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  • Merlin's_Beard
    Merlin's_Beard Posts: 1,484 Forumite
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    badmemory said:
    If it goes up to over 10% we will all be in the ************.  Although I am old enough to remember having to pay 17%.  It just kept going up & up.  Fixes were not the norm then.
    Oh @badmemory if the interests rates go to 17%,  I think at that point the bankers will have decided they want to repossess as many houses as they can! House Prices have gone up so much the payments will be ridiculous! Well we just pray for the worst not to happen! I really need to ramp up my OPs in the meantime. X
    You have to think that something would happen to intervene if things started going that way - so many people would lose their house, and property is such a sensitive point when it comes to voting. I'm trying to go off the principle that as long as I can withstand a higher interest rate than most people (and most people don't OP!), I should be okay.
    Start mortgage date: August 2022; Start mortgage amount: £240,999; Original mortgage free date: August 2056
    Current mortgage amount: £226,957.97
    Start student loan 2012: £29,750; current student loan: CLEARED July 2025
  • badmemory
    badmemory Posts: 9,683 Forumite
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    If things get that bad again the loaners stop repossessing because they realise that something is better than nothing.   The reason Northern Rock went was that they were loaning more than the value of the property.  Anyone should have seen the disaster due to happen, that some people are still paying for.  I am just grateful that I am what is known up here as tight.  Single mother of one & my BS was bought out by Northern Rock.  That gave me a windfall of nearly £2.5k.  So I said to myself - the first really big holiday for over a decade, a big holiday & pay the rest of the mortgage, pay it all of the morgage.  Paid £2400 off the mortgage & the rest is history, as was the mortgage just before the redundancy notices came out (it didn't happen).  But the difference between the notices we had had a few years earlier (also never happened) & this one you wouldn't believe.
  • LadyWithAPlan
    LadyWithAPlan Posts: 3,752 Forumite
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    @LadyWithAPlan, that’s really lucky that the side hustle has become another stream of income! Well done! As it’s promising to give a return and you say you enjoy it it’s good to invest in yourself to bump up your skills so that you can do even more! So getting a one to one training is a good idea as you can learn what is relevant to you and fill the knowledge gaps. I think yes you should be able to afford £400k mortgage as it’s the amount at present for which I am paying just over £2k. You have also mentioned that you don’t mind stretching the term so that should lower it even further! Being single means you need to future proof by getting the longest term and then OP as you go along. 
    I think part of your delay in buying might just be that you have not “fallen too much in love” with any particular flat on sale! When it’s the right time you will be pushing to get “that flat”! 
    indeed everything I want is just that bit out of reach and with this many unpaid invoices I cant consider it.
    I only (ha!) want to go to 500k so I think that means I do need to go further out as I want a balcony or ideally a small garden or patio.. 
    If I go above then I lose my 25% H2B isa uplift - £1900 so far and not counted in my deposit figures.
    I think my next big goal is to get a 75%  LTV so I need £125k deposit plus 15k stamp duty (1st time buyer)  and fees - maybe more I think the solicitor fees.surveys  will be about 5k or am I underestimating?
    So I have a £40- 50k more savings goal (after my invoices paid!) - as long as my rent  and living expenses stays super low its a huge but doable target.. will need some miracles but i can work harder and smarter 
    As you say though I might see an amazing flat and have to have it!

    On the side hustle might buy this online course to take my skills next level $275 and also arranged to speak to friend as he may have suggestion on who to call or pay for a 1 2 1 on this tech issue.


    @badmemory well done for being 'tight'  and being so clever and clear with unexpected monies.

    @Merlin's I think they have to and should more aggressively help lower income and fixed income people with more energy help payments and funding food banks before  property owners. I remember my parents struggling with 15% mortgage rates and my dad being made redundant as a kid, it was very stressful so yes OP is the way.  
    DON'T BUY STUFF (from Frugalwoods)
    No seriously, just don’t buy things. 99% of our success with our savings rate is attributed to the fact that we don’t buy things... You can and should take advantage of discounts.... But at the end of the day, the only way to truly save money is to not buy stuff.    Money doesn’t walk out of your wallet on its own accord.
    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6289577/future-proofing-my-life-deposit-saving-then-mfw-journey-in-under-13-years#latest
  • jak
    jak Posts: 2,027 Forumite
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    Hello! Can I join you all? I've Loved reading about your house buying adventures. It's just so inspiring! 
    I'm a single Mum with a teenager. I've had an offer accepted on a house and it's actually feeling promising! I've had 2 houses fall through so hoping it's third time lucky! xxx
    2022 Comp total (prizes + free spins): £494.81 #20 £12 a day Jan: £382.95/£372 #57 360 1p challenge: £17.70 £10 a day Feb: £571.09/£280 March: £311.96/£310
  • Sweetie83
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    HelloB said:
    Just jumping in here to see how everyone is doing. 

