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Debt and Caring

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  • doingitanyway
    doingitanyway Posts: 10,708 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Mortgage-free Glee!
    I baked a fruit cake a few weeks ago. I couldn't stop eating it. I won't bake another unless I am expecting lots of people!
    If you have built castles in the air, your work should not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them

    Emergency fund 350/1000
    Buffer fund 100/100
    Debt Free (again) 25/07/2025
  • Did I buy vegetables to eat yesterday? Yes. Did I eat vegetables yesterday? No.
    I've reached that point of tiredness and boredom where I could not do another responsible thing if you held a gun to my head. So yesterday was a binge day of beige food and sugar. Today I have vegetables.

  • doingitanyway
    doingitanyway Posts: 10,708 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Mortgage-free Glee!
    What about soup? Then it is there when you are tired and CBA
    You could even take it in a food flask for work?
    If you have built castles in the air, your work should not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them

    Emergency fund 350/1000
    Buffer fund 100/100
    Debt Free (again) 25/07/2025
  • I did think soup at one point. I just didn't like any of the flasks that were available to buy at the time and didn't want to end up with another kitchen gadget that I don't use. 
    Also still finding it difficult to prioritise really. 

  • Started my day thinking negative thoughts about the bar of soap being messy and annoying. It redeemed itself however when I ran out of shower gel and it came to the rescue.
    Full on child care day yesterday, not much achieved otherwise. 
  • doingitanyway
    doingitanyway Posts: 10,708 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Mortgage-free Glee!
    But a bar of really good soap is one of life's little luxuries...
    If you have built castles in the air, your work should not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them

    Emergency fund 350/1000
    Buffer fund 100/100
    Debt Free (again) 25/07/2025
  • This was a 30p bar of soap 🤣
  • The soap will come in handy this evening. I've just spent two hours trying to clear the allotment so I can hand it back. The best I can say about it is that I did it and only fell once 🤦‍♂️ I imagine the next plot holder cursing my name when they encounter all my bodges. 
    Sad though it is, I like the idea of being an allotment person more than I actually did any allotment work. 
    I bribed myself to go with a KFC cookie and promised myself fish and chips if I did it. And I got three books in the charity shop on the way home where I had the rather pleasant thought that at least now I can spend money on what I actually like.

  • Well done for getting it done. It sounds the right decision for current you at this stage in life 
    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6466032/an-in-between-phase/p1

    'self-blame can be as egotistical as self-praise... any work worth doing is greater than we are... we must not overrate our importance to it, either for good or ill' Margaret Kennedy Lucy Carmichael
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