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  • jwil
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    Sorry you are still in pain.  Hope the viewings go well tomorrow.
    "Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee
  • beanielou
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    4000  :(   :D
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  • savingholmes
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    beanielou said:
    4000  :(   :D
    I'm lost. What does this refer to Beanie?
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £172.5K Equity 36.11%
    2) £1.8K Net savings after CCs 13/9/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £26.8K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 32.6/£127.5K target 25.6% 13/9/25
    (If took bigger lump sum = 54.5K or 42.7%)
    4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise)
    (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
    5) SIPP £4.8K updated 13/9/25
  • doingitanyway
    doingitanyway Posts: 10,169 Forumite
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    Enjoy your time with your friend.

    Soup sounds a great option.

    Hope your pain improves soon. Hope you manage to boost your step count - but there's evidence to say even 4000 steps make a difference. Currently I'm barely at 2000 steps. Definitely need to improve.
    Thank you. I didn't meet my friend in the end. We were both a bit tired so we will do it another time.
    If you have built castles in the air, your work should not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them

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  • jwil
    jwil Posts: 22,231 Forumite
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    Glad the pain is improving.

    It's good that the house still feels right for you and I hope it all comes through for you.  It must be very frustrating getting the unsolicited advice, even if it's meant with good intentions.  
    "Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,111 Ambassador
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    beanielou said:
    4000  :(   :D
    I'm lost. What does this refer to Beanie?
    4000 steps.  You said even 4000 steps was good.
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • savingholmes
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    beanielou said:
    beanielou said:
    4000  :(   :D
    I'm lost. What does this refer to Beanie?
    4000 steps.  You said even 4000 steps was good.
    Ah. Sorry 😔. I'm a long way off that currently.

    DIA glad the pain has improved. I can very well imagine what concerned friends and relatives are suggesting. Sounds frustrating and stressful. 
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £172.5K Equity 36.11%
    2) £1.8K Net savings after CCs 13/9/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £26.8K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 32.6/£127.5K target 25.6% 13/9/25
    (If took bigger lump sum = 54.5K or 42.7%)
    4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise)
    (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
    5) SIPP £4.8K updated 13/9/25
  • doingitanyway
    doingitanyway Posts: 10,169 Forumite
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    jwil said:
    Glad the pain is improving.

    It's good that the house still feels right for you and I hope it all comes through for you.  It must be very frustrating getting the unsolicited advice, even if it's meant with good intentions.  

    DIA glad the pain has improved. I can very well imagine what concerned friends and relatives are suggesting. Sounds frustrating and stressful. 
    Thank you @jwil the pain is definitely improving. No pain meds today and minimal discomfort.

    Thank you @savingholmes it is frustrating and stressful.

    Today, was a good day as I slept the night through without being disturbed by pain. I took no pain meds today. I used some natural balm, that was mostly psychological, but at least gave me a little massage. I did 20 minutes of yoga that felt really good to do. Afterwards my body was much more relaxed, so hopefully tonight will be ok too. I don't have a mat, so used a towel on the floor.

    I picked up my mattress-topper. Looking forward to using it tonight to improve my sleeping experience. It is a natural wool with cotton cover so breathable. 

    House-wise I was actually contacted by the EA for feedback on my viewing and to check I was still interested. That was a surprise and I wonder if all the viewings (six) were fruitful. I kept it casual and said I was still interested and the visit had confirmed my original feelings about the house. I suggested the EA might want to contact me tomorrow to check-in. I got an email straight back saying she is speaking with the vendors today and will call me tomorrow. 

    We shall see...

    I hope everyone is ok



     


    If you have built castles in the air, your work should not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them

    Emergency fund 800/1000
    Buffer fund 0/100
    Debt Free (again) 25/072025
  • jwil
    jwil Posts: 22,231 Forumite
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    Fingers crossed for a positive call with the EA today 
    "Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee
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