    Firstly @Sistergold, you're doing so well! I love seeing your renovations savings pot go up and so glad your OPs have shaved a few years off the mortgage already.

    Secondly, well done to the other single ladies in actively engaging/planning home ownership. 

    When Sistergold started this thread during  the first covid lockdown, it kept me motivated to overpay my mortgage and save where possible. It was tough when lockdown lifted to not go on nice luxury holidays, as a pick me up. Although I had spent a small sum on putting in triple glazing windows and a new roof. 

    Here is my current position, with thanks to Sistergold's motivation and encouragement. 

    Mortgage as at 1 Jan 2020 £435k 
    5 years fixed rate at 1.68%
    Today 1 Aug 2022 £288k (just over half way of the 5 year fixed term) 

    With 10% overpayment allowed each year, I will have £200k mortgage remaining at 31 Dec 2024. I plan to have this £200k in residual savings/liquid investment, so should be in a position to pay off the entire residential mortgage by 31 Dec 2024. 🎉






    Wow that’s insane! Well done everyone really enjoying seeing everyone’s progress 
    DH, 2 DD and 2 cats. aiming to be mortgage free at 51, 10 years to go! Feb 19 £358k, Jan 21 £283K (using savings)July 22 £246K down to 17 year term, Mar 25 £177k 11.8 year term
  • Sistergold
    Sistergold Posts: 2,135 Forumite
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    badmemory said:
    If it goes up to over 10% we will all be in the ************.  Although I am old enough to remember having to pay 17%.  It just kept going up & up.  Fixes were not the norm then.
    Oh @badmemory if the interests rates go to 17%,  I think at that point the bankers will have decided they want to repossess as many houses as they can! House Prices have gone up so much the payments will be ridiculous! Well we just pray for the worst not to happen! I really need to ramp up my OPs in the meantime. X
    You have to think that something would happen to intervene if things started going that way - so many people would lose their house, and property is such a sensitive point when it comes to voting. I'm trying to go off the principle that as long as I can withstand a higher interest rate than most people (and most people don't OP!), I should be okay.
    Yes, I also am holding on to the fact that they can not just let it go out of hand, politics will kick fingers crossed! 
    Initial mortgage bal £487.5k, current £258k, target £243,750(halfway!)
    Mortgage start date first week of July 2019,
    Mortgage term 23yrs(end of June 2042🙇🏽♀️), 
    Target is to pay it off in 10years(by 2030🥳). 
    MFW#10 (2022/23 mfw#34)(2021 mfw#47)(2020 mfw#136)
    £12K in 2021 #54 (in 2020 #148)
    MFiT-T6#27
    To save £100K in 48months start 01/07/2020 Achieved 30/05/2023 👯♀️
    Am a single mom of 4. 
    Do not wait to buy a property, Buy a property and wait. 🤓
  • Sistergold
    Sistergold Posts: 2,135 Forumite
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    badmemory said:
    If things get that bad again the loaners stop repossessing because they realise that something is better than nothing.   The reason Northern Rock went was that they were loaning more than the value of the property.  Anyone should have seen the disaster due to happen, that some people are still paying for.  I am just grateful that I am what is known up here as tight.  Single mother of one & my BS was bought out by Northern Rock.  That gave me a windfall of nearly £2.5k.  So I said to myself - the first really big holiday for over a decade, a big holiday & pay the rest of the mortgage, pay it all of the morgage.  Paid £2400 off the mortgage & the rest is history, as was the mortgage just before the redundancy notices came out (it didn't happen).  But the difference between the notices we had had a few years earlier (also never happened) & this one you wouldn't believe.
    Good financial choices do pay off. Borrowing has been conducted sensibly after northern rock so hopefully most will just manage to keep going. 
    Initial mortgage bal £487.5k, current £258k, target £243,750(halfway!)
    Mortgage start date first week of July 2019,
    Mortgage term 23yrs(end of June 2042🙇🏽♀️), 
    Target is to pay it off in 10years(by 2030🥳). 
    MFW#10 (2022/23 mfw#34)(2021 mfw#47)(2020 mfw#136)
    £12K in 2021 #54 (in 2020 #148)
    MFiT-T6#27
    To save £100K in 48months start 01/07/2020 Achieved 30/05/2023 👯♀️
    Am a single mom of 4. 
    Do not wait to buy a property, Buy a property and wait. 🤓
  • Sistergold
    Sistergold Posts: 2,135 Forumite
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    @LadyWithAPlan, that’s really lucky that the side hustle has become another stream of income! Well done! As it’s promising to give a return and you say you enjoy it it’s good to invest in yourself to bump up your skills so that you can do even more! So getting a one to one training is a good idea as you can learn what is relevant to you and fill the knowledge gaps. I think yes you should be able to afford £400k mortgage as it’s the amount at present for which I am paying just over £2k. You have also mentioned that you don’t mind stretching the term so that should lower it even further! Being single means you need to future proof by getting the longest term and then OP as you go along. 
    I think part of your delay in buying might just be that you have not “fallen too much in love” with any particular flat on sale! When it’s the right time you will be pushing to get “that flat”! 
    indeed everything I want is just that bit out of reach and with this many unpaid invoices I cant consider it.
    I only (ha!) want to go to 500k so I think that means I do need to go further out as I want a balcony or ideally a small garden or patio.. 
    If I go above then I lose my 25% H2B isa uplift - £1900 so far and not counted in my deposit figures.
    I think my next big goal is to get a 75%  LTV so I need £125k deposit plus 15k stamp duty (1st time buyer)  and fees - maybe more I think the solicitor fees.surveys  will be about 5k or am I underestimating?
    So I have a £40- 50k more savings goal (after my invoices paid!) - as long as my rent  and living expenses stays super low its a huge but doable target.. will need some miracles but i can work harder and smarter 
    As you say though I might see an amazing flat and have to have it!

