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Sorting a marriage

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  • Comms69
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    RobHT said:
    AskAsk said:
    elsien said:
    I predict that finding a woman to marry you is really not going to be an issue for you,  so no need to worry your pretty little head about it all. 
    lol.  to be fair mind, the OP may only be protecting his interests if the wife leaves him.  he may be a good husband while she is a good wife to him.  he is only talking about what happens if she was to leave him, like she has an affair and decide to leave him say.

    women end up with worst partners, those that beat them and does very little around the house.  forget about money split when they separate, they get the bad bit even when they are together.  and yet, women will find themselves getting involved with men like these. 

    the OP is also foreign, so his language may not be as etiquette as we are used to   :)
    Good boy, I was talking about to be a good husband obviously, and everyone gets his own things at the end of the fairy tale, but now I understand that this is the case of "no marriage", good stuff, story clarified.

    Women that choose bad husbands is an old story, it's not here the place to discuss that because I'm quite sure someone is gonna ban me, difficult to understand that matter.

    Then, I need to be honest, the tremendous amount of bad men here is incredible, I've seen the same in another country but the crime level was extremely low and people happy (yes, higher level of happiness than here), but guess what, women very powerful and indipendent with zero rights towards men, so actually they can take care of themeselves and this makes them proud as hell, here all to cry to the lawyer... Do you spot any weird thing here?
    But again, I don't care about it, I'm 100% sure do not do bad things, maximum she will leave me for some !!!!!!, as it happened in the past, yes, also for money, but that's normal right? :D  Since when they don't pretend money :D .

    Before someone also mentioned the quality women... Mate, in the London zone I can only see the quality !!!!!! at skyrocketing level :D , here only about money :) , and don't cry saying that is not true, I may understand up north like on the Scotland edge, maybe there is a bit different.

    I also still need to see the series of "men gold diggers", send me a message if you see any :D .
    Idiot sentence I know, but watch out, simple comment for a simple thing, science is not that difficult!
    That's the only reason you think people end relationships for? You do appear quite naive. 
  • It's called being divorce rap*d for a reason.
    When Adele had to stump up millions earlier on in the year women were outraged.......they never say a word when the wealth is coming their way though ( which happens in the vast majority of cases)
  • elsien
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    It's called being divorce rap*d for a reason.
    When Adele had to stump up millions earlier on in the year women were outraged.......they never say a word when the wealth is coming their way though ( which happens in the vast majority of cases)
    Now there's an offensive turn of phrase if ever I heard one. Really no comparison. 
    All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.

    Pedant alert - it's could have, not could of.
  • AskAsk
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    edited 26 August 2020 at 12:16PM
    RobHT said:
    AskAsk said:
    elsien said:
    I predict that finding a woman to marry you is really not going to be an issue for you,  so no need to worry your pretty little head about it all. 
    lol.  to be fair mind, the OP may only be protecting his interests if the wife leaves him.  he may be a good husband while she is a good wife to him.  he is only talking about what happens if she was to leave him, like she has an affair and decide to leave him say.

    women end up with worst partners, those that beat them and does very little around the house.  forget about money split when they separate, they get the bad bit even when they are together.  and yet, women will find themselves getting involved with men like these. 

    the OP is also foreign, so his language may not be as etiquette as we are used to   :)
    Good boy, I was talking about to be a good husband obviously, and everyone gets his own things at the end of the fairy tale, but now I understand that this is the case of "no marriage", good stuff, story clarified.

    Women that choose bad husbands is an old story, it's not here the place to discuss that because I'm quite sure someone is gonna ban me, difficult to understand that matter.

    Then, I need to be honest, the tremendous amount of bad men here is incredible, I've seen the same in another country but the crime level was extremely low and people happy (yes, higher level of happiness than here), but guess what, women very powerful and indipendent with zero rights towards men, so actually they can take care of themeselves and this makes them proud as hell, here all to cry to the lawyer... Do you spot any weird thing here?
    But again, I don't care about it, I'm 100% sure do not do bad things, maximum she will leave me for some !!!!!!, as it happened in the past, yes, also for money, but that's normal right? :D  Since when they don't pretend money :D .

    Before someone also mentioned the quality women... Mate, in the London zone I can only see the quality !!!!!! at skyrocketing level :D , here only about money :) , and don't cry saying that is not true, I may understand up north like on the Scotland edge, maybe there is a bit different.

    I also still need to see the series of "men gold diggers", send me a message if you see any :D .
    Idiot sentence I know, but watch out, simple comment for a simple thing, science is not that difficult!
    i would say don't get married.  just co-habit.  you will still be recognised as man and wife in society as "partner" is recognised in the UK, since so many people live together these days without getting married, it is quite normal.

    you may find that your partner wants to get married, and this is where things may go wrong as then the relationship breaks up if one partner wants to get married and the other one doesn't.
  • Pollycat
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    Mojisola said:
    When Adele had to stump up millions earlier on in the year women were outraged.......
    Don't you mean 'some women'?
    Others, like me, thought it was fair because the law applies equally to everyone.

    I didn't even read about it. :D
    But I too would have thought it was fair.
  • NBLondon
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    Rob - you may find mgtow.com more to your liking...
    I need to think of something new here...
  • Comms69
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    NBLondon said:
    Rob - you may find mgtow.com more to your liking...
    I was thinking more r/incels....
  • NBLondon
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    Comms69 said:
    NBLondon said:
    Rob - you may find mgtow.com more to your liking...
    I was thinking more r/incels....
    There's a definite overlap in membership :wink:
    I need to think of something new here...
  • Savvy_Sue
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    Must we encourage him?

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