051 Forumite
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    Sorry it's so tough. If he gets on with the boss above I'd be tempted to have a word or with HR before leaving in case there's any chance his boss could get the push. 

    I have left places I felt unsupported - never mind places with active bullying.
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £172.5K Equity 36.11%
    2) £1.8K Net savings after CCs 13/9/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £26.8K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 32.6/£127.5K target 25.6% 13/9/25
    (If took bigger lump sum = 54.5K or 42.7%)
    4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise)
    (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
    5) SIPP £4.8K updated 13/9/25
  • Jessy103
    Jessy103 Posts: 2,351 Forumite
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    Best of luck to you and Mr F x
    Mortgage Balance as of September 2025 £11,700
    Starting Mortgage Balance (June 2019) £72,000.
    Aiming to be mortgage free by my 40th birthday, June 2026!
  • maggiem
    maggiem Posts: 1,958 Forumite
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    Good luck to you both, sounds like a good plan to me. I was made redundant at the end of September one year and didn't work again for a while. I rand the tax office in Maythe following year and actually the refund came relatively quickly, 7 days or so rather than weeks. Must admit to being pleasantly surprised! This year I thought it likely I was due a small refund, having finished paid work at the end of August. I had a refund e mail a week or so ago without me prompting HMRC and it was paid in about 5 days. Hope that is somewhat reassuring. 
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,272 Ambassador
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    So sorry to read this.
    It is be beyond the pale that people get away with unacceptable behaviour like this & it has such an impact on people's lives.
    I am glad that you have a plan x
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  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 29,051 Forumite
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    Good you have a joint plan and are supporting each other.
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £172.5K Equity 36.11%
    2) £1.8K Net savings after CCs 13/9/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £26.8K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 32.6/£127.5K target 25.6% 13/9/25
    (If took bigger lump sum = 54.5K or 42.7%)
    4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise)
    (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
    5) SIPP £4.8K updated 13/9/25
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