    On the side hustle might buy this online course to take my skills next level $275 and also arranged to speak to friend as he may have suggestion on who to call or pay for a 1 2 1 on this tech issue.


    @badmemory well done for being 'tight'  and being so clever and clear with unexpected monies.

    @Merlin's I think they have to and should more aggressively help lower income and fixed income people with more energy help payments and funding food banks before  property owners. I remember my parents struggling with 15% mortgage rates and my dad being made redundant as a kid, it was very stressful so yes OP is the way.  
    75%LTV is a very good starting point! £40k-£50k is not too far to go. You are on the final stretch now!!
    Initial mortgage bal £487.5k, current £258k, target £243,750(halfway!)
    Mortgage start date first week of July 2019,
    Mortgage term 23yrs(end of June 2042🙇🏽♀️), 
    Target is to pay it off in 10years(by 2030🥳). 
    MFW#10 (2022/23 mfw#34)(2021 mfw#47)(2020 mfw#136)
    £12K in 2021 #54 (in 2020 #148)
    MFiT-T6#27
    To save £100K in 48months start 01/07/2020 Achieved 30/05/2023 👯♀️
    Am a single mom of 4. 
    Do not wait to buy a property, Buy a property and wait. 🤓
  • Sistergold
    Sistergold Posts: 2,135 Forumite
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    HelloB said:
    Just jumping in here to see how everyone is doing. 

    Firstly @Sistergold, you're doing so well! I love seeing your renovations savings pot go up and so glad your OPs have shaved a few years off the mortgage already.

    Secondly, well done to the other single ladies in actively engaging/planning home ownership. 

    When Sistergold started this thread during  the first covid lockdown, it kept me motivated to overpay my mortgage and save where possible. It was tough when lockdown lifted to not go on nice luxury holidays, as a pick me up. Although I had spent a small sum on putting in triple glazing windows and a new roof. 

    Here is my current position, with thanks to Sistergold's motivation and encouragement. 

    Mortgage as at 1 Jan 2020 £435k 
    5 years fixed rate at 1.68%
    Today 1 Aug 2022 £288k (just over half way of the 5 year fixed term) 

    With 10% overpayment allowed each year, I will have £200k mortgage remaining at 31 Dec 2024. I plan to have this £200k in residual savings/liquid investment, so should be in a position to pay off the entire residential mortgage by 31 Dec 2024. 🎉






    Oh @HelloB wow you have been quietly doing well in the background! You have brought down the mortgage so much! At this rate end of 2024 to pay off seems an achievable target! So lucky you are on a fixed mortgage with all that’s going on!  
    Initial mortgage bal £487.5k, current £258k, target £243,750(halfway!)
    Mortgage start date first week of July 2019,
    Mortgage term 23yrs(end of June 2042🙇🏽♀️), 
    Target is to pay it off in 10years(by 2030🥳). 
    MFW#10 (2022/23 mfw#34)(2021 mfw#47)(2020 mfw#136)
    £12K in 2021 #54 (in 2020 #148)
    MFiT-T6#27
    To save £100K in 48months start 01/07/2020 Achieved 30/05/2023 👯♀️
    Am a single mom of 4. 
    Do not wait to buy a property, Buy a property and wait. 🤓